Unlocking Ancestral Healing | African Ancient Quantum Medicine with Gao Motsemme

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Hello and welcome to Real Men
Feel.

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I'm your host, author, coach and
healer, Andy Grant.

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Please visit theandygrant.com to
learn more about me.

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Real Men Feel exists to remind
men that they are human beings

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and that they have the right to
experience and express all of

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their emotions.
We have conversations that most

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men are not having, but that all
men can benefit from.

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My guest today is GAO Mosume.
GAO is an amazing woman.

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GAO speaks English, German and
Setswana is a mother of three, a

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psychic surgeon and embodiment
queen devoted to helping

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individuals break free from
patterns of generational toxic

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relationships and imprints, tap
into unwavering self love and

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radiate true confidence so that
they can crush it in the

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boardroom, the bedroom, and
beyond.

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We have a great discussion on
energy work, initiations, inner

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child work, ancestral healings,
and more.

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GAO says that 80% of the issues
any of us have are rooted in our

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ancestry.
If you don't heal that

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generational trauma, you won't
be able to express your soul's

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uniqueness.
By the way, in case you're

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realmenfeel.org/swag.
It gets mentioned later.

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That's the only reason I
mentioned it.

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Let's do it.
Hello Gal, and welcome to Real

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Men feel.
Thank you for having me.

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I'm very excited to talk to you.
You do a lot of incredibly

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interesting things.
First I want to know what what

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got you interested in the 1st
place with generational trauma

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and ancestral healing.
That's a great question.

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And I want to start first by the
greetings because it activates

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something.
So dumelang, dumelang Lokai.

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And in my native language, do
melan means agree Lokai is where

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are you?
And since we're here in real

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men, Phil, the name says
explains itself is very clear.

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So my question whenever you
listen to this, whoever was

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listening to this is what are
you agreeing to when you come

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into real men, Phil?
What is it that drove you here?

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What is your intention?
And when I say Lokai is where

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are you, you know, are you fully
here connected to your body,

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listening to your body or you
coming through with an agenda

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you still holding into what
happened?

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So with that said, just as we
beginning, my invite is may we

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connect to the body and just
feel every sensation, the pain,

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whatever that is coming through,
which it's OK for us to be in

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the body.
So that's my invite.

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And as we are connecting,
because this is the first time

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I'm meeting Andy in this
conversation and this is the

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first time I'm meeting you even
though I'm not with you

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physically, but energetically
we're connected.

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So may we choose not to know
because I truly believe Andy has

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invited amazing guests before
and you know a lot.

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But in this moment, let's assume
we do not know.

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Let's choose not to know and
allow instead of us telling the

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mind what that means or what it,
what, what has been said, let's

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let us allow the mind to
interpret it for us.

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That is, we're going to listen
to the body when I lean on the

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body.
So that's kind of like warming

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up.
And with the question that you

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asked, what drove you to this?
The reason why I love starting

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with asking you, what are you
agreeing to and where are you is

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because what we seek sits us,
you know, and the problem is we

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live in a world where we often
listen out there to what we are

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or what we need to do rather
than learning to know ourselves

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and following that inspiration
that is within us.

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So for me, when it comes to
being a healer, it's something

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that I've known as a child.
And I still remember when I

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spoke to my family and I said,
this is my experience as I was

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experiencing my dream world and
a lot of visions that were

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coming through.
And I was just told, oh, you

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need to go to church, you know,
because otherwise you're going

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to end up being a traditional
doctor.

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So with that said, it's kind of
like I was confused and I tried

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to follow what the family is
following, but it was not in

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alignment with my spirit.
It didn't turn me on.

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So then I went through life,
living, experiencing it through

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my family, through the society.
And I would say I was introduced

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first hand to the dysfunction of
the family, which as I was doing

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my work or even when I was
letting go of who I thought I

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was fully important, who I am.
That's when I realized that it

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didn't really start here.
It's come somewhere else.

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And I was even brought to this,
even including the name, where

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the question that I was asked
was, do you really know who you

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are?
Do you want to know who you are?

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And I said yes.
And as I say that, I went into

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this deep trance where I thought
I'd say my name, but I couldn't

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say the second name, which was
called after my father's sister.

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And it was like the more I tried
to push through another portal

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open and I just saw how I was
received.

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Basically, I was not accepted
because my father's family had a

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problem with my mother likes
background where she comes from,

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kind of like looking down on
her, on her and now being called

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after them.
It's kind of like, I don't know

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about that.
So I was, I would say it's

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something that my soul was here
to be doing and experience even

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though I was an accountant
before.

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But for me to let go of that, it
was life happening, but life was

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bringing me to this now moment.
What?

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What age were you when you had
this experience?

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With a name or.
With with no being asked, do you

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want to know who you are?
I was in my late 30s, in my late

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30s because I was going through
like I was, I already raised

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this work, but somehow I was
going through a moment where I

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would say my life was changing
in the sense of I was going

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through the divorce, you know,
So when I was going through

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that, it's kind of like it was
deepening.

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And I got to experience my mom's
marriage and experience that.

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Oh, I'm also creating that.
And I went back.

