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May 1, 2026

Soul Rot at Work? Here's What's Actually Happening

Soul Rot at Work? Here's What's Actually Happening

Reinvention, Grief, and Identity After Corporate Life On Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with reinvention coach Shelley McIntyre about why workplace change triggers resistance rooted in grief and fear of loss, explained through self-determination theory’s three needs: autonomy, competence, and connection. McIntyre distinguishes reinvention coaching from career coaching…

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April 24, 2026

Burnout Doesn't Look Like You Think It Does

Burnout Doesn't Look Like You Think It Does

From Burnout to Clarity: Values, Boundaries & a Gamified Life Reboot Host Andy Grant interviews coach Loren Silverman about helping high-performing people who look fine on the outside but are burned out on the inside. Silverman shares his own burnout in a high-pressure tech career and a turning point in…

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April 17, 2026

Your Invisible Scorecard Is Lying to You

Your Invisible Scorecard Is Lying to You

Episode 400: The Invisible Scorecard Men Live By In Real Men Feel’s 400th episode and 10th anniversary, host Andy Grant welcomes returning guest Vanessa Cardenas, a relationship reset expert, to discuss what numbers and measurements really mean in men’s lives—age, money, success, followers, and relationship milestones—and how an “invisible scorecard”…

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April 10, 2026

The Real Reason 'Getting Over It' Doesn't Work

The Real Reason 'Getting Over It' Doesn't Work

Betrayal, Shame & Rebuilding Trust: The Therapy Brothers on Real Recovery | Real Men Feel On Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with licensed clinicians Brannon Patrick and Tyler Patrick (the Therapy Brothers) about betrayal, shame, trust, and recovery after relationship rupture. They share what drew them into trauma,…

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April 3, 2026

Your Genius Is Calling: The Framework Successful Executives Miss

Your Genius Is Calling: The Framework Successful Executives Miss

Success, Suicide Ideation & Finding Your Genius | Paul Davis on Real Men Feel Andy Grant interviews business growth consultant and intuitive advisor Paul Davis about why high achievement can still feel empty and why many senior executives hide depression and suicide ideation due to perceived weakness and business risk.…

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March 27, 2026

The 'Man Up' Culture Destroying Men's Relationships

The 'Man Up' Culture Destroying Men's Relationships

🚨Join other authentic men at https://www.skool.com/authenticaf/about Rebuilding After Betrayal, Divorce, and the Dead Bedroom: Ralph Brewer on Men, Shame, and Support Host Andy Grant interviews men’s coach Ralph Brewer about rebuilding after infidelity, divorce, and relationship collapse. Ralph shares his own experience of being divorced within 60 days after his…

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March 20, 2026

The Cost of Looking Good on the Outside #HollowMan

The Cost of Looking Good on the Outside #HollowMan

Hollow Man Syndrome: Why Success Still Feels Empty | Kenyada Meadows on Real Men Feel Host Andy Grant welcomes Kenyada Meadows, a senior vice president at Bank of America and master certified executive coach, to discuss why many high-achieving men look successful externally but feel unfulfilled internally—what Kenyada calls “hollow…

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March 13, 2026

Men Feel Alone... But They Don't Have To

Men Feel Alone... But They Don't Have To

Join us in the Authentic AF Community http://realmenfeel.org/group Men Need Truth, Connection & Health—Don’t Skip the Colonoscopy Host Andy Grant opens by saying men need truth and connection, not shame or fake strength, and notes a guest postponed due to difficult health news as he prepares for his own colonoscopy,…

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March 6, 2026

The Success Trap: 20 Years of Work, Zero Fulfillment

The Success Trap: 20 Years of Work, Zero Fulfillment

The Success Trap: Why Successful Men Still Feel Empty (and How to Escape) Andy Grant hosts Real Men Feel to explore “The Success Trap,” where men achieve career success, money, status, and respect yet feel empty, disconnected, and unfulfilled. Drawing on a Forbes article and quotes from Johnny Cash, Maya…

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Feb. 27, 2026

Why Men Hide Their Midlife Crisis (And What Happens When They Don't)

Why Men Hide Their Midlife Crisis (And What Happens When They Don't)

Midlife Awakening: Identity, Depression & Fulfillment with Philip Briscoe | Real Men Feel Host Andy Grant welcomes Philip Briscoe, UK host of the Midlife Men Podcast, to discuss his midlife turning point at 50 and the question “who am I?” After years in a tech job where he felt undervalued…

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Feb. 20, 2026

Breaking Masculinity Myths | 10 Years of Real Conversations

Breaking Masculinity Myths | 10 Years of Real Conversations

Real Men Feel: 10-Year Anniversary Special (From Episode 1 to Today) Andy Grant marks the 10-year anniversary of Real Men Feel, which first aired on February 23, 2016, on the now-defunct platform Blab, and reflects on the show’s mission to give men a space to talk about the full range…

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Feb. 13, 2026

Reclaiming Authenticity: Beyond the Buzzword with Andy Grant

Reclaiming Authenticity: Beyond the Buzzword with Andy Grant

Are You Being Real? In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant addresses the skepticism around the concept of authenticity, which has increasingly been viewed as a buzzword. Reflecting on his personal journey and the show's 10-year history, Andy discusses the true essence of authenticity, its significance, and…

