April 28, 2025

Real Men Feel: Andy Grant's Metallica Journey

An Emotional Journey With Metallica

In this f-bomb-filled episode, recorded moments after Saturday's Metallica show, host Andy Grant shares his profound love for Metallica. He recounts attending three shows in one week from the pit. From winning snake pit passes in Syracuse to meeting Lars Ulrich and Rob Trujillo in Toronto, Andy dives deep into his memorable experiences, the band's upcoming documentary, and his passionate connection with Metallica.

He also reflects on the kindness of the Canadian people and the camaraderie among fellow Metallica fans from around the world.

00:00 Introduction and Metallica Love
00:36 Meeting Lars and Rob
01:50 Toronto Adventures
03:34 Concert Highlights
04:24 Memorable Interactions
06:41 Conclusion and Farewell

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#RealMenFeel ep 350

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Holy fucking shit if there's
something in your life that you

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love as much as I love
Metalligan.

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I just walked out of the third
show I've seen this week all

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free from the pit.
I said there was be no real Men

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Field show this week by him.
Oh my God, that's our ball.

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I thought.
I thought it was all out of my

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emotion.
Every time I think about

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recording this and trying to
tell you how much this band,

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this music, his fans fucking
mean to me, I got choked up and

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it's still happening.
I got to meet Lars and Rob

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today.
This.

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This tour for me started last
Saturday in Syracuse, NY and I

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won Snake Pit Passes on the way
to the show.

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And for these two shows in
Toronto that just ended, I had

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purchased Snake Pit Passes.
Actually, I purchased the top of

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the line psychotic package that
gets me autographed, set lists

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from each night, poster from
each night.

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I had a tour of the stage on
Thursday.

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I got to meet Lars and Rob today
and Metallica has a new

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documentary coming out called
Metallica Saved My Life.

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So in the Q and AI told Lars and
Rob about real men feel and that

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it's focused on men's mental
health and preventing suicide.

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And I say, with Metallica Saved
My Life coming out, what would

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it take to get somewhere from
the band to give me 20 minutes

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on the show?
And Lars like, Oh, well, we

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don't know.
We're doing day-to-day.

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I said, I made a firm commitment
now just will you help me make

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it happen?
And he's like, yes, I we when we

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start doing the press for this
movie, I'm sure that a member of

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Metallica can give you 20
minutes or more.

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And so if you say this important
work that you're doing and we

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appreciate it and I will start
balling fucking there.

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This this fucking week has been
full of so many peak

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experiences.
Each show had just gotten

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better.
The people of Canada are

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freaking amazing.
Thank you Canada for knowing

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that they just become American.
Doesn't mean I am fucking love

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tariffs and hate immigrants and
I'm not some fucking redheaded

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asshole.
This city is so freaking

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welcoming.
Toronto has been amazing.

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I've come here often for the
Modern Mystery School, but I've

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never had time to come and
explore the city.

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I want to go on a food tour.
This like every nation has like

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5 restaurants here.
It's amazing.

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It's so walkable and again,
everybody's been so cool and

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open.
I love just walking around the

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town for the last five days and
just having people yell

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Metallica have me.
I'm out of my fucking head.

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I hope this show makes some sort
of sense.

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And again why I'm sharing this,
it's because I hope there's

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something in your life that
means this fucking much to you.

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As I walk in the traffic and you
get run over.

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It will be worth it.
That's how amazing this week has

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been.
All right, so beginning in

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Syracuse when snake could passes
on the way up there, big

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surprise.
The place was tiny and the pit

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was at moment a pit than in in
most seats I've had.

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And let's see, I got a pic there
Thursday night show backstage

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tour.
And I got to be on Metallica's

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stage before they started and I
got a fist bump from Zack Wilde.

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Then Titillate got a high 5 from
the lead singer of Ice 9 Kills.

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And I got a fist bump from the
bassist for Limp Bizkit and Limp

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Bizkit.
Surprisingly fun.

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I'd seen them back on Oz Fest in
the mid 90s when they first came

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out and they got the crowd
going.

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It was freaking sick.
And then the meet and greet,

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usually it's been Robin Kirk's.
That's what I was prepared for.

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So Lars and Rob came through
like, and because if you don't

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know, Laws likes to talk.
So I knew we'd have a long time

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with him and we had like 40
minutes and he loved my

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metaphysical shirt and said his
dad would have loved it.

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So I really thought if I saw him
out in the show, that would get

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me a stick.
But it didn't work for me.

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But it did work for my buddy
Sipka, who's from Holland.

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I saw it from across the stage
that Laws go.

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Holland points to him and hands
him a drumstick.

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So the Q&A, the meet and greet
did help some of us, but Kirk

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who I didn't meet, they're
hearing the meet and greet last

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saw Sandman on stage.
He stops in front of me staring

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at me.
Then I realize he's reading my

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shirt and he goes great shirt.
So let's that's even better than

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a pic.
But then did get lots of pics.

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I got a handful of pics because
at the meet and greet I had been

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to the most shows with 46.
Luckily Jessica, the woman I met

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yesterday who has been to 241
was not with me.

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I would have won nothing but
what a good time.

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Loved hanging out with Sipka,
with ROM, with Paul, with Mike,

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Michael and Mike.
So many cool people.

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People from all over the
freaking world.

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Metallica travel is the best
travel.

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All right, they'll be more
later.

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Take care of yourselves.
Be good.

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Bye.
None.

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The.
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Author / Teacher / Coach / Healer

Andy Grant is a best-selling author, speaker, Transformational Energy Coach, healer, and suicide prevention activist. As the host of the award-winning Real Men Feel podcast, he champions emotional well-being and encourages men to step out of the “emotional closet.”
Andy holds certifications in Positive Psychology, the Enwaken Coaching System, Akashic Records, Life Activation, and multiple energy healing modalities. Known as The King of Authenticity, he founded Real Men Feel in 2016, fostering a movement that redefines masculinity through openness and vulnerability.
An Initiate, Certified Healer, Teacher, and Ritual Master with the Modern Mystery School, Andy has dedicated his life to helping people in emotional pain rediscover the magnificence of life. His training includes work with renowned teachers such as Mike Dooley, Brendon Burchard, Bill Harris, Genpo Roshi, David Morelli, Margaret Lynch, Linda Howe, Tal Ben-Shahar, Karen Paolino-Correia, and Christie Marie Sheldon.