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Even when it comes to,
especially when it comes to us

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being ourselves, the, the
emotional, even the experience

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that comes through, it's kind of
like we all feel like we are not

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accepted somehow, you know, and
we're always seeking that

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acceptance.
And when we look at it, it's

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kind of like, where does that
come from?

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Is it because of what I did or
what happened in my life?

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But when you look at it, it's
kind of like this thing began

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before you were even born, you
know?

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So this is when the influence
came through.

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It was in my late in my late 30s
when I was going through my

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divorce.
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And so how did you go about to
to clean up your your own

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ancestry and then learn how to,
I assume you then to help other

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people do the same thing.
Yeah, that's a great question.

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Let's say when I was when this
came, I already knew, but it's

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kind of like I was what I was
brought to my awareness was like

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this name right here.
You are not in alignment with

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it.
But going back to how I learned

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to this, to do this work, I
would say it's something that I

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did, but I did it unconsciously.
So when I look back at the pain

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that I felt, the anger that was
actually basically my father's

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anger.
So I was that was my base when

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it comes to my base emotion.
I was living through anger.

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That's what I was expressing and
going through toxic

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relationships and all that.
It was me who connected how

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everyone was feeling because
even as a child I was called the

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Crazy 1.
So it's kind of like the whole

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family was normal and I was just
a crazy one.

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And for me, when it came to my
awareness that there is

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something deeper, actually I was
told by a lot of people growing

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up when who were able to read
and all that.

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Like you are here for a bigger
gift.

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When I first lost my corporate
job, I went to this other lady

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who just came into my vision and
I went to see and like I've seen

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you.
So I'm wondering what is here

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for me?
And she just told me that some

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of the things that are happening
is because there's a purpose

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that you're meant to fulfill.
You know, so the more you refuse

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who you are, the more life is
going to be chaotic.

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You're going to lose the job.
Your relationships are not are

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not going to be OK.
So I've I've learned through

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along all that when it came to
my when is that some something

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big is happening.
My mom was sick.

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It's before she passed on.
So one day we're just sitting

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and then all of a sudden I'm
just think, Oh my God, I'm sick.

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I've got this pain and I started
feeling that pain.

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I was just like, oh, I think I
have a problem that you have,

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but I didn't know what the
problem is, but I know that I

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was in deep pain.
I was like, I'm going to go to

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the hospital.
Then she looked at me and she

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said that's my pain.
I was like, I don't know how

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fuck you alive with this pain
because this is death right

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here.
So that's when I knew that

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somehow I'm taking this, I'm
absorbing all these people

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things.
I'm taking all these things.

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And only later to learn that
when I do the healing, I kind of

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like step into people's Oracle
fields and then whatever that

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does not need to be there, I
kind of like remove it.

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This is why I call myself a
psychic surgeon.

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I scan the body, which is
basically sound like the body

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speaks to me when I connect with
somebody I'm being called to

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wear.
There is whether there is pain

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or emotional, physical, mental
or some spiritual issues.

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That's what caused me first, and
that's what needs to be removed

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for the first of all in place.
So I'm involved with something

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called the Modern Mystery
School, which relies on ancient

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healing techniques going back
thousands and thousands of

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years.
I've also had the pleasure of

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visiting Africa twice and plan
to again.

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So there's there's one phrase in
your website that that really

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attracted me to you and that's
I'd like you to describe what

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the what this means for people.
But African ancient quantum

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medicine.
Tell me more about that.

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Yeah, that's, that's exactly
like you said.

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That's what I described.
And when I when like when we are

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being called, like for instance,
I was being called to do this

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and at first what kind of like
especially when I don't know how

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I got to this side.
I remember I was listening to

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this other woman was speaking
about connecting to angels and

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talking about dreams.
And I got excited because I was

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like, that's my experience.
But the part of me was excited

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because I was like, I want to
connect to angels too, you know,

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Because when I look at my
background with the whole

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religion, it's kind of like I'm
going to be accepted and they're

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going to see me as, you know,
this amazing person who speaks

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to to Angel.
But when I tried to follow that

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part, it's not like everything
shut down.

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I couldn't connect deeply with
my gear.

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And then the message that came
through, because I was like

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being spoken to either through
dreams and all that first thing,

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before I knew anything about
meditation, the way to receive

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this information was through my
dreams.

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So I was guided to say, go back
to Europe.

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It's whatever, you know.
But when I looked at it, even

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the way it happened, it's kind
of like I was going through

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different initiations where I'll
find myself even like the first

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time I had and sort of like
connection with the other side.

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I kind of like went into a deep
trance and all of a sudden I had

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the dreaming and the way all
relations and just to

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celebration and I was being
welcomed home and I started

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getting I'm not using bones as
I'm like throwing bones like my

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sisters did.
But on the other hand, it's what

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I have.
It's kind of like I don't have

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them physically, but I was given
all these things.

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I received them in my initiation
through my my journey's vision

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where that was dreams or just
sort of like being in a trust,

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but conscious of what is
happening.

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So I received all of these
things.

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And then when I started working
with people, I kind of like knew

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what to do.
But at first I would say, I

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would admit that at first I just
knew like, OK, there's a problem

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here.
And then it sounded like I

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picked it up, but I didn't know
how to transmute it because I

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felt like that's how they do.
It was kind of like they just

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pick something.
It doesn't matter what it's

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paying.
And I remember that one of the

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first people that I worked with,
it's kind of like it was like an

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entity, but it was stuck in life
out of her.

