What I Learned About Men While Working as an Escort with Deva Logan

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Hello and welcome to real men

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field.
This is Andy Grant.

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Welcome to episode 47.
Very excited to have you here.

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In addition to welcome all you
fabulous listeners.

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Let me first also welcome my
fabulous friend and co-host

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Appio Hunter.
Hey Andy, how's it going very

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good?
How are you doing this week?

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I'm having a fantastic week and
it's just going to keep getting

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better.
That's right, it is.

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And imagine that we're recording
on a Monday.

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So just think what the week's
going to be like.

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Yeah, it's like we have an extra
day in our week.

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Because we've adjusted our
schedule and we don't adjust our

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schedule just for anybody either
tonight, tonight's guest is

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returning for her second
appearance.

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Her first appearance was really
just last month.

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It was episode 44.
She joined us to talk about open

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relationships, and I know I
learned a lot over the course of

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that discussion, including that
DEVO once worked as an escort

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and that really opened up
tonight's topic, but so please

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give it up for the Vixen goddess
herself.

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Diva Logan.
Hi boos.

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So happy to have you back and
I'm so happy to be back.

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I brought wine this time it's
gonna be one of those shows.

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The Diva is a relationship, sex
and life enthusiast whose life's

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mission is to help people to
transform their lives.

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Using sex and love.
Here, here.

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I feel like sex needs to be the
topic of everybody's like #1

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priority have sex regularly.
Great so it's we thought this

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would be a nice alternative
subject matter for a Valentine's

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show.
Instead of going all gooey and

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love and chocolate and flowers
you know let's bring it.

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What can you learn from an
escort?

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What sort of romance tips and
intimacy tips?

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Perhaps you'll you'll unleash on
us tonight as well?

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Oh, I'm going to every woman or
man would love the hartner like

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they are the side chick or the
side me.

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Everyone.
Awesome, so let's let's back it

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up a little bit and once you
share with this how how you

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became an escort, how you got
into that line of work.

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I imagine it wasn't like a high
school guidance counsellor said

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you'd make a great escort.
Well, no, it wasn't a high

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school guidance counsellor or
somebody else.

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But um.
Well, I always loved the movie.

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Pretty Woman cliche.
But no, that's not really why I

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got into it.
It's a very embarrassing kind of

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story.
How I got into working as an

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escort.
I had an abortion.

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I took some money from my mother
and I wanted to make it back

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really, really fast and.
That's how I got in the

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escorting and then I.
Paid her back.

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I think I remember little time
ago.

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I don't remember, so then I
picked up and moved to Chicago

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to chase the dream.
And Dream didn't work out well,

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so I.
Picked up sponsor so I've had

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this kind of like the sugar
daddy.

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Sugar Daddy perspective and from
the like taking calls through

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someone else.
Experience as well.

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And and how, how, how long was
your your escort time?

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Ohhh the first time I did it a
couple months.

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The second time it was also a
couple months.

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But in that time.
I got to meet a whole lot of

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different people.
Um?

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And I was I'm the type of person
I'm kind of like a workaholic,

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so there would be times when I
would just be like. 234 days at

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a time.
Like anytime.

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Just call me.
And so I got to go on a lot of

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calls.
That way the first time, the

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second time when I was in
Chicago, it was more of a

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one-on-one type.
We got to sit down and really

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get to know each other.
And I think for them, they never

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necessarily.
The second time, the men that

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I'm dealing with had never
necessarily met a woman who lied

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to me.
A huge nerd and really bad and

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everything.
I mean, it was that the first

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time too was a little bit
different.

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When you're one on with somebody
as opposed to spending half an

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hour 40 minutes with them.
I'm curious about something out

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there.
What particular myths I'm just

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going to jump right into it and
say, ask you what particular

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myths about escorts do you want
to dispel, if any?

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That escorts are stupid like
we're not.

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Escorts are essentially
entrepreneurs.

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They're just happening happening
to use the very thing that most

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women give away for free.
They're making money from it, so

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that's the only difference.
Escorts are getting paid.

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Not all of us walk the track.
And I say us because.

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Once you're a part of the sex
working business, it's not quite

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like you know.
It's not like you get out of it

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at some point in time.
You just.

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Once you, it's almost like in a
bike like we learn how to ride a

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bike.
You never get how to ride a, so

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there are times when I actually
go out now that I walk into a

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bar and I'll be in the entire
room, be like.

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Ham, Ham, ham, ham, ham, ham,
her.

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And I have to be like, OK, we're
not here for that.

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That's not not what we're here,
but.

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Escorts very brief people,
especially ones that go on

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individual calls because you're
walking into a space that you

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don't know with a stranger every
single time and you are having

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sex with that person in some
way, shape or form dangerous but

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extremely brave extremely.
A good escort is a awesome

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business person because she's
marketing herself consistently.

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She is a great salesperson
because she literally felt

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herself or she's lying.
She's also a great interest

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because then she's still selling
act as well.

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Um?
Efforts are attacted not bad

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that they had sex because oh,
they're just about something.

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They're all like many, these
women are do this because.

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Having a 9 to 5, they're making
twice as much money as they

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would if they went to a nine to
five job.

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They get to be at home with
their kids if they've had.

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If they've had children.
And they they are interacting

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with people on a regular,
everyday basis.

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They're literally service
workers, so they're providing a

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service and they're getting
paid, sometimes not so well, but

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they're going to pay you very
well for this service.

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And if they're budgeting right
and managing their money right,

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they can.
It's it's very, very lucrative.

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There is a dark side to the
industry.

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I'm not gonna deny that.
I personally feel like escorting

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prostitution should be
legalised.

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So it can be regulated and we
can stop.

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Child tracking prostitution
there can?

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I mean I'm not saying there
won't be blark it's, but that'll

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help cut down on the black
market and in a sense.

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And then there can be relations
as far as TV thing and all this

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stuff.
You guys know that I'm very open

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about the fact that I have these
and the that I've been in these

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situations.
I do want to say that when I was

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working as an escort, I was the
first time I had not been

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diagnosed with herpes.
I had not.

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I did not know if I had it.
So it's very possible that I

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picked up herpes from doing
that, but also.

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The second time around I was
taking suppression medication on

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a regular basis, so it wasn't
like I was just out there like.

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Fucking people and putting them
at risk.

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So right?
Yeah, so so you.

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I think earlier before we start
you said you there were like 5

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main things you learned about
men during this.

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Yes, definitely.
Just one second hold on.

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I've had a baby moment.
No, no baby.

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I don't want to tortilla can't
go back.

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And watching a movie being a mom
never stops.

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That's so true you know it off.
And know what being apparent

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never stops either because we
have moments as well.

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How about this?
Dead.

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Do you want to say hi?
OK.

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Go sit down and finish watching
your Dory movie.

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I licked it off.
You're good.

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There's no beans on your
tortilla.

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Alright, so no guest appearance
also sound like no guest

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appearances.
No, she thought about it though

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and she said yeah thanks.
She's very polite when she wants

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to be.
As we all are, yes I like that

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caveat there.
But yes, there are five specific

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things that I learned when I
worked as an escort.

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And and.
These five things I feel like

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we're the things that we can
understand and realise

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specifically about in.
And another that they can lies

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as to.
I'm not making your

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justification for Chief.
Let me give that disclaimer

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right now.
There is no just hide reason for

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somebody to lie and cheat and
their situation, however.

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These five things.
Our space is to understand the

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why behind it.
So I have 5 topics.

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Um, I'm going to jump into them
now.

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If you guys don't mind so.
The number one thing that I

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learned, well, let's start at 5
#5.

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Men are emotionally.
Could you repeat that?

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Men are emotional beings,
emotional beings.

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If not more emotional than men
are.

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Um, because of society in in
manhood when a man hires an

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escort, he's with a total and
complete stranger.

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He doesn't know her unless they
have developed a certain, and

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that's kind of when the show
Daddy kicks in Sugar Daddy

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aspect kicks in, but when
they're first meeting.

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He doesn't know who she are.
She's the complete and total

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stranger.
And.

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There are no pretences, because
you're literally about to hand

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somebody cash for a very
intimate experience.

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Not super intimate, but intimate
nonetheless, so.

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They get to relax, they don't.
There's no, I don't have to be

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anybody.
I don't have to be the doctor.

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I don't have to be the lawyer.
I don't have to be the

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professional.
I don't have to be the dad.

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I don't have to be the husband.
I can drop all that and

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essentially be exactly who I am.
Because I'm probably never going

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to see this woman again, ever in
life.

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And if I do.
I get to share this intimate

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space with her.
So there's also one if if a

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person decides that they want to
continue this situation with an

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escort and and have have these
these encounters with her,

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there's there's an intimacy that
is bred from that space.

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But men emotional beings, they
will show you.

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Every single emotion from being
stressed out being tired.

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To being hurt to being
embarrassed.

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To.
Being happy to celebrating.

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So.
When men choose to engage with

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escorts or even choose to cheat,
it's because that they get a

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lot.
They are allowed to be

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emotional.
Yeah, yeah, so there's a freedom

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in that.
Yes, anonymity yes.

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Freedom in in in being able to
engage with the stranger and

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just drop all those pretences
and just be.

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Whoever they are.
So you know, yeah, it speaks to

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the to the whole experience of
not having any expectations, and

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I think we actually talked about
this.

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I can't remember if it's during
the last show or during the pre

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show post show how there is, you
know when when talking about our

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pasts, particularly when it's
with family.

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Family oftentimes doesn't want
to let go, whereas with a total

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stranger, it's so easy because
there is no past.

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Starting from that moment, this
is who I am.