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Feb. 6, 2026

Your Secret Animal Archetype Revealed | Real Men Feel #390

Your Secret Animal Archetype Revealed | Real Men Feel #390

Understanding True Self with Eric Gee's Animal Archetypes In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant dives into the concept of self-identity with guest Eric Gee, a published author, life coach, and creator of a unique personality typing system based on animal archetypes. Andy and Eric discuss how…

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Jan. 30, 2026

The One Mistake Fathers Keep Making

The One Mistake Fathers Keep Making

Rediscovering Fatherhood: A Conversation with Jon Hord | Real Men Feel In this enlightening episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Jon Hord, founder of the Engaged Father Project. Jon shares his personal journey from being a stressed, reactive parent to becoming a present, intentional father. They discuss…

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Jan. 23, 2026

Men Are Suffering In Silence After Prison — Matt Melvin Breaks The Cycle

Men Are Suffering In Silence After Prison — Matt Melvin Breaks The Cycle

Overcoming Mental Prisons: Matt Melvin's Journey from Incarceration to Redemption In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant speaks with Matt Melvin, author of 'Bullied Behind Bars.' Matt shares his powerful story of surviving physical incarceration and the mental prison of blame and anger that followed him. He…

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Jan. 16, 2026

Leadership Lessons | Conformity To Masculine Norms Inventory & Alpha Myths

Leadership Lessons | Conformity To Masculine Norms Inventory & Alpha Myths

Vulnerability, Alpha Myths, and Redefining Confidence Embracing Authentic Masculinity Join host Andy Grant in this compelling episode of Real Men Feel as he sits down with Tyler Foley, keynote speaker and author of 'The Power to Speak Naked.' Together, they delve into topics such as masculinity, leadership, vulnerability, confidence in…

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Jan. 9, 2026

Restoring Confidence: Tackling ED and Performance Anxiety

Restoring Confidence: Tackling ED and Performance Anxiety

Overcoming Sexual Performance Anxiety – Insights from Coach Shay Doran Join host Andy Grant on Real Men Feel as he sits down with Shay Doran, a coach specializing in helping men overcome sexual performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction. Shay shares his personal journey of feeling 'broken' and discovering that the…

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Dec. 26, 2025

Grief Process | Gratitude Unlocks The Fullness Of Life

Grief Process | Gratitude Unlocks The Fullness Of Life

Fueling Growth with Gratitude and Grief: Finding Purpose in the Shadow of Loss Navigating Grief and Finding Purpose In this heartfelt episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant sits down with motivational speaker Steve Gamlin to discuss living through grief and finding purpose after the loss of his wife,…

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Dec. 19, 2025

Lesbian Coach for Men | Relationship Coaching And Emotional Safety

Lesbian Coach for Men | Relationship Coaching And Emotional Safety

No Competition, Just Growth The Lez Bro's Take on Men's Work Breaking Barriers: How Vulnerability and Emotional Safety Empower Men with The LezBro In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant speaks with Aastha Lahl, a lesbian coach who helps straight men, both single and married, to build…

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Dec. 12, 2025

Men's Vulnerability | Emotional Strength And Human Connection

Men's Vulnerability | Emotional Strength And Human Connection

17 Experts Reveal What They Wish More Men Knew In this special clip show, host Andy Grant compiles profound insights from 17 past guests, answering the question, 'What do you wish more men knew?' The episode explores themes like love, vulnerability, self-worth, emotional resilience, and the importance of community. Featuring…

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Dec. 5, 2025

Veteran Mental Health | Post-service Identity And Emotional Deprogramming

Veteran Mental Health | Post-service Identity And Emotional Deprogramming

Veteran Triumphs Over Silent Struggle Winning The War After The War Reclaiming Identity After Military Service In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant sits down with Louis Stockley Jr., an army veteran, father, coach, and founder of Before 22. Louis spent 17 years in military and federal…

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Nov. 28, 2025

Trauma Resilience | Male Vulnerability Beyond The Man Box

Trauma Resilience | Male Vulnerability Beyond The Man Box

Breaking Out Of The Man Box: Betting On Yourself & Redefining Masculinity Transforming Pain Into Purpose In this powerful episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Eugene Z. Bertrand, a master of social work candidate at Columbia University, trauma-informed mental healthcare advocate, and first-time author. Eugene shares his…

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Nov. 21, 2025

Overcoming Crack Addiction | Rock Bottom And Multiple Sclerosis

Overcoming Crack Addiction | Rock Bottom And Multiple Sclerosis

Hitting Life's Curveballs: Beating Crack Addiction and MS with Kelley Gulledge In this powerful episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with Kelley Gulledge, a former professional baseball player who battled and overcame a severe crack cocaine addiction. Kelley shares his gripping story of how he spiraled into…

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Nov. 14, 2025

Spiritual Awakening | Men As Mirrors & Going From Suicidal To Healer

Spiritual Awakening | Men As Mirrors & Going From Suicidal To Healer

From Suicidal Despair to Shamanic Healer: Healing Masculinity & Embracing Femininity In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant delves into masculinity and Kerry Blaser's transformative journey. A mother, shaman, and author, Kerry shares her profound healing story that spans academic studies, corporate work, motherhood, and her battle…

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