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She had pain in the whole of her
left arm.

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And I took out this thing and I
had, I worked on this for a

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maximum of a week, but for her
when I came back to her

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tomorrow, like, how are you
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Because I was up even at night
dealing with this deep pain of

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whatever that was.
And then she said, I don't know

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what you're talking about.
Like it moves the pain

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immediately just like that.
So that's what I do.

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But then it's kind of like I
went back into that initiation

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to say you don't need to hold
into kind of like basically like

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fire.
That's how they used to do.

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It's kind of like somebody
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then they transmute it.
That's kind of like how they

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used to do the work.
But I do it and it's even, it's

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not conscious.
It's not like I just get to show

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up and be present.
And as I'm going through the

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body and the mind is kind of
like I'm just speaking for us to

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give the mind something.
But I can do it even without

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saying a word.
So your initiations are really

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spontaneous.
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Things.
It wasn't like you took a

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program somewhere.
Yeah, No, it just.

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It wasn't.
It was like just something that

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was meant to happen even before
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I had, you know, when you
connect with people, I was

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working with people like not
physically where it turns out to

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meet people who were just
telling me that we are sent to

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you.
We're told that you're going to

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heal us, you know, and I'd wake
up with these things like I know

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this person, I was working with
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So it's kind of like I'll meet
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And then the following day when
I asked, but what am I supposed

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to do with this person?
Because a part of me is still

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holding into because I know that
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It's kind of like you get to sit
and being intentional and

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connect with that person and
complete whatever that needs to

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be completed.
So I did this work energetically

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before I even started doing it
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And do you need to be physically
present with someone to do your

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best work, or can you be
anywhere and just remotely

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connect energetically?
I don't have to be with them

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personally.
That's the magic thing with with

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energy, because it translates.
It transcends time and space,

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you know, and, and here's the
thing, even like the, the

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flipping crazy thing, I remember
with this other person that I

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know and the other time I just
had, you know, I'm, I'm aware of

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times when my, when my soul is
kind of like leaving the body.

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So I left and I was aware where
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So I'm working on this specimen.
It's kind of like they consumed

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something.
So I was busy cheering that

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body, like allowing the, the
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I don't even know how to explain
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traditional thing where somebody
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something into, into their
foods, you know, whatever, some

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dark energies and stuff.
So I started cleansing that

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body, cleansing that body,
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And then the following morning I
just sent him a message that I

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don't know what is happening.
Probably you need to go and find

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help somewhere.
But I did the best that I can.

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And guess what, this person was
sick when they when, when, when

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she, when he went to the
hospital, what he received was

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he went to the hospital and he
went to somebody who is working

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with people.
And what they told, what they

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told him was like, it's kind of
like whatever that was meant to

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happen, he nearly had a heart
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But it was not nearly.
It's not, it was not really like

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a heart attack that was meant to
happen.

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It was meant to be caused by
this thing.

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But somehow I was just led to
this person and I cleaned his

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body to release like they, they
more of the potent toxicity from

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this.
Whatever that was, was infused

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in his body.
And I released it.

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And then the rest was just
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It was just cleared.
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So GAO I I know that you work a
lot with sexual energy, so how

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is sexual energy different from
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Absolutely, you know, 'cause
when it comes to the sexual

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energy, the sexual energy is the
My force energy is, is this is

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that energy that flows through
US is that energy that I'll say

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make us come alive for us to
fully alive in our body with

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vitality and excited about life
is when this energy is flowing,

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when there is a block, then
there is kind of like holding

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back depression, suicidal
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And it's quite interesting
because as I'm talking about

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suicide, suicide, suicide,
suicidal tendencies, there you

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go.
Most people don't realise how

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they are with these thoughts and
all of that until they do the

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work.
That's when they realize that I

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was completely gone, you know.
So when I look at the sexual

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energy, and it's quite
interesting because often before

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I even get to the sexual energy,
interesting enough, that inner

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child is often what comes
through.

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You know, I don't even know how
to explain that.

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But when I'm working with
somebody, no matter how they

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think, everything is fine, I'll
first be led by the inner child

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or the inner child will just
come through.

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And when I connect with this
aspect, somehow it will show me

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exactly what happened, you know,
whether that is sexual abuse or

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some shame, guilt and all that
that that that happened.

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And as I said, one of the big
things when it comes to

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accepting who we are, it's being
disconnected from this energy

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because we live in a world that
I would say in one way, in one

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way the other, it's
disempowering.

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You know, when it comes to us
being ourselves, especially

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sexual in it's like the natural
thing.

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No one is just told that all
we're going to program you now

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to start feeling the desire to a
woman, to a man or whatever.

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It's kind of like something that
happens naturally.

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But then when it comes to the
world that we live in, that is,

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I understand there is darkness
around this energy, but the

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darkness is coming through
because it's something that is

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put somewhere in the corner.
So the religious system, tribal,

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societal, a lot of things, even
even medical, you know, they're

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always telling us who we are,
how to feel.