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I don't have to be anybody else.
And and when you are paying

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someone for a service like.
The stories that I heard when I

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would work as an escort that
they would share with me.

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I remember my very, very very
first client.

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Um, and that's going to bring me
to another point, but I'm gonna

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share this right now.
My very, very, very first

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experience of working as an
escort was an older gentleman.

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He was probably in his late 60s,
early 70s and his wife had died.

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And he did not want to have sex
with me.

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He just wanted to rub his Dick.
In between the crack of my ass

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that was it just a little bit
Lube rub his Dick in between the

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crack of my ass and that was it.
That was it, but for him it was

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like yeah my wife has died and
I.

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I just from time to time one I
share this space.

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With the woman I don't need it
on regular basis, but from time

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to time I and to hear like he's
an emotional being like.

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I got to see Humaness working as
an escort.

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Hmm, your humanity.
So yeah, that's #5.

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Men are emotional game.
Love that.

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OK, any other questions?
I don't want to jump in.

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I want Andy to Andy.
Good, be ready to go.

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I'm good.
Yeah bring on #4.

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OK so #4 men will settle.
Men will settle for the woman

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that looks good on paper, so the
reason I picked this one is

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because.
Here's a guy in Chicago and.

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I met him randomly.
He was not someone that I was

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planning on engaging with, but.
I was out with my home girl.

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Ohfa story sorry I was out with
my home girl and we went to a

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bar.
And him and his friend happened

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to be sitting there.
And.

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They asked us if we wanted to
buy around a shot so we were

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getting up to leave and they
were like where are you going?

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We were like where we're headed
to another place and he was like

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Oh well, let's buy you around
like don't leave.

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And.
We end up getting drunk and that

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night going to his place and we
talked about how he had the best

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to have a threesome.
He actually did pay us, he

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didn't end up having a
threesome.

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But come to find out, like he
didn't tell us that he was in a

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reactive.
Come to find out, like while I'm

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engaging with him, my friend is
crawling around on the floor

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like going through the
apartment.

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Ohhhhh, OK, sorry I'm just
reliving this in my brain.

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It was so funny like this after
that if it helps.

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When we walked out and she was
like bitch, I was crawling

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around on the floor.
I was in the closet.

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That bitch has some Jimmy Choos
that was so fucking gorgeous.

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I was like ohe, my God, what the
fuck is this happened?

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But he's with this woman and I
asked him later.

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Like we exchanged numbers and we
would go out to eat, meet up,

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sometimes, hang out.
And.

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I asked him.
I said you have a girlfriend

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like what are you doing.
He was like she's great and we

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fit perfectly together on paper.
But I could tell that he just

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wasn't happy.
It was like that butt and then

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just kind of let awkward drop
off.

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He settled, he settled for what
looked right on paper, but he

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was never actually happy.
I know so many men who have

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settled because it looked good
on paper, only to wake up one

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morning and be like, yeah, I
don't.

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I don't really want to be with
you.

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And many times, once they have
um, once they have settled.

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They have kids.
When they're trapped, they feel

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trapped or like.
I have an ex he's.

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I hope he watches this because I
like talking about him.

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I have an ex who is green.
And he wanted to be with me and

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I was like, well, I can't be
with you if your wife doesn't

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fully 100% know that I'm in the
situation.

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So.
He's like, but like I really

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don't want to be with her.
However, I've built this 6-7

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figure business and if I divorce
her I'm going to have to start

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all over.
I was like so is it worth the

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Super horrible sex and the
unhappy relationship and the

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faking it all the time?
And you being miserable?

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Or is it worth your 7 figure
business?

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And clearly he's still married
to his wife?

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And I have the partner that I'm
supposed to be with?

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So as soon Julie's men will
settle for what looks good on

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paper and once they get into
that situation, most likely they

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won't leave, they'll just end
up.

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If they're, if they're not men
of integrity, they will end up

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cheating.
You know what's interesting

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because during this conversation
that brought up a very awesome

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side conversation to chat about
how our society teaches us to

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settle women and men.
Both are almost tossed cell and

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they settled because you have to
be in a relationship with this

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or that.
But the problem I would say

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probably seem to be even worse
with men than with women,

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because men still have this
image that they have to project

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this persona that they have to
maintain.

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And depending on which part of
the culture they were raised in,

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it can be far worse.
You know they have to settle.

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They must to please everybody
else except themselves and and

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to your point, it results in you
making lots of money.

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It works out really well for
escorts and for for girls I mean

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look at what happened with
Ashley Madison and Sugar

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daddies.com and seeking
arrangements like there's a

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reason why these businesses why
brothels are so profitable.

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There's a whole reason.
Essentially it's because of

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exactly what you said.
Society says that men have to be

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a certain way instead of them
just being who they are and

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finding a woman who is willing
to.

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Accept them for exactly who they
are.

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So if men were open and honest
about being emotional beings I I

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would think they wouldn't settle
then if they honoured their true

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feelings and happiness to go and
connect you with someone instead

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of.
Well, this is who I should be

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with.
That that that would eliminate

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.4 if men decided and accepted
that their masculinity was

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established at birth and they
could be whoever the fuck they

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wanted to be.
Life would be much easier.

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There's another book title for
you.

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Boo, yeah.
Your masculinity was established

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at birth.
Yes, you were born with a Dick.

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You're congratulations.
Go be just be whoever going to

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be.
So my the thing that I learned

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is that memory shame.
So.

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I remember it was only my second
or third experience of like

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taking balls I met up with this
guy and.

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He did not ejaculate normally.
So he had a condition where.

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When he ejaculated.
It didn't come out.

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It reverted back into his body.
And.

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After we got done, which I
thought was super awesome

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because there's no clean up.
Yay, I'm not covered in sperm.

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Woohoo, I'm a Virgo.
I have slight OCD.

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I hate that shit.
So I said that almost every day.

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Yeah, I'm not covered in sperm,
so yes.

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Like I was like yo, this man
just needs to find a woman who

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has some type of OCD and hates
the fucking oh I'm sticking out.

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I have to go get the warm towel
and wipe myself up ilk and get

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this shit off me.
OK the moments over so he was

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like.
I have yet to meet a woman like

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I'm embarrassed to be with a
woman because I have this

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condition and he carried so much
shame behind that not realising

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that the fact that he didn't
ejaculate like a normal man

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would make.
Damn near any woman excited

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because she did.
There was no clean up afterwards

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like sure baby, if you want to
come on my face you surely can.

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You can smack it on my face.
All you want to do yet I don't

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have to get into my hair.
I have to get it towed.

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You know essentially wet outside
of me like.

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Instead of his seeing that in
that perspective, instead of

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seeing the positives of the fact
that he had this condition, that

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he doesn't seem in.
He carried so much shame behind

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that he was so embarrassed that
he was not like a regular man.

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That he could not be in a
relationship.

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So instead he hired escorts you
go around from town to town and

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hire an escort.
It wouldn't be on a regular

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basis, it would just be when he
got the urge.

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And.
His shame kept him from being

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great.
His shame kept him from love.

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His shame kept him from deep
intimacy with another human

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being.
His shame kept him trapped in

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this box.
He could actually be with

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another.
He could actually be with

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another person.
Ohhhhh, wow, you know that is

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that that that theme of shame.
It seems to be like a universal

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human condition.
Men and women both.

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Obviously this show is devoted
to talking about how men

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experience that, but oh man,
that we could have a whole other

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show on that alone.
And you're saying that that that

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every man that that came to see
you were generally sees escorts?

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They're carrying some level of
shame?

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It's not this this one instance.
Yes, there was a gentleman and

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he wasn't even.
I met him within the last couple

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years so I don't do this
anymore.

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I don't.
I have thought about it, but I

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don't do this anymore.
Just saying.

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Good money.
He was a man who experienced

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erectile dysfunction.
And he felt shame behind that.

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So he was like, you know, ever
since.

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My my wife and I, my wife died
and I've tried to date a few

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other women, but now that I have
this EV issue and I don't really

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know if I can connect with
another woman and if I can get

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hard, I come really quickly.
You know all these areas around

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shame and it's like bro, you are
super intelligent and I met him

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because he was my Uber driver so
I was drunk as shit one night

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and when I'm drunk.
I talked to anybody.

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Is that what you're drinking
tonight?

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Talking to us?
Is that the real reason I am?

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Yes, it makes it easier to talk
about things, but also denied

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Valentine's and I just feel like
you know, why not talk about

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cunnilingus, fellatio, and
working as an escort like.

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Sometimes you need a little bit
of alcohol, but happier is

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actually is joined.
US thought that he came in and

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he will tell you like.
I literally will talk to anybody

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I'm drunk like I.
There is no person that I don't

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know when I am highly
intoxicated.

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Everybody's my best friend.
I love them.

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Come back with me let's be
buddies oh I love you and I was

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like lose time so.
In this space, like I I'm I'm we

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get into this conversation like
me and my Uber driver drunk off

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my ass.
Just about people and the time

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and space continuum.
Like I, I promise you, my

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conversations will run in a
totally different direction,

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but.
In that space like he was like,

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oh, you're so cool and I told
him, you know, I wanted to start

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this consulting firm blah blah
blah blah blah and then he would

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just hit me up from time to
time.

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Like hey, I'll come pick you up,
you know?

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Yes, I'll come pick you up and
we'll talk and you know you just

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say like.
I'm embarrassed like do I?

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Do I go to a massage parlour
because I'm scared to connect

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with a woman like because I have
E and I may not be able to get

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hard?
And if I do hard, I can't really

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and you know, like just this
carrying of shame for him.

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And I just wanted him to know
like just because you have this

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experience.
Just because you were in this

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space.
Doesn't mean that you're any

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less of a man that you're any
less.