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You know, we don't connect with
that.

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And especially when it comes to
men, it's like somehow they

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don't know what to do with this
and they're learning all

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distance from porn and all that.
And the fact that they're not

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also able to feel that emotion
kind of like that using sex is a

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I'm going to release something,
you know, I just have sex

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because they don't want to feel
something.

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So whatever that is building up,
if I have sex, kind of like, I'm

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just going to release that.
So they don't get to connect

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with it at a level that that
meant to.

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Because for me, when it comes to
a sacred masculine is the person

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who is able to be with
themselves to feel and also to

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embrace all this beauty that
comes with this, with this, with

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this energy.
So an activity is kind of like,

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I'm just going to penetrate
somebody and then fast, fast,

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and then I come, that's it.
But when it comes to sexual

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energy is that is connected.
Like I said, it's connected to

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our desire, our desires, like
our purpose is connected to our

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creativity.
It's also connected to it's a

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healing energy and it's also
connected to the beauty.

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For somebody to sit and embrace,
whether it's the other partner

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or fully connected to whatever
art that they're creating will

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see the beauty in life.
You better be connected to this

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energy because it's what drives
you.

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Even when you're talking about
creating, you are driven towards

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something.
You're inspired by something

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rather than when you are running
away from something.

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The desperation, something is
happening.

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I've got to run away.
That is you not being led by

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this magical creation energy,
right?

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So there's darkness there, but
it's not innate in sexual energy

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or in our life force.
The darkness comes from trauma

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and abuse and things outside of
our core selves.

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Absolutely.
And it's quite interesting

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because the other time I got to
connect with the depth of this

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energy because even when you're
talking about like sexual

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energies connected to our gifts
and all that.

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And when I look at patriarchy,
as I say, patriarchy made men

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powerless by shutting off their
hearts and it made women

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powerless by shutting off their
warmth.

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You know, for you to control
somebody is to disconnect them

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from their roots and to
disconnect them from their

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heart, especially when it comes
to a man who is led by what does

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the society want?
You are not led by who you are

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to yourself, but we are my being
to the society.

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What is it that esteems me which
is more outside and that which

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bodies controls you?
So they they, they land darkness

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about this energy.
It's what patriarchy taught

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taught, I would say both men and
women.

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And when you look at it, because
when you're talking about that

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patriarchal wound is the
disconnection from the South,

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it's also wanting to have power
over.

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Something or somebody.
So when you want to have power

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over something or somebody, it's
not it's not power at all

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because power is more leading
yourself.

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When you power have power over
yourself, you can have power

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when it comes to that is means
you're going to lead yourself.

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You're going to connect
yourself.

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You're going to know who you are
rather than trying to understand

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what is outside or how I can
oppress or get power over

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something.
It's more like how can I work

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with this magic that is within
me?

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Because whatever that you, when
I look at this energies, which

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is the sexual energy are
compared with the plants,

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especially when it comes to
traditional doctor or working

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with the plants isn't like
healing plants and all that.

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When you respect the plants, the
plant will respect you and it

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will open up to show you what is
what it's capable of.

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And this sexual energy because
it's more like it's more

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connected to that feminine
energy, which is like chaos

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because it has that power out,
say it has the power to heal,

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also is connected to the
emotions, which also it has the

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power to liberate.
And it can also, This is why it

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tells people according this
whole sexual like addiction and

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all that because they do not
know how to work with

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themselves.
So it controls them.

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Some are afraid of feeling the
emotions because they're afraid

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of being controlled.
So it's like then in the mental

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aspect of time, like I don't
want anyone to have power with

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me or I don't want to be drawn
by this.

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So the whole shadow of the
woman, the woman's womb, when

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the man's heart there was more
like to control something.

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But on the other hand, it has
worked both against us, both of

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us.
So the only way is for us to go

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through it, to get to understand
it.

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That's when we're going to be
liberated, when we run away from

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it, all this chaos that we are
now dealing with, because we

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are, we're dealing with the
chaos that has existed for many

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generations.
It's not what we cost. 80% of

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the staff that we feeling that
we're dealing with is mostly

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ancestral energies is what has
happened for many generations.

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80% of what an individual is
dealing with is ancestral, yeah.

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And So what we're saying is that
men get separated from the

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heart.
They're not feeling their

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emotions, they're not really in
touch with their life force.

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So in order to feel more alive,
they will attempt to control

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people outside others.
And this means that that so

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leadership isn't just a
position, it's not a job.

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Ideally, leadership is about
leading yourself first.

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Absolutely.
Absolutely you can't have power

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for I mean, for me want to talk
about a leader and leader,

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somebody who lead themselves and
when you lead them, when you

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lead you other people have a
choice.

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Are you the leader that I want
to follow or not?

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You don't coerce people to
follow you.

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That's by control.
But now we are it's actually

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very clear for you to have any
power is when you are, you have

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power with you all over yourself
because where we are going, it's

450
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:01,640
more like influential.
You're going to show up.

451
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,600
This is why I'm big on presence
because when somebody's

452
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:08,720
connected to themselves, they
lead not by not even by words,

453
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:11,280
you know, because even when you
look at communication, like 7%

454
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:16,200
is the words, but 55% is like
the non verbal and 38 percent is

455
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:19,280
tonality.
That means your presence, even

456
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:22,360
though you may not be saying
anything, your presence, your

457
00:23:22,360 --> 00:23:25,640
energy is communicating.
But what is it that he says when

458
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:28,080
you get into a room?
Do children run away?

459
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,640
Do women feel safe because of
your presence?

460
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:34,800
Yeah, whenever I meet someone
and and they don't understand

461
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:38,040
energy, I just like we've all
had the experience of, of

462
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:40,640
walking into room and there,
there's there had been a fight

463
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:42,240
and you didn't see it, you
didn't hear it.

464
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:44,640
But you can feel that heaviness.
You can feel that energy.

465
00:23:45,360 --> 00:23:47,560
And the same at a party, if you
you walk up to a group of people

466
00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:49,640
and they're all laughing, you
get in and you start laughing

467
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,280
too, but you missed the joke.
You don't even know what, you

468
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:52,720
don't know what's funny, but you
still pick up.

469
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:57,960
That exactly exactly.
So since we've been touching on

470
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,680
masculine, feminine, what are
some misconceptions around

471
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,920
people attempting to integrate
their masculine and feminine

472
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:08,760
energy?
First thing is like thinking we

473
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:12,280
think like this is more like
gender based fasting, but it's

474
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:16,560
not, you know, we all have that
within us.

475
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:20,080
And what is what is quite
interesting, especially when it

476
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:25,160
comes to the feminine and the
masculine energy, how we relate

477
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,720
with ourselves or the conflict
that is within us, The conflict

478
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:32,160
that the masculine, the feminine
has within us is what is going

479
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:35,360
to be playing outside.
I'll just give you an example

480
00:24:35,360 --> 00:24:39,480
with myself where like I said, I
was raised in a family where my

481
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,520
father was, he had his own
addiction.

482
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:44,120
He was physically present until
I was 14.

483
00:24:44,120 --> 00:24:46,400
That's when he passed.
But emotionally he was not

484
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:49,280
available, you know.
So for me when it comes to the

485
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:51,760
relation, my father loved me.
Come on, he did.

486
00:24:52,120 --> 00:24:55,840
You know, I don't doubt that
even is big, you know, So when

487
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:59,360
somebody says oh, your father
bullshit.

488
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,600
But when I look at life the way
life was playing, I was telling

489
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:07,280
me that there is something here.
So because my relation to the

490
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:12,720
masculine was more of the
emotional unavailability and

491
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:16,120
then whatever kills that was
forming, even the whole alcohol

492
00:25:16,120 --> 00:25:19,960
addiction and stuff, that was my
relation with even men that I

493
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,360
attracted in my life.
I attracted men who had a

494
00:25:22,360 --> 00:25:26,840
history of alcohol addiction.
I attracted men who I would say

495
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:30,400
they really love me as my father
did, but on the other hand, it

496
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,640
was more toxic and emotionally
unavailable.

497
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:36,360
It was not nourishing to my soul
and the purpose that I'm here to

498
00:25:36,360 --> 00:25:38,560
give birth to.
It was more that controlling

499
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:40,200
thing.
So whatever relationship that we

500
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:44,000
have within ourselves with the
feminine and masculine is what

501
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:47,160
we see playing out with whoever
that we are attracted.

502
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,080
Instead of going out there and
trying to fix what is out there

503
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:52,560
is more like coming within.
It's not gender based because

504
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:56,440
even when I say, let's say when
it comes to the masculine, I

505
00:25:56,440 --> 00:26:00,280
mean, my, my mother was more, I
would say more balanced in the

506
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:04,680
sense of even when my father
died, the masculine was still

507
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:07,680
was still there, but still it
was more the wounded masculine.

508
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,920
So at times we may talk about
the masculine being wounded.

509
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,040
And when you look at it, it's
kind of like, but my father was

510
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:18,160
this soft person and all that,
but who was the person was more

511
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,320
masculine?
Because at times it can be a

512
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:24,520
woman who that the mother, but
then she's more masculine and

513
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,960
it's all she's more masculine.
That means she's the one who's

514
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,120
living the whole household
according to her own

515
00:26:29,120 --> 00:26:31,920
masculinity.
So it's not necessarily based on

516
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:33,720
whether it's father, mother or
whatever.

517
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:37,080
It's more like who had more of
that energy because even as a

518
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:41,280
man, you can have more feminine
energy and you need to work more

519
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:44,160
on the on, on the on the on the
other one.

520
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,440
Even though, even though here's
the thing as well.

521
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:49,880
Even when you're talking about
the myth around this at times,

522
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,360
like there is more the one that
is more wounded.

523
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,480
But on the other hand, it
doesn't mean that the other one

524
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:57,400
is not wounded because in the
masculine is wounded.

525
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:00,400
That means the feminine is
wounded in the sense of the

526
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,840
feminine does not feel safe, you
know, And at times when the

527
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:07,520
wound, the feminine does not
feel safe, it also judges this

528
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:08,960
aspect.
I don't trust you.

529
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,680
You are like, this is like
conflict that is within.