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Sexy like sexual intercourse is
just the cherry on top of the

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Sunday.
It's not the fucking Sunday.

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So yeah, men carry Shane a tonne
of it.

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And yes, and I love it cause
this again seems to be going

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back to five right emotional
beings.

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Emotional being.
Yeah, if you're not willing to

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express that chain, you end up
in the back of an Uber with an

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escort you ender.
Well, I wasn't an escort, but

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yes, you can end up in the back
of an Uber with an escort.

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00:29:02,970 --> 00:29:07,360
But if you don't deal with the
shame and being an emotional

455
00:29:07,370 --> 00:29:10,940
being, then you'll end up
settling and end up hiring an

456
00:29:10,950 --> 00:29:15,320
escort or getting.
Or like that?

457
00:29:16,060 --> 00:29:22,260
You know?
Got it so OK number two sex is

458
00:29:22,270 --> 00:29:28,030
transactional and sex can heal.
What was that about again?

459
00:29:31,090 --> 00:29:34,730
I gotta hit that.
Sex is transactional.

460
00:29:35,430 --> 00:29:39,640
And sex can heal.
Yeah.

461
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:42,970
Yes to both.
I have experienced both.

462
00:29:43,380 --> 00:29:47,280
I I yes.
Now is it?

463
00:29:47,330 --> 00:29:50,280
Is it usually one or the other
or can it be both at the same

464
00:29:50,290 --> 00:29:52,400
time?
It can be both at the same time.

465
00:29:52,410 --> 00:29:57,080
Come on Andy, come on just when
that term transactional just

466
00:29:57,090 --> 00:30:00,920
feels very dry and just you give
me that and I give you this and

467
00:30:00,930 --> 00:30:02,860
then we leave.
I know, right?

468
00:30:02,870 --> 00:30:06,010
But let's peel apart
transactions, right?

469
00:30:07,940 --> 00:30:10,470
Transactions can be a bartering
transaction.

470
00:30:11,530 --> 00:30:18,680
It can be a gift transaction.
It can be a cash for service

471
00:30:18,690 --> 00:30:22,740
transaction.
It can be a service for service

472
00:30:22,750 --> 00:30:27,610
transaction.
It can be an exchange of words.

473
00:30:28,490 --> 00:30:31,940
People don't realise that
exchanging words a conversation

474
00:30:31,950 --> 00:30:34,870
is transactional because you're
giving words.

475
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,600
I'm giving words.
It's a transaction so.

476
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:42,240
What people how people see sex
is that.

477
00:30:43,090 --> 00:30:46,200
Oh well, once I have sex with a
person, that transaction stops.

478
00:30:46,210 --> 00:30:48,640
No, you're actually having a
transaction because you're

479
00:30:48,650 --> 00:30:50,160
exchanging pleasure for
pleasure.

480
00:30:50,390 --> 00:30:54,090
Now if you did not get pleasure
from that situation.

481
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,910
Yo, you're losing out.
Did you get a refund?

482
00:30:58,190 --> 00:31:04,490
You should get the fuck up
you're not fuck you no I'm not

483
00:31:04,500 --> 00:31:07,430
fucking anymore which I have to
interject here really quick

484
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:10,130
because it just reminded me of a
joke which is right along these

485
00:31:10,140 --> 00:31:13,670
lines, which is what is a four
letter word ending in K that

486
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:17,940
means the same as intercourse.
Talk.

487
00:31:18,750 --> 00:31:25,160
Yes, I like that.
Love that so it's transactional

488
00:31:25,170 --> 00:31:30,350
and it's a form of intercourse.
Yes yes yes so.

489
00:31:31,010 --> 00:31:35,430
That transaction can be.
Sex for money.

490
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,010
Hmm.
So it's all energy.

491
00:31:39,020 --> 00:31:41,990
If especially for my woo woo
people who will see this.

492
00:31:42,420 --> 00:31:45,650
Yes sex in it's all energy.
It's all the same thing.

493
00:31:45,660 --> 00:31:49,170
It's all energy.
So if sex is creation, sexual

494
00:31:49,180 --> 00:31:54,230
energy is also creative energy
and creative energy also aligns

495
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:57,230
with money energy.
Why can't sex energy and money

496
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,390
energy be the same damn thing?
Yeah.

497
00:32:01,300 --> 00:32:04,580
That just, I think that leaves
us all speechless right now

498
00:32:04,590 --> 00:32:07,070
because we have to.
It just absorb that one.

499
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:12,030
So yeah, sex is transactional.
It's 100%.

500
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:15,650
It's actual transactional.
Either you're you're exchanging

501
00:32:15,660 --> 00:32:19,060
pleasure, you're exchanging
pleasure for cash, you're

502
00:32:19,070 --> 00:32:24,870
exchanging pleasure for.
A relationship you can exchange

503
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:29,730
pleasure for stability, but
let's think about marriage,

504
00:32:29,790 --> 00:32:33,980
shall we?
Most people where in some type

505
00:32:33,990 --> 00:32:40,280
of marriage a woman knows that
if she sucks her husband's Dick

506
00:32:40,290 --> 00:32:44,980
or fucks him on his birthday, or
when she wants something she is

507
00:32:44,990 --> 00:32:46,420
going to get the money to get
it.

508
00:32:46,430 --> 00:32:48,980
So what the fuck makes her
different between.

509
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:55,820
An escort, a prostitute.
Or anybody else or a porner.

510
00:32:56,370 --> 00:32:59,780
There's no diff.
The only difference is when he

511
00:32:59,790 --> 00:33:04,280
dies, she will acquire his
property home that she makes it

512
00:33:04,290 --> 00:33:09,660
all the way to knitting divorce.
In other words, Sugar Daddy, but

513
00:33:09,670 --> 00:33:11,810
with the paperwork that said
that changes it to hell.

514
00:33:11,820 --> 00:33:15,480
Yeah, a committed shit happened
to get tax break.

515
00:33:16,830 --> 00:33:21,120
Thanks Michael and a tax break
exactly, so sex is always

516
00:33:21,130 --> 00:33:23,920
transactional and sometimes it
has a tax break aside to it.

517
00:33:23,970 --> 00:33:27,550
Sometimes it doesn't.
Yes just one second give me just

518
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:29,620
a minute and I will make you
another burrito.

519
00:33:29,630 --> 00:33:32,680
OK, alright, no, don't stand
there.

520
00:33:32,690 --> 00:33:35,500
Go sit down and watch a movie.
Thank you.

521
00:33:36,740 --> 00:33:42,440
OK, mommy.
What transactions, exactly?

522
00:33:42,660 --> 00:33:44,760
There's an exchange there,
right?

523
00:33:44,830 --> 00:33:47,980
Yes, I'll make the burrito, but
that's to go down.

524
00:33:49,510 --> 00:33:53,970
The fact that.
Exactly the sex can heal, so

525
00:33:54,020 --> 00:33:56,690
there there were many times
where.

526
00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:00,710
Men would come in.
And we would exchange a

527
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:03,080
conversation, or I'd go meet a
guy.

528
00:34:04,540 --> 00:34:08,090
The very last quote unquote
Sugar Daddy that I had.

529
00:34:09,949 --> 00:34:12,290
Um?
He was.

530
00:34:14,170 --> 00:34:18,520
He was hurt in a whole lot of
places and we would talk about

531
00:34:18,530 --> 00:34:23,330
that hurt.
And for people who are woo woo

532
00:34:23,340 --> 00:34:28,020
and who really understand what
sex is like truly, truly

533
00:34:28,030 --> 00:34:31,429
understand what sex is.
Sex.

534
00:34:32,199 --> 00:34:35,670
Is a sad.
It's a healing conduit.

535
00:34:36,830 --> 00:34:40,960
And women being the
extraordinary beings that we are

536
00:34:40,969 --> 00:34:43,610
not saying a man can't do this
for a woman.

537
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:48,060
But women, being the
extraordinary beings that we are

538
00:34:48,460 --> 00:34:53,969
and essentially receiving.
Not that you can't do this and

539
00:34:53,980 --> 00:34:58,900
not be a woman.
But the ability to receive

540
00:34:58,950 --> 00:35:02,290
things.
There are things that women

541
00:35:02,300 --> 00:35:04,180
don't understand that they can
do.

542
00:35:05,260 --> 00:35:09,490
With their vagina.
So with essentially you can be

543
00:35:09,500 --> 00:35:17,310
having sex with a man and heal
him by sucking out and receiving

544
00:35:17,380 --> 00:35:21,130
all his pain.
All his hurt, all his

545
00:35:21,140 --> 00:35:26,610
frustration.
And taking that, holding it in

546
00:35:26,620 --> 00:35:30,300
your vagina.
And if you're still having a

547
00:35:30,310 --> 00:35:34,260
menstrual cycle, releasing that
during your middle.

548
00:35:35,330 --> 00:35:38,900
And I know that possibly blow
some of mine and I know I

549
00:35:38,910 --> 00:35:41,410
possibly might have to explain
that a little bit deeper.

550
00:35:42,150 --> 00:35:46,390
I know, I know that not
everybody believes that.

551
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:50,640
But I've seen it for myself.
I've done it.

552
00:35:52,470 --> 00:35:57,920
That you can literally heal a
man from his heart because we

553
00:35:57,930 --> 00:36:01,830
all come out of a vagina.
So if the vagina gave you life.

554
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:06,690
Why wouldn't the vagina be able
to heal you or kill you at any

555
00:36:06,700 --> 00:36:13,680
given time?
You know, John put in here in

556
00:36:13,690 --> 00:36:16,460
the comments.
That happens energetically too,

557
00:36:16,770 --> 00:36:19,620
even when goods are not
exchange.

558
00:36:20,330 --> 00:36:24,480
Yeah.
Our energy fields meet before

559
00:36:24,490 --> 00:36:27,390
our physical fields do so.
Sure, yeah.

560
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,620
Which is why anybody,
essentially anybody can.

561
00:36:31,780 --> 00:36:36,450
Do this like anybody can heal
another person using sex, even

562
00:36:36,460 --> 00:36:40,180
using their energy.
And and of course, the Grammys

563
00:36:40,190 --> 00:36:43,380
were last night, and everybody's
talking about Beyoncé and and

564
00:36:43,390 --> 00:36:46,340
her oshun references and all
that.

565
00:36:46,410 --> 00:36:50,680
But in that space of honouring
the woman and honouring the life

566
00:36:50,690 --> 00:36:53,220
Bureau with her being pregnant
right now, like.

567
00:36:54,520 --> 00:37:01,940
There is so much.
Healing that a woman can do.

568
00:37:02,820 --> 00:37:07,420
With her energy with.
With her heart and you know that

569
00:37:07,430 --> 00:37:10,010
you guys know I talk about the
three pussies so with her brain

570
00:37:10,220 --> 00:37:14,390
her heart and with her vagina,
she essentially can transform

571
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:16,800
the world.
So she's giving birth.

572
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,030
A woman gives birth.
We all come through the vagina

573
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:23,120
to be born.
Some of us see section, but it's

574
00:37:23,130 --> 00:37:28,300
the same thing of a uterus and a
vagina held all of us in cocoon

575
00:37:28,630 --> 00:37:30,780
and and preserved our life to
get here.

576
00:37:31,860 --> 00:37:35,940
So that means that that very
thing that preserved our life.

577
00:37:37,170 --> 00:37:42,390
Cannot only heal us.
But it can also kill us at the

578
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,190
same time, which is why women
have to be so careful.

579
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,090
And that's a whole other topic.
But yeah.

580
00:37:47,990 --> 00:37:52,620
So yes, and by the way, I love
it when gay men fall in love

581
00:37:52,630 --> 00:38:00,720
with me, I just.
Thank you, I do and every time I

582
00:38:00,730 --> 00:38:03,010
talk to you I just fall in love
with you all over again.

583
00:38:03,910 --> 00:38:06,470
I totally do.
You know, my partner tells me

584
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:09,050
that too.
So apparently I have a gift.

585
00:38:09,370 --> 00:38:14,990
You do, you totally do.
And so diva are all three

586
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:19,190
pussies healing and receptive.
Yes, all three pussies are

587
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:22,150
healing and receptive.
So a woman can heal to heal a

588
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:25,310
man with her brain and her
thoughts and just her

589
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:27,180
conversation.
Because, of course, I thought,

590
00:38:27,190 --> 00:38:30,690
you know, all our words.
All our actions start in our

591
00:38:30,700 --> 00:38:33,770
brain.
She can heal them in and and or

592
00:38:33,780 --> 00:38:35,750
a woman.
Women too.

593
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:37,930
This is not a.
This is just a human being

594
00:38:37,940 --> 00:38:39,990
thing.
She can heal a person with her

595
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:41,830
thoughts.
She can heal a person just by

596
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:44,800
loving them unconditionally.
No questions asked.

597
00:38:44,810 --> 00:38:47,280
This is who you are and I'm
going to unconditionally give

598
00:38:47,290 --> 00:38:49,250
you my love.
That doesn't mean that I'm going

599
00:38:49,260 --> 00:38:52,060
to allow you into my space all
the time, but I'm going to give

600
00:38:52,070 --> 00:38:54,600
you love.
I'm going to support you and I'm

601
00:38:54,610 --> 00:38:59,580
going to be empathetic.
Even with my boundary and then.

602
00:39:00,650 --> 00:39:06,280
I can heal you through pleasure.
I can hear you through the

603
00:39:06,430 --> 00:39:10,450
replay that we're born.
Cool.

604
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:14,030
And and that really the the
three pussy vibe really can

605
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:17,370
explain how you can be feel so
intimate and loved and healed

606
00:39:17,380 --> 00:39:19,930
with someone and not necessarily
be having intercourse too.

607
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:25,250
Yeah, and that's why you can be
so loved and healed and give

608
00:39:25,260 --> 00:39:28,860
somebody payment for it.
We pay coaches.

609
00:39:29,270 --> 00:39:30,860
Coaches use their brains and
their heart.

610
00:39:32,250 --> 00:39:36,160
So what's wrong with using our
genitalia for the same thing?

611
00:39:37,650 --> 00:39:41,040
Nothing wrong with it.
Go sit down, ma'am.

612
00:39:41,730 --> 00:39:45,250
Hi baby, go sit down now there's
something wrong.

613
00:39:45,260 --> 00:39:50,570
OK, be back in a minute, no
trying trying this is the most

614
00:39:50,580 --> 00:39:53,630
interesting space of life
because you go from talking

615
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,670
about Dick and pussy still OK
baby go sit down and watch story

616
00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:00,450
you know like it's it's the most
interesting thing ever ever ever

617
00:40:01,020 --> 00:40:05,790
OK and this leads me to the
number one thing I learned by

618
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:12,560
working as an escort.
Men get lonely and need love

619
00:40:12,570 --> 00:40:16,280
too.
Amanda, that.

620
00:40:18,010 --> 00:40:20,200
And and and is that a surprise
to some men?

621
00:40:21,190 --> 00:40:24,740
Yes, well.
Especially when they run into

622
00:40:24,750 --> 00:40:28,800
somebody who is just chill like
she's not like OK, just come on

623
00:40:28,810 --> 00:40:31,180
and get it over with which there
are some women like that.

624
00:40:31,390 --> 00:40:35,790
Well, when a woman gives a man
the whole experience, they don't

625
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:41,310
realise how.
Even if it's an hour, they jump

626
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:45,230
up and they have like they feel
good and they slept well the

627
00:40:45,240 --> 00:40:48,270
night before.
And it's like, yeah, well, this

628
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:51,750
woman just came in and gave her
all your pussy gave you all her

629
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:55,030
pussy.
And then you know, like.

630
00:40:55,870 --> 00:40:57,550
Men don't admit when they get
lonely.

631
00:40:59,820 --> 00:41:04,710
Men want to admit that they need
someone to be a soft landing

632
00:41:04,720 --> 00:41:09,110
space.
For them that will just hold

633
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:12,170
them and love them like Mama
used to do or like.

634
00:41:12,180 --> 00:41:15,700
Mama didn't do that they've
never experienced ever in life.

635
00:41:16,430 --> 00:41:20,450
Hmm.
Oh yeah, those are the five

636
00:41:20,460 --> 00:41:22,250
things that I learned working as
an escort.

637
00:41:23,010 --> 00:41:26,370
Excellent, thank you very much
for sharing them, you're

638
00:41:26,380 --> 00:41:29,650
welcome.
Yeah, I mean some I might have

639
00:41:29,660 --> 00:41:32,170
guessed at some.
I certainly wouldn't have so.

640
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:35,850
Thank you for your research.
You're welcome.

641
00:41:35,940 --> 00:41:41,090
I do have more tips for you
guys, so I figured Valentine's

642
00:41:41,100 --> 00:41:43,710
Day coming up.
Why not?

643
00:41:43,780 --> 00:41:48,050
The Vixen goddess who had worked
as an escort who enjoys women

644
00:41:48,220 --> 00:41:52,150
and enjoys men.
And has learned wonderful tip.

645
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:56,300
From her partner on how to Eat
pussy and put them to success

646
00:41:56,310 --> 00:42:01,830
herself.
So this is a master's class.

647
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:05,070
Yes, this is this is this is my
extra stuff and I'm gonna run

648
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:06,630
through these really really
quickly.

649
00:42:06,820 --> 00:42:08,790
So I'm gonna kind of combine
them together.

650
00:42:08,900 --> 00:42:13,430
But I'm also gonna run through
these really bad, so OK. 1st, If

651
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:15,300
you're going to give really
great oral sex.

652
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:19,570
Really, really great oral sex.
You have to be in love with the

653
00:42:19,580 --> 00:42:22,880
Dick or the pussy like you just
have to love it.

654
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:27,180
If you can't love it, you cannot
give really great oral sex like

655
00:42:27,190 --> 00:42:29,750
you have to.
Damn near worship the very

656
00:42:29,820 --> 00:42:35,970
essence of the fact that you get
to partake in this beautiful,

657
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:39,340
amazing.
Experience.

658
00:42:40,710 --> 00:42:43,130
Of oral sex.
So it's not something you can

659
00:42:43,140 --> 00:42:45,120
fake.
You can't just go at this well

660
00:42:45,130 --> 00:42:48,030
heartedly.
You gotta love the Dick and you

661
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:50,090
gotta love pussy like you gotta
love it.

662
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:53,380
You gotta worship it.
Talk to it.

663
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:56,110
Say wonderful things.
If you don't go sit down.

664
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:59,210
Thank you.
Talk to it and say wonderful.

665
00:43:00,700 --> 00:43:02,910
What's it down?
Yeah, I would listen.

666
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:10,640
They could not have been better.
Insert right there.

667
00:43:13,100 --> 00:43:16,870
Welcome to my life.
You guys to see the very inside.

668
00:43:18,050 --> 00:43:20,960
Devil Logan behind the Vixen
goddess.

669
00:43:20,970 --> 00:43:24,280
I really am you really believe
random shit?

670
00:43:25,950 --> 00:43:32,100
OK, so.
Dick and pussy worship needs to

671
00:43:32,110 --> 00:43:36,170
happen.
Welcome to my life.