530
00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:16,040
So we need to look within and
also let go of the gender and

531
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:20,160
just find out more what we are
relate with when it comes to

532
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:21,760
even the right brain on the left
brain.

533
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,440
Because when you look at it,
it's not only like feminine,

534
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:28,320
masculine, the core of it, it
comes from the right and left

535
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:34,400
brain, the balance of that.
So you mentioned earlier

536
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:37,600
supposed to talk about sexual
energy that when, when working

537
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,120
with someone, when when trying
to help heal someone that their

538
00:27:40,120 --> 00:27:44,720
their inner child would show up.
And so is that for you?

539
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,320
Is that a visual experience,
just a sensory feeling, knowing

540
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:49,040
sort of thing?
Like what?

541
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:53,080
What is your experience of that?
Like I said, when I work with

542
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,160
somebody, I kind of like step
into the audit field.

543
00:27:55,720 --> 00:28:02,320
So for me, when it comes to how
this is expressing itself, I,

544
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:05,960
it's kind of like I become that
little, whether that there's a

545
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:12,160
boy or that little girl, I'll
feel exactly how maybe that

546
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:16,760
little boy felt and it will show
up in so many things like facial

547
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:18,280
expression, if at all it's
angered.

548
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:21,360
Like it's kind of like that
little child is there.

549
00:28:21,360 --> 00:28:24,560
It's like the third part because
I can switch and connect to

550
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,480
maybe the straight person who's
like in front of me was gonna, I

551
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:28,840
kind of like have my shit
together.

552
00:28:29,120 --> 00:28:32,440
But yeah, deep within there's
this little boy who's afraid

553
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:35,640
and, and whatever times it can
be, if at all, the inner child

554
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,960
is overwhelmed, putting their
hands on the things I act just

555
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,840
the way they act.
That's like fully expressing how

556
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,160
this, this, this aspect is
showing up.

557
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:47,560
I become both the adult and the
inner child at the same time

558
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:52,720
when I'm on a session.
And does does that person get a

559
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,000
sense of connecting with their
inner child at the same time?

560
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,160
Absolutely.
Because I don't get on

561
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,240
somebody's energetic fields
without doing anything.

562
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:03,680
So just by being there already,
I'm working on on on the

563
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:05,400
energetic fields and they can
feel it.

564
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:10,080
And at a time, someone just,
it's not like, it's not like

565
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:13,080
they're looking in that mirror
and then just seeing that that

566
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:16,040
aspect that they have denied.
Because I've had people, no

567
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:19,680
matter how far away they were at
the end or just breaking down.

568
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,000
And it's kind of like I was not
even aware that this thing

569
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:23,760
exists.
It's kind of like it's coming.

570
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,600
It's bringing them to
themselves, you understand?

571
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:28,840
Yeah.
Yeah, so they've they've

572
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,680
something in them in their
selves always knew about this,

573
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,360
but they consciously had never
faced it, acknowledged it,

574
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:37,960
recognized it and perhaps
weren't willing to.

575
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:44,000
So when someone does reconnect
with their with their inner

576
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:47,520
child, how does that impact
their lives?

577
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,560
It changes everything because
when it comes to inner child,

578
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:55,600
the inner child is that aspect
on especially the word authentic

579
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:58,120
is thrown around like everybody
authentic, authentic, authentic.

580
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:00,920
What the heck does that mean?
You know, the authentic,

581
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:04,720
authentic aspect of yourself is
that inner child is also an

582
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:07,920
aspect of yourself that at the
core of it's kind of like the

583
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,480
inner child has not forgotten
who you are at your soul.

584
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:13,480
The inner child has not
forgotten your your vision, like

585
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,760
what you hear to express what
your soul desires to give birth

586
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:19,120
through you.
It's also an aspect of ourselves

587
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:22,160
that I would say innocent,
curious, it's compassionate.

588
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:26,880
And it's also there's that
emotions, like I said and and

589
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:30,880
curious around it and it's eager
about life, the creativity, you

590
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,240
know, even when it comes to like
imagination, all to be to

591
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:37,560
connect with this all this
aspect of yourself like this,

592
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:41,240
this other expression, which is
more like the feminine aspects.

593
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,160
It's in that in a child, you
know, because when you look at

594
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:48,400
it, even when it comes to the
whole leadership and all that,

595
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:51,480
and This is why a lot of people
having this been out themselves,

596
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:54,720
they sabotage, you know, when
the inner child does not feel

597
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:58,800
safe, then it's going to
sabotage whatever plans that you

598
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,840
have, going to sabotage whatever
idea projects that you have.

599
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:05,760
And when it feels safe and it
can trust you, it's kind of like

600
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:10,600
now it opens up for you to
explore what is really present.

601
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:14,000
So when it comes to emotional
resilience, when you have not

602
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,840
done the work working from the
mind up, then you don't have the

603
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:19,480
emotional resilience because
when things are shifting, you're

604
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,160
trying to control, you are in
fear.

605
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,800
But for the inner child, it's
kind of like it's that, that,

606
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:27,080
that curiosity that comes in.
It's curious about what it's

607
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:29,280
going to do.
It's able to place, able to

608
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,560
adjust as we know that a child
does not hold into projects.