672
00:43:36,180 --> 00:43:39,750
I talked about sex and at the
same time I saved choking

673
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,140
children.
By the way, we have another T

674
00:43:42,150 --> 00:43:43,990
shirt idea for you.
Look in the chat.

675
00:43:44,380 --> 00:43:46,250
Oh gosh, what's the T shirt
idea?

676
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:50,900
I don't think the pussy worship
needs to happen.

677
00:43:51,240 --> 00:43:53,150
Oh gosh, did Don come up with
that?

678
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:55,250
Because that sounds like
something Don would say.

679
00:43:56,660 --> 00:44:00,170
Early dawn yeah Dick and Percy,
Dick, Dick and Pussy worshipper.

680
00:44:00,180 --> 00:44:03,580
That could be a whole on
everything so I have to give

681
00:44:03,590 --> 00:44:06,240
credit where credit is due.
I don't know if my partner still

682
00:44:06,250 --> 00:44:09,560
on here but he's the one who
talks about how he loves to have

683
00:44:09,570 --> 00:44:11,780
his Dick worship and and I
worship his Dick.

684
00:44:11,790 --> 00:44:16,140
So this is where relationships.
It all plays a part into what I

685
00:44:16,150 --> 00:44:18,500
do.
So yeah, OK I thank him for his

686
00:44:18,510 --> 00:44:21,760
research.
Yes, absolutely for contributing

687
00:44:21,770 --> 00:44:26,220
to yes contributes to the Diva
Logan experience alright?

688
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:31,720
OK, so for my ladies who want to
Deep Throat, this is my tip for

689
00:44:31,730 --> 00:44:33,030
my ladies who want to Deep
Throat.

690
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:36,030
You have to stick your tongue
out and breathe through your

691
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:39,090
nose.
I could have told you that too.

692
00:44:41,900 --> 00:44:43,620
I was hoping you would help me
out.

693
00:44:44,270 --> 00:44:47,210
Totally happy on that one.
I was hoping you would help me

694
00:44:47,220 --> 00:44:49,270
out on these Dick.
The fellatio tips.

695
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:53,630
I appreciate your life no
problem and we thank you for

696
00:44:53,640 --> 00:45:01,370
your research as well appio.
Oh, just Valentine's Day

697
00:45:01,380 --> 00:45:06,910
everyone indeed so.
And I realised women don't

698
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:09,330
necessarily understand, so I'm
going to give you an example.

699
00:45:09,340 --> 00:45:11,680
So you.
Stick it all the way out.

700
00:45:11,690 --> 00:45:15,130
You want to try and touch it in
with your tongue and breathe

701
00:45:15,140 --> 00:45:17,870
through your nose, OK?
So.

702
00:45:18,490 --> 00:45:21,130
Here's a little tip to help you
get over that gag reflex.

703
00:45:21,140 --> 00:45:24,830
You can practise this before you
decide to put it into practise.

704
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,300
I don't suggest you try and do
this tomorrow if you are

705
00:45:27,310 --> 00:45:30,810
watching this tomorrow.
I know like unless you have not

706
00:45:30,820 --> 00:45:33,710
practised the gag reflex, you
don't want to throw up, which I

707
00:45:33,720 --> 00:45:37,420
have a very special story which
I will share with you guys after

708
00:45:37,430 --> 00:45:41,590
we get off this call about yes
so.

709
00:45:42,890 --> 00:45:46,310
If you take your toothbrush when
you're brushing your tongue and

710
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:48,600
stick your tongue all the way
out and breathe through your

711
00:45:48,610 --> 00:45:51,530
nose and brush the back of your
tongue, it will help you with

712
00:45:51,540 --> 00:45:53,680
your gag reflex.
I've done it.

713
00:45:53,780 --> 00:45:57,690
Anything that I tell you today,
I have personally done myself so

714
00:45:57,700 --> 00:46:01,750
I am giving you personal.
Including in Pussy Ladies.

715
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:05,030
OK I like pussy from time to
time right?

716
00:46:05,870 --> 00:46:09,400
That's something there really
quick as well as you're using

717
00:46:09,410 --> 00:46:12,450
you make sure that you are also
using your tongue.

718
00:46:13,850 --> 00:46:17,480
I'm doing the solatio make sure
that you are also using the

719
00:46:17,490 --> 00:46:22,570
tongue fully and completely.
OK, I was gonna.

720
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:27,150
I forgot that I've had a little
bit of wine and I get really

721
00:46:27,620 --> 00:46:33,520
friendly, OK?
Hey, no holds barred on the on

722
00:46:33,530 --> 00:46:36,160
this podcast, but Eva Logan
uncut.

723
00:46:36,210 --> 00:46:42,840
Alright, so, Speaking of uncut,
uncut perfect subway perfect

724
00:46:42,850 --> 00:46:46,300
Segway.
Sensation for uncircumcised

725
00:46:46,310 --> 00:46:48,800
versus circumcised men.
Is there another way?

726
00:46:48,810 --> 00:46:50,400
Which way what do you mean?
Don?

727
00:46:50,510 --> 00:46:53,800
Is there another way for wet
before I jump into?

728
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:58,710
Uncut.
I know I'm never uncut, you know

729
00:46:59,100 --> 00:47:01,270
I am.
I've been trying to act like I

730
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,950
have what you should live naked
isn't your thing.

731
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:10,370
It is now, if you know what if
society was would allow me to.

732
00:47:10,380 --> 00:47:11,930
I would walk around naked all
the time.

733
00:47:15,590 --> 00:47:18,420
OK, just can you give me a
minute.

734
00:47:18,990 --> 00:47:22,420
I'm almost done.
Just go watch whatever is coming

735
00:47:22,430 --> 00:47:26,060
on next after Finding Dory.
How about that?

736
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:32,950
OK.
See my Life OK so um, no there

737
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:37,220
is there I try.
I try to tone things down for

738
00:47:37,230 --> 00:47:41,880
certain people because I know me
being one 100% fully myself.

739
00:47:42,190 --> 00:47:46,620
Can like punch people in the
face and and make them very

740
00:47:46,630 --> 00:47:48,710
uncomfortable.
So I tried to take that into

741
00:47:48,720 --> 00:47:51,840
account and still trying to you
know tone it down.

742
00:47:51,890 --> 00:47:54,900
Maybe just a little bit like if
I was standing in front of my

743
00:47:54,910 --> 00:48:00,320
mother.
Only my mother, you know, even

744
00:48:00,330 --> 00:48:02,990
if I'm standing next, Michelle
and Barack, I would probably

745
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:06,720
still be exact person.
Yeah, I know, fucking good and

746
00:48:06,730 --> 00:48:09,020
having the best sex of your life
right now.

747
00:48:09,030 --> 00:48:14,730
They're out of the world.
So there are differences in tip

748
00:48:14,740 --> 00:48:17,420
#5.
If your man is circumstance

749
00:48:17,430 --> 00:48:20,530
versus circumcised, he has
different sensations and there

750
00:48:20,540 --> 00:48:23,310
are different tips that you need
to use different techniques.

751
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:26,810
You need to use versus an uncut
man versus a cut man.

752
00:48:26,940 --> 00:48:30,950
So an uncut man you actually
have to do less work than you

753
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:33,950
would have to do for a
circumcised man because an

754
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:37,450
uncircumcised man still has all
the nerve endings they have not

755
00:48:37,460 --> 00:48:40,330
been removed with his foreskin
so.

756
00:48:41,270 --> 00:48:45,020
Ladies, a quick tip.
If you're a man or a gentleman,

757
00:48:45,030 --> 00:48:49,140
if your man is uncircumcised,
keep the skin pulled forward

758
00:48:49,150 --> 00:48:52,230
even if he's hard and just stick
your tip in and lick the tip of

759
00:48:52,240 --> 00:48:55,020
his Dick.
It works every single time it

760
00:48:55,030 --> 00:48:59,440
will cut your fellatio time in
half and get you faster to the

761
00:48:59,450 --> 00:49:04,280
point of cunnilingus, or mutual
fellatio or sex.

762
00:49:04,350 --> 00:49:08,480
If you do that, just one thing.
Just lick the inside with the

763
00:49:08,490 --> 00:49:10,900
sensation in there.
It's extra great.

764
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:14,300
If he's circumcised.
There is a little point

765
00:49:14,430 --> 00:49:17,880
underneath the little mushroom
like to call it the mushroom

766
00:49:17,930 --> 00:49:21,400
underneath mushroom, where the
skin initially attached to the.

767
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:25,510
I want it that's not terranium.
It's called the.

768
00:49:26,420 --> 00:49:30,270
Fair enum, it starts with FI.
Can't remember the exact name.

769
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:35,340
Anyway I remember it either.
That little space is like that's

770
00:49:35,350 --> 00:49:37,500
where all the nerve endings are
right there.

771
00:49:38,210 --> 00:49:41,540
If you lick that space
consistently, if you apply

772
00:49:41,550 --> 00:49:44,460
consistent pressure to that
space, he will come faster.

773
00:49:44,550 --> 00:49:50,880
However, if you want to stop his
orgasm when he starts and then

774
00:49:50,890 --> 00:49:53,200
slow it, thank you.
Thank you Boo.

775
00:49:53,970 --> 00:49:56,360
If you stop, if you push on that
space.

776
00:49:57,700 --> 00:50:02,410
Um, when he's about to orgasm,
it will slow his orgasm down and

777
00:50:02,420 --> 00:50:05,030
you can take back control and
take him to another level.

778
00:50:05,220 --> 00:50:09,340
So that's my little sensation.
Anything else you'll have to pay

779
00:50:09,350 --> 00:50:12,630
me for it to get the rest of my
tips and so my last tip for

780
00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:17,170
fellatio is make sure that it's
wet and sloppy so I know that we

781
00:50:17,180 --> 00:50:21,000
as ladies don't necessarily or
gentlemen don't necessarily want

782
00:50:21,010 --> 00:50:23,650
to take like from pornography
videos.

783
00:50:23,660 --> 00:50:26,670
It kind of, you know, not
everybody's down, but they, but

784
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:32,030
essentially.
You want to make Felicio as wet

785
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:35,810
as possible.
Especially if he is a

786
00:50:35,820 --> 00:50:39,590
heterosexual male, because your
vagina is wet, so you need to

787
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:43,510
make your mouth just as wet as
your vagina and so essentially

788
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:46,390
what happens is and I know this
happens with.

789
00:50:47,410 --> 00:50:49,420
Non heterosexual couples as
well.

790
00:50:49,610 --> 00:50:53,680
When you're being fellatio a
love spit can build up mouth.

791
00:50:53,730 --> 00:50:56,020
I don't know if that happened
you eat pussy.

792
00:50:56,070 --> 00:50:58,470
It hasn't answered me but I
don't know if that happened.

793
00:50:58,850 --> 00:51:02,870
So you essentially almost like
this wide in the back of your

794
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:06,400
House of just like it.
Just the ladies.

795
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:10,790
Just open the side of your mouth
just a little bit and just let

796
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:13,810
it roll on out.
It's gonna feel gross as fuck.

797
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:17,950
You gonna feel a little bit slow
when it happens, you just gonna

798
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:20,850
be like ohhhhh, my God, I just
wanna like my face there's out,

799
00:51:20,860 --> 00:51:24,730
grows you'll end up with spit on
your nose and shit and on your

800
00:51:24,740 --> 00:51:27,150
chin may end up with it on your
chest.

801
00:51:28,450 --> 00:51:36,640
But making that sensation as
moist as possible moves the

802
00:51:36,650 --> 00:51:39,580
orgasm along so much faster,
because really.

803
00:51:40,540 --> 00:51:43,930
We've all had a situation.
I don't care if you are

804
00:51:43,940 --> 00:51:49,110
heterosexual or homosexual, and
sexual or otherwise, where it

805
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:53,150
has gotten a little bit too dry.
A little bit too quick and that.

806
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:55,500
There's not feel good for him,
but.

807
00:51:56,270 --> 00:52:01,030
I'm just saying.
So those are my tips for

808
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:05,190
fellatio, for cunnilingus.
I'm gonna rush right in here.

809
00:52:06,330 --> 00:52:09,300
Suck on the clitoris.
I know people I know a lot of

810
00:52:09,310 --> 00:52:12,320
men just and women don't
necessarily want to look at the

811
00:52:12,330 --> 00:52:15,120
clitoris as a small penis, but
that's exactly what it is.

812
00:52:15,130 --> 00:52:18,080
And when you suck on it just
right it will grow and it will

813
00:52:18,090 --> 00:52:21,570
elongate so.
Yes, suck on the clitoris.

814
00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:25,880
Take your time.
Just a second.

815
00:52:27,220 --> 00:52:32,690
You know, OK?
So can you suck on the glitter?

816
00:52:37,510 --> 00:52:40,360
The best review about Finding
Dory.

817
00:52:42,770 --> 00:52:45,820
That's what winning Dory Sarah
and Bug.

818
00:52:47,100 --> 00:52:50,670
What's your name?
My deodorant asked me about

819
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:57,250
tortillas.
Real life real this is I lost my

820
00:52:57,260 --> 00:53:01,890
water I'm all hot now like I was
just talking about clitorises

821
00:53:01,900 --> 00:53:03,820
and then I had to explain to my
3 robe.

822
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:08,640
Yes, OK, so take your time and
enjoy the vagina.

823
00:53:09,500 --> 00:53:13,170
And it's it's eating pussy is
is.

824
00:53:17,590 --> 00:53:20,440
I would say we just got a
comment that I said in the chat.

825
00:53:20,450 --> 00:53:23,760
Oh my gosh, I can never watch
Dory with the same innocence so.

826
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:27,430
That's what's clitoris, clitoris
and peas.

827
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:31,640
Yes, best thing ever.
Tacos and eating pussy as a

828
00:53:31,650 --> 00:53:35,320
woman pussy who enjoys her pussy
and tacos.

829
00:53:35,330 --> 00:53:37,930
I say that's the best night ever
go with that too.

830
00:53:38,670 --> 00:53:41,180
OK, so take your time you
didn't.

831
00:53:41,190 --> 00:53:43,880
Pussy is a marathon.
It's not a Sprint.

832
00:53:43,890 --> 00:53:47,390
It is not something that it's
not the same like sucking Dick.

833
00:53:47,850 --> 00:53:50,020
It's not like a good through it
quickly.

834
00:53:50,030 --> 00:53:53,110
Not saying that you should move
through sucking Dick quickly but

835
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:55,100
eating pussy is really truly a
marathon.

836
00:53:55,110 --> 00:53:59,660
We have like 50 millions in
nerve endings in our vagina and

837
00:53:59,670 --> 00:54:01,770
we want to fill them all at the
same time.

838
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:06,130
So take your time OK.
Finding the G spot.

839
00:54:07,250 --> 00:54:11,460
It's real gentlemen, ladies.
It's so you wanna take either

840
00:54:11,470 --> 00:54:15,020
your first two fingers or your
two metal fingers you wanna

841
00:54:15,030 --> 00:54:18,760
stick your fingers into the
vaginal opening.

842
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:23,400
And the G spot feels different
than the rest of the vagina.

843
00:54:23,410 --> 00:54:28,530
So the rest of the vagina is
very smooth and the G spot is

844
00:54:28,540 --> 00:54:31,920
ribbed.
It feels like a ribbed condom.

845
00:54:31,930 --> 00:54:35,640
You can tell the difference if
you begin to put pressure on

846
00:54:35,650 --> 00:54:38,060
that.
If you begin to, you just do

847
00:54:38,070 --> 00:54:41,080
this movement of the come hit
there.

848
00:54:41,250 --> 00:54:44,200
It's easier with these two
fingers versus these two

849
00:54:44,210 --> 00:54:46,770
fingers, but you get better
stability with these two fingers

850
00:54:46,780 --> 00:54:51,270
versus them.
If you just tell her to come

851
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:55,630
here and just, you know, just
coax the coax, the orgasm out of

852
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:59,810
her and while sucking on the
clitoris, she probably will

853
00:54:59,820 --> 00:55:03,150
squirt.
OK, give attention to the entire

854
00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:06,040
vagina.
The outer labia, the inner

855
00:55:06,050 --> 00:55:12,120
labia, the clitoris, the the
folds and skin, the entire

856
00:55:12,130 --> 00:55:16,780
space, the entire space, the
vaginal opening down below it,

857
00:55:16,790 --> 00:55:19,800
just everything.
So everything we have nerve

858
00:55:19,810 --> 00:55:24,090
endings, they make us happy yet.
Eating good pussy would cook

859
00:55:24,100 --> 00:55:30,280
breakfast in the morning.
OK, um play close incision to

860
00:55:30,290 --> 00:55:33,360
how she's moving.
Um?

861
00:55:35,940 --> 00:55:39,190
If she if you, if you're sucking
on her clitoris and she pulls

862
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:42,990
back and she jumps, that jump
may be out of pain and it may be

863
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:45,870
out of pleasure so so make sure
that you're paying attention to

864
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:48,090
that.
Make sure you pay attention to

865
00:55:48,100 --> 00:55:51,930
whether her legs are shaking or
she's pushing your head away or

866
00:55:51,940 --> 00:55:55,010
her body arcs in a painful type
way.

867
00:55:56,760 --> 00:56:00,100
If you pay attention to all of
that at the same time while

868
00:56:00,110 --> 00:56:04,280
you're giving.
Oral stimulation to a woman.

869
00:56:05,190 --> 00:56:07,050
Because we have so many nerve
endings.

870
00:56:08,220 --> 00:56:09,950
It can be painful.
It can be pleasurable.

871
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:14,370
It can be both.
So also asking questions if she

872
00:56:14,380 --> 00:56:18,650
moans, paying attention to where
her hand moves, paying attention

873
00:56:18,660 --> 00:56:21,070
to what she's saying.
You literally have to be a

874
00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:24,010
multitasker.
And I know that may be difficult

875
00:56:24,020 --> 00:56:26,590
for some people to do, but
essentially that's what you.

876
00:56:28,140 --> 00:56:31,110
So yeah, those are my son
cunnilingus, Leggio, and the

877
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:33,260
five things I learned from being
an escort.

878
00:56:35,330 --> 00:56:40,090
There you go, there you have it
beautiful so and I wouldn't

879
00:56:40,100 --> 00:56:42,720
invite everyone to use all the
tips shared to the end.

880
00:56:43,070 --> 00:56:47,840
Don't necessarily take on, you
know, carrying your shame and

881
00:56:47,850 --> 00:56:49,920
not feeling your emotions.
But those aren't tips to live

882
00:56:49,930 --> 00:56:53,780
your life by.
Exactly.

883
00:56:56,820 --> 00:57:01,590
You know I was gonna say that
this is any anybody that knows

884
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:05,690
me if this tonight they learned
a few more things about me and

885
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:08,810
what parts of the conversation I
won't go to.

886
00:57:08,820 --> 00:57:12,390
So yeah, that's why I smartly
muted myself a lot more than

887
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:16,200
normal.
You wouldn't even run with this.