609
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:35,560
You know, we may be having an
conversation and somebody's

610
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,000
angry with it.
And then after 30 minutes, it's

611
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,760
kind of like, but never I love
you daddy, I love you by missing

612
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:44,240
like life goes on, you know, So
when you don't have that, we

613
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,680
have not integrated that aspect.
You are missing on this.

614
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:50,600
And this is like also even
having the muscles to go through

615
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:54,680
life without being like being
drowned by all the changes that

616
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,240
are that are happening.
So it changes everything, even

617
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:58,920
when it comes to relation,
right?

618
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:02,320
If you are disconnected from
your inner child, obviously

619
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:06,160
somehow you are shut down.
This aspect feels ignored, you

620
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:07,720
know, and you want to go on
looking.

621
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:10,320
Look, it's kind of like you're
going to look for the love that

622
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:13,040
you wanted the most as a child
from somebody.

623
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:16,760
You want to look for a parent,
you know, whether the father or

624
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:19,640
mother in your partner, you want
to look for love outside of you.

625
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:22,600
But when you are connected to
yourself, first thing, you feel

626
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,960
safe in your body, your inner
child feel safe.

627
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,000
You know how to soothe.
I sound like I can trust you.

628
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:30,080
I can go.
I can lean on myself, I can

629
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,640
anchor on myself, you know,
Because one thing that I also

630
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:36,480
emphasize, especially when it
comes to creating whatever that

631
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:41,160
we desire, whether it's our
relationship, wealth, even

632
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:44,000
spirituality and all that, the
question is, what is it that you

633
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:45,040
are here?
What is unique?

634
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:48,800
Because if you have not fasting
in talking about ancestral stop

635
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,560
when you have not healed and
disconnected from that, chances

636
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:53,800
are you are healing.
You are creating from the old

637
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:59,000
temple and when it comes to now
integrating this aspect, it's

638
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:01,880
kind of like you are connected
to your unique signature

639
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:04,680
blueprint.
What is for you, not what you've

640
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,480
seen your parents and ancestors
creating over and over again.

641
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:10,800
It's kind of like what who am I
uniquely?

642
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:14,400
That is your authentic
expression and following what

643
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,760
really turns you on rather than
what other people do.

644
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,440
Because when you, when this
aspect is not integrated, it

645
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:24,160
listens to what the mother and
the father and the society and

646
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,720
everybody thought it should, you
know, and often we deny even

647
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,920
when it comes to like, whatever
that causes this

648
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:33,560
disintervention.
It's because then say, I'll give

649
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:38,360
an example with myself, because
I, I say, I, I knew I was a

650
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,680
queen when I, when I was like,
just when my, open my eyes, I, I

651
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:46,400
had this energy and being me.
It's something that my mother

652
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,880
always reminded me that you are
not like my other children,

653
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:50,640
right?
It's kind of like I had to be

654
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:52,520
because I come from a very
traditional family.

655
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:54,800
So it's kind of like you are
just too outspoken.

656
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:56,600
You have this energy that is out
there.

657
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:58,880
And it's quite interesting
talking about sexual energy

658
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:02,080
kids.
When I was a child, what came

659
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:04,480
through even when adults were
like having conversation, it's

660
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,280
kind of like, is she really
going to finish school?

661
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:10,360
You know, it was already assumed
that who I am, my personality,

662
00:34:10,679 --> 00:34:12,560
it's somebody who's going to
fall pregnant.

663
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:16,639
Like before I even kissed a guy,
I was right from family members

664
00:34:16,639 --> 00:34:20,080
even called a bitch when I was
14 before I even kissed, like

665
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:23,360
all these things.
So they create all that shame.

666
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:27,400
And what happens is we deny this
aspect because it's kind of

667
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:28,920
like, what would they want to
see?

668
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:32,760
So when you're talking about the
shadow or part of us that when

669
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,159
we're showing up, being
inauthentic and wanting to be

670
00:34:35,159 --> 00:34:39,199
accepted and loved, we hide.
So integrating this aspect is

671
00:34:39,199 --> 00:34:42,520
like bringing this aspect and
saying, you know what, who you

672
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:45,560
are is Mexico.
Because for when I look at this,

673
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:51,239
when it comes to even our
purpose, our purpose is

674
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:55,760
ingrained in our personality.
Like we truly, whatever that

675
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:59,920
we're meant to be and do, it's
we show that personality, we

676
00:34:59,920 --> 00:35:03,400
choose it because our purpose is
is meant to be expressed through

677
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:04,560
that.
So when you are not being

678
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:07,360
yourself, that is not how you
can connect to what you, what

679
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,720
your soul really desires to
express through you.

680
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:15,560
Beautiful I I wanted to ask is
there anything that you wish

681
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:17,280
more men knew?
But I feel like you just

682
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:19,440
answered that already.
But but you tell me, is there

683
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:21,320
anything else that you wish more
men knew?

684
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:24,720
I, I mean, I love, I love this
podcast 'cause you're saying

685
00:35:24,720 --> 00:35:28,720
real men, real men feel.
And for me, there is something

686
00:35:28,720 --> 00:35:32,760
about a man who is in touch with
his masculine, because a man who

687
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:35,680
is in touch with his, I mean
with his feminine and man who is

688
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,960
in touch with his feminine, that
is feeling your emotions and

689
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:40,800
being comfortable in your
vulnerability.