888
00:57:17,530 --> 00:57:21,080
I have no problem, they fully
out there fully off that Dick,

889
00:57:21,970 --> 00:57:29,530
so it's been fun for sure.
Again, I diva I love your your

890
00:57:29,540 --> 00:57:32,310
openness, your honesty.
You're willing to live naked,

891
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:35,930
putting it all out there again,
we we we appreciate it.

892
00:57:35,940 --> 00:57:37,780
I know you've had a lot of
people here tonight.

893
00:57:37,790 --> 00:57:40,110
Live we have a lot of people
listening to this till the end

894
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:42,460
of time.
You utilising your tips to

895
00:57:42,470 --> 00:57:47,210
better their lives.
Yes and and and I'm glad to

896
00:57:47,220 --> 00:57:51,710
share because there's why you
have a lot of people who are sex

897
00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:53,560
positive.
You don't have a lot of people

898
00:57:53,570 --> 00:57:57,580
who are.
Really just being honest about

899
00:57:57,590 --> 00:58:01,950
it like this is just what it is.
Fuck you if you feel some type

900
00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:06,060
of way about it like this is me.
This is what I enjoy and this is

901
00:58:06,070 --> 00:58:08,120
my life.
I'm not being anybody other than

902
00:58:08,130 --> 00:58:10,040
who I am.
This is an act.

903
00:58:10,390 --> 00:58:13,080
This is literally what I do and
talk about every day.

904
00:58:13,730 --> 00:58:17,960
And.
Yeah, I'm glad to share.

905
00:58:18,420 --> 00:58:21,960
I know that this is my gift and
I've embraced it wholeheartedly

906
00:58:22,530 --> 00:58:25,700
and I have people in my life who
support me and embrace me

907
00:58:25,710 --> 00:58:29,490
exactly the way that I.
Awesome and so.

908
00:58:29,500 --> 00:58:31,800
What's the best way for people
to get in touch with you if they

909
00:58:31,810 --> 00:58:34,320
want to work with you?
Find out your other offerings

910
00:58:34,330 --> 00:58:36,870
like that.
Well, you can find me on my

911
00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:38,930
personal Facebook page.
Diva Logan.

912
00:58:39,580 --> 00:58:44,330
I don't think my profile picture
is of me and it says diva means

913
00:58:44,340 --> 00:58:46,830
the divine one.
So find me there.

914
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:50,410
You can find me on the vixen
goddess Steve Logan, the Vixen

915
00:58:50,420 --> 00:58:54,550
goddess, my.
Business page on Facebook.

916
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:57,680
You can find me on Instagram at
Diva, the goddess.

917
00:58:57,690 --> 00:59:00,270
You can find me on Twitter at
Viva the goddess.

918
00:59:01,820 --> 00:59:05,010
And I'm redoing my website my I
haven't had a chance to really

919
00:59:05,020 --> 00:59:08,650
get in there and jump in there
and really rework it, but I will

920
00:59:08,660 --> 00:59:11,030
be launching, relaunching my
website.

921
00:59:12,610 --> 00:59:17,970
And also I'm doing a brand new
boot camp starting tomorrow.

922
00:59:18,990 --> 00:59:22,090
The Vixen goddess camp.
It's going to start on the 27th

923
00:59:22,100 --> 00:59:25,160
of this.
So ladies if you are ready to.

924
00:59:26,380 --> 00:59:29,370
Be that vixen goddess.
I'm gonna take you really fast

925
00:59:29,380 --> 00:59:32,090
really quickly.
It will be something that will

926
00:59:32,100 --> 00:59:36,560
be ongoing.
So yeah, now you can find me

927
00:59:36,890 --> 00:59:39,060
right and will people people
interested in the boot camp.

928
00:59:39,070 --> 00:59:42,360
Is that information on Facebook?
Yes, that information will be on

929
00:59:42,370 --> 00:59:44,060
Facebook.
I will be giving all that

930
00:59:44,070 --> 00:59:46,850
information tomorrow, but
essentially it's four weeks.

931
00:59:46,910 --> 00:59:50,250
We'll be covering seduction,
sexuality.

932
00:59:51,210 --> 00:59:54,400
Making it your own and then
applying it to your life.

933
00:59:54,610 --> 00:59:58,240
So whether you're married,
whether you are single, whether

934
00:59:58,250 --> 01:00:00,510
you're dating, whether you just
have a boyfriend.

935
01:00:01,470 --> 01:00:04,320
Any woman can take this.
I do only have 5 spots available

936
01:00:04,330 --> 01:00:07,720
for this first time, but you
know it will be an ongoing

937
01:00:07,770 --> 01:00:09,500
thing.
This is not just something that

938
01:00:09,510 --> 01:00:11,300
I'll be doing.
One awesome awesome.

939
01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:14,120
Well, thanks again for joining
us.

940
01:00:14,130 --> 01:00:15,850
You know, we've we've had guests
return.

941
01:00:15,860 --> 01:00:18,800
We've never had a guest return
as quickly as we had you return.

942
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:21,550
So I, I think so Andy, yes, you
are.

943
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:23,770
You surely are.
Yeah, I think you had a lot of a

944
01:00:23,780 --> 01:00:27,960
lot of head spinning and so now
we have more ways to spin heads.

945
01:00:28,140 --> 01:00:32,290
She's made me keep falling in
love with her over and over and

946
01:00:32,300 --> 01:00:35,330
over again.
So then when a gay man falls in

947
01:00:35,340 --> 01:00:39,010
love with you, you just have to
be like you know what I'm on to

948
01:00:39,020 --> 01:00:41,410
something here.
Yes, you are.

949
01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:43,940
I'm in love.
With you to secretly I'd be

950
01:00:43,950 --> 01:00:47,550
trying to hide my love.
I haven't shown you exactly how

951
01:00:47,560 --> 01:00:50,490
much in love with you I am
because I, you know, I respect

952
01:00:50,500 --> 01:00:53,340
relationships and shit, but I
just want to say the feeling is

953
01:00:53,350 --> 01:00:57,720
mutual.
And he just got home too.

954
01:00:57,730 --> 01:01:00,180
So I had a guy quickly go close
the door because like making a

955
01:01:00,190 --> 01:01:02,580
bunch of racket there in the in
the kitchen.

956
01:01:04,110 --> 01:01:06,920
Well, cool again, I was
reconvened everyone to to take

957
01:01:06,930 --> 01:01:09,900
these tips to heart, put them
into action cheque out the boot

958
01:01:09,910 --> 01:01:12,210
camp.
Follow the links and if you're

959
01:01:12,220 --> 01:01:15,060
listening to this podcast this
might be one you wanna watch.

960
01:01:15,810 --> 01:01:18,360
So cheque with the video if
you've been a little lost.

961
01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:22,250
Definitely, especially with the
whole kid experiment.

962
01:01:24,210 --> 01:01:27,120
So real men feel will be live
again next Tuesday, February

963
01:01:27,130 --> 01:01:29,740
21st, 8:00 PM Eastern.
We're gonna be joined by a good

964
01:01:29,750 --> 01:01:32,800
friend of Apio and mine and
she's coming to us from down

965
01:01:32,810 --> 01:01:34,410
under and actually kicking off
at.

966
01:01:34,420 --> 01:01:37,140
We have a series of a few Aussie
guests showing up in the next

967
01:01:37,150 --> 01:01:39,900
few weeks, but we're going to be
joined by Amanda Foy, the

968
01:01:39,910 --> 01:01:43,540
emotional strength trainer she
promised to be as keen as

969
01:01:43,550 --> 01:01:47,540
mustard, so I hope that
something good I'm not familiar

970
01:01:47,550 --> 01:01:51,820
with that it's nausea term, I'm
sure so she's going to share the

971
01:01:51,830 --> 01:01:55,470
anatomy of awareness.
And again, we talked about many

972
01:01:55,480 --> 01:01:57,630
times that kind of any change
you want to make.

973
01:01:57,640 --> 01:02:01,230
Starts with awareness.
So yes, I like that I will be

974
01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:03,630
paying attention.
I will be tuning in for that

975
01:02:03,640 --> 01:02:06,740
one.
Beautiful sound sexy.

976
01:02:08,150 --> 01:02:11,150
I bet you make anything you turn
into sexy diva, but you know

977
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:12,510
what?
I can turn anything into a

978
01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:15,510
sexual experience and break it
down in a sexual way, yes.

979
01:02:17,370 --> 01:02:19,860
We'll have to talk again
offline, yes.

980
01:02:20,990 --> 01:02:25,100
Alright, and on that note, well,
officially say goodbye and bring

981
01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:29,170
an end Valentine's Day.
Have a great whenever you listen

982
01:02:29,180 --> 01:02:31,850
to this week.
Yes?

983
01:02:31,970 --> 01:02:36,010
Oh lick something.
Eat something like whatever.

984
01:02:37,720 --> 01:02:41,520
Alright, have a great night.
Goodnight guys bye.

985
01:02:43,210 --> 01:02:47,140
Thank you for listening to real
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986
01:02:47,150 --> 01:02:50,440
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01:02:50,450 --> 01:02:52,860
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01:02:53,100 --> 01:02:57,520
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989
01:02:57,530 --> 01:03:00,140
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990
01:03:00,410 --> 01:03:03,780
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991
01:03:04,430 --> 01:03:09,200
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992
01:03:09,210 --> 00:00:02,210
Hunter at appiohunter.com.
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993
00:00:02,220 --> 00:00:06,610
men feel show with your hosts
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994
00:00:06,620 --> 00:00:09,500
men feel is all about
encouraging men to allow and

995
00:00:09,510 --> 00:00:12,880
express all of their emotions.
Despite what you may have been

996
00:00:12,890 --> 00:00:15,310
taught, all emotions do serve
you.