690
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:43,200
What a beautiful T-shirt that
you're wearing, you know,

691
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:47,440
because that's exactly that.
When a man is in touch with all

692
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,400
his senses, with all his
emotions, it's kind of like

693
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:54,080
giving other people around him
to feel.

694
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,920
But when a man is not in touch
with himself, people arousing

695
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,920
him are feeling lost.
They do not know that place

696
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:03,440
around this past and they feel
lost.

697
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:05,800
But when you are in touch, it's
kind of like I'm giving you

698
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:08,560
permission to be yourself.
Your children feel comfortable

699
00:36:08,720 --> 00:36:11,440
to be themselves and to connect
to themselves because you are

700
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,920
guiding them.
And I love it when I say I help

701
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:17,600
people to thrive in the
boardroom and boardroom and then

702
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:18,760
bedroom.
It's just that.

703
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:21,560
Because who you are in the
bedroom is also who you are

704
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:23,840
being in the boardroom.
Because everything is about

705
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,600
presence when it comes to that
orgasmic sex.

706
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,480
Because men love sex.
You know that.

707
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:34,720
But for your woman who trust you
to let go, you better.

708
00:36:34,720 --> 00:36:36,320
You better be able to hold
space.

709
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:41,400
Because the truth of it is most
women are being traumatized when

710
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:45,520
they're having sex because they
are just allowing men to

711
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:49,120
penetrate them when there is no
emotional connection and when

712
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:52,360
that body is not ready.
And I know that at the core of

713
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:56,360
every man's being, they don't
want to do that, you know, but

714
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:58,520
they're doing it because they're
not aware of that.

715
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:01,400
But when you are connected to
yourself, you are able to be

716
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,600
present.
And even if your partner is not

717
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:07,560
fully in, you can, you can tell
that this is not who I know what

718
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,920
is going on, babe.
And you can lean in and give

719
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,920
them what they need.
And it's the same thing in the

720
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:15,680
office where there can be some
people who are forward and

721
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,000
they're expressing what they
need.

722
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:18,760
Maybe somebody, something
happened.

723
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,360
They just force them to
themselves to come to work and

724
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,560
maybe that that wife is sick or
something.

725
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:25,560
Somebody sit in the corner.
You are aware of your

726
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:28,440
environment and you can check in
what is happening because this

727
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:30,360
is not who you are and you get
to know.

728
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,800
For me, that's a form of
leadership in the boardroom or

729
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:36,360
bedroom.
And we need more of our kins to

730
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:39,720
come and lead with us.
Because I believe a king who has

731
00:37:39,720 --> 00:37:42,400
a space for a queen and the
queen has a space for a king.

732
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:47,360
Excellent.
You have covered a lot of

733
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:48,760
material.
What?

734
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:51,120
What's the best way for people
to find out more about all that

735
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:53,080
you're up to I'm.
Going to share a link with you,

736
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,760
which is what I call orgasmic
clarity, which is an

737
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,400
introduction to African Asian
quantum medicine.

738
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:01,400
So I just invite you to go call
and let's see what's going to

739
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:03,480
come through.
And here's the thing that I, I

740
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:05,840
really emphasize and I also
laughed at when it comes to

741
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:10,480
working with men, because people
often say men, OK, It's one of

742
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:13,760
the conditioning that men do.
They, they, they don't express

743
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:15,680
themselves.
And when it comes, especially

744
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:17,880
when it comes to whether
something is going on, whether

745
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:21,600
it's sexual energy, I've worked
with people who maybe they're

746
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,640
just coming early, you know, and
it's something that creates that

747
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:26,640
shame.
But when I connect with the

748
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:28,600
body, it's something that I
connect with, it's kind of like

749
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:31,040
I get to know what is happening.
You don't have to explain

750
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:32,800
everything.
The body will communicate with

751
00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:35,280
me and I get to work with that.
This is why my work is, I mean,

752
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:37,960
it's like very ideal for men
because I've worked with some

753
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:39,600
people and I'm like, what is
happening here?

754
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,640
Your pelvic area.
So like, I don't know what is

755
00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:43,800
happening.
And then from there we've worked

756
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:46,640
and then they went and tried and
it's kind of like I didn't want

757
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:48,920
to say anything earlier, but
there's a problem that I've been

758
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:50,760
having.
But man, I'm a boy now.

759
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,040
I'm beg to wear and all myself
to be so.

760
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:58,160
So I love that because it helps
them to relax and not only rely

761
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,840
on what the mind knows, but we
work on the body.

762
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:06,440
So it's up to you.
So we'll be sure and have that

763
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:12,400
link in the show notes.
And my queen, thank you for your

764
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:13,800
time.
Thank you for visiting with us

765
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:15,800
today.
This, this was fantastic.

766
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:17,720
Thanks for everybody listening,
tuning in.

767
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,800
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768
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:22,520
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We'll have all the various links

769
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,840
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770
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,360
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771
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:29,920
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00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:32,040
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773
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:36,600
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774
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:39,440
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775
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:43,720
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00:39:43,720 --> 00:39:44,120
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