997
00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:19,010
Real men feel is committed to
opening up discussions that most

998
00:00:19,020 --> 00:00:21,570
men aren't having.
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999
00:00:21,580 --> 00:00:24,970
be a man to join us.
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1000
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1001
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1003
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00:00:55,230 --> 00:00:58,460
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1009
00:00:58,470 --> 00:01:02,480
at realmannfield.org.
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1010
00:01:02,490 --> 00:01:05,800
your comments, feedback and
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1011
00:01:05,810 --> 00:01:10,360
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1012
00:01:10,370 --> 00:01:13,930
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Now let's get into this week's

1013
00:01:13,950 --> 00:01:18,730
show.
Hello and welcome to real men

1014
00:01:18,740 --> 00:01:20,330
field.
This is Andy Grant.

1015
00:01:20,340 --> 00:01:23,830
Welcome to episode 47.
Very excited to have you here.

1016
00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:26,170
In addition to welcome all you
fabulous listeners.

1017
00:01:26,180 --> 00:01:29,010
Let me first also welcome my
fabulous friend and cohost

1018
00:01:29,020 --> 00:01:32,190
Doppio Hunter.
Hey Andy, how's it going very

1019
00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:33,470
good?
How are you doing this week?

1020
00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:36,940
I'm having a fantastic week and
it's just going to keep getting

1021
00:01:36,950 --> 00:01:38,910
better.
That's right, it is.

1022
00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:41,830
And imagine that we're recording
on a Monday, so just think what

1023
00:01:41,840 --> 00:01:44,490
the week's going to be like.
Yeah, it's like we have an extra

1024
00:01:44,500 --> 00:01:46,520
day in our week.
As we've adjusted our schedule

1025
00:01:46,730 --> 00:01:49,980
and we don't adjust our schedule
just for anybody either tonight,

1026
00:01:49,990 --> 00:01:53,300
tonight's guest is returning for
her second appearance.

1027
00:01:53,790 --> 00:01:55,820
Her first appearance was really
just last month.

1028
00:01:55,830 --> 00:01:58,320
It was episode 44.
She joined us to talk about open

1029
00:01:58,330 --> 00:02:01,560
relationships, and I know I
learned a lot over the course of

1030
00:02:01,570 --> 00:02:06,280
that discussion, including that
Diva once worked as an escort

1031
00:02:06,650 --> 00:02:09,900
and that really opened up
tonight's topic, but so please

1032
00:02:09,910 --> 00:02:12,020
give it up for the Vixen goddess
herself.

1033
00:02:12,110 --> 00:02:15,100
Diva Logan.
Hi boos.

1034
00:02:18,260 --> 00:02:21,450
So happy to have you back.
I'm so happy to be back.

1035
00:02:21,460 --> 00:02:25,030
I brought wine this time it's
going to be one of those shows.

1036
00:02:26,500 --> 00:02:29,790
The Diva is a relationship, sex
and life enthusiast whose life's

1037
00:02:29,810 --> 00:02:32,900
mission is to help people to
transform their lives.

1038
00:02:32,910 --> 00:02:35,890
Using sex and love.
Here, here.

1039
00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:42,710
I feel like sex needs to be the
topic of everybody's like #1

1040
00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:46,930
priority have sex regularly.
Great so it's we thought this

1041
00:02:46,940 --> 00:02:49,580
would be a nice alternative
subject matter for a Valentine's

1042
00:02:49,590 --> 00:02:51,490
show.
Instead of going all gooey and

1043
00:02:51,500 --> 00:02:54,040
love and chocolate and flowers
you know let's bring it.

1044
00:02:54,050 --> 00:02:55,310
What can you learn from an
escort?

1045
00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,390
What sort of romance tips and
intimacy tips?

1046
00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:59,670
Perhaps you'll you'll unleash on
us tonight as well?

1047
00:03:00,670 --> 00:03:09,140
Oh, I'm going to every woman or
man should love the partner like

1048
00:03:09,210 --> 00:03:12,010
they are the side chick or the
side me.

1049
00:03:13,930 --> 00:03:17,830
Everyone.
Awesome, so let's back it up a

1050
00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,190
little bit and once you share
with this how how you became an

1051
00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:23,250
escort, how you got into that
line of work.

1052
00:03:23,570 --> 00:03:26,480
I imagine it wasn't like a high
school guidance counsellor said

1053
00:03:26,490 --> 00:03:30,320
you'd make a great escort.
Well, no, it wasn't a high

1054
00:03:30,330 --> 00:03:32,100
school guidance counsellor or
somebody else.

1055
00:03:32,830 --> 00:03:37,320
But well, I always loved the
movie.

1056
00:03:37,330 --> 00:03:41,580
Pretty Woman cliche.
But no, that's not really why I

1057
00:03:41,590 --> 00:03:45,220
got into it.
It's a very embarrassing kind of

1058
00:03:45,230 --> 00:03:47,500
story.
How I got into working as an

1059
00:03:47,510 --> 00:03:49,640
escort.
I had an abortion.

1060
00:03:49,650 --> 00:03:52,320
I took some money from my mother
and I wanted to make it back

1061
00:03:52,330 --> 00:03:56,680
really, really fast and.
That's how I got in the

1062
00:03:56,690 --> 00:04:03,060
escorting and then I.
Paid her back.

1063
00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,350
I think I remember little time
ago.

1064
00:04:08,730 --> 00:04:13,740
Think I don't remember.
So then I picked up and moved to

1065
00:04:13,750 --> 00:04:19,620
Chicago to chase the dream.
And Dream didn't work out well,

1066
00:04:19,870 --> 00:04:26,500
so I.
Picked up sponsor so I've had

1067
00:04:26,510 --> 00:04:29,140
this kind of like the sugar
daddy.

1068
00:04:31,620 --> 00:04:37,030
Sugar Daddy perspective and from
the like taking calls through

1069
00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:40,090
someone else.
Experience as well.

1070
00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:45,510
And and how, how, how long was
your your escort time?

1071
00:04:46,190 --> 00:04:49,950
Oh, the first time I did it a
couple months.

1072
00:04:50,230 --> 00:04:54,390
The second time it was also a
couple months, but in that time.

1073
00:04:55,830 --> 00:04:59,250
I got to meet a whole lot of
different people.

1074
00:05:00,060 --> 00:05:04,620
Um?
And I was I'm the type of person

1075
00:05:04,630 --> 00:05:08,640
I'm kind of like a workaholic,
so there would be times when I

1076
00:05:08,650 --> 00:05:12,300
would just be like. 234 days at
a time.

1077
00:05:12,310 --> 00:05:14,000
Like anytime.
Just call me.

1078
00:05:15,340 --> 00:05:17,150
And so I got to go on a lot of
calls.

1079
00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:20,630
That way the first time, the
second time when I was in

1080
00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,920
Chicago, it was more of a
one-on-one type.

1081
00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:28,080
We got to sit down and really
get to know each other.

1082
00:05:28,750 --> 00:05:33,600
And I think for them, they never
necessarily.

1083
00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:37,630
The second time, the men that
I'm dealing with had never

1084
00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:40,730
necessarily met a woman who's
lagging me.

1085
00:05:42,790 --> 00:05:46,180
A huge nerd and relieved by and
everything.

1086
00:05:46,330 --> 00:05:48,860
I mean, it was that the first
time tube was a little bit

1087
00:05:48,870 --> 00:05:50,800
different.
When you're one on with somebody

1088
00:05:50,810 --> 00:05:53,830
as opposed to spending half an
hour 40 minutes with them.

1089
00:05:55,510 --> 00:05:57,400
So I'm curious about something
now.

1090
00:05:57,410 --> 00:06:00,960
There are what particular myths
I'm just going to jump right

1091
00:06:00,970 --> 00:06:04,300
into it and say, ask you what
particular myths about escorts

1092
00:06:04,470 --> 00:06:08,280
do you want to dispell?
If anything that escorts are

1093
00:06:08,290 --> 00:06:13,050
stupid like we're not?
Escorts are essentially

1094
00:06:13,060 --> 00:06:15,490
entrepreneurs.
They're just happening happening

1095
00:06:15,500 --> 00:06:19,630
to use the very thing that most
women give away for free.

1096
00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:23,690
They're making money from it, so
that's the only difference.

1097
00:06:23,740 --> 00:06:27,750
Escorts are getting paid.
Not all of us walk the track.

1098
00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:33,230
And I say us because.
Once you're a part of the sex

1099
00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:38,190
working business, it's not quite
like you know.

1100
00:06:38,260 --> 00:06:40,790
It's not like you get out of it
at some point in time.

1101
00:06:40,840 --> 00:06:45,600
You just.
Once you, it's almost like in a

1102
00:06:45,610 --> 00:06:47,840
bike like we learn how to ride a
bike.

1103
00:06:47,850 --> 00:06:51,020
You never get how to ride a, so
there are times when I actually

1104
00:06:51,030 --> 00:06:54,630
go out now that I walk into a
bar and I'll end the entire room

1105
00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:57,420
be like.
Ham, Ham, ham, ham, ham, ham,

1106
00:06:57,430 --> 00:07:00,480
her.
And I have to be like, OK, we're

1107
00:07:00,490 --> 00:07:04,890
not here for that.
That's not not what we're here,

1108
00:07:05,020 --> 00:07:09,320
but.
Escorts very brief people,

1109
00:07:09,390 --> 00:07:14,060
especially ones that go on
individual calls because you're

1110
00:07:14,070 --> 00:07:17,480
walking into a space that you
don't know with a stranger every

1111
00:07:17,490 --> 00:07:21,620
single time and you are having
sex with that person in some

1112
00:07:21,630 --> 00:07:26,790
way, shape or form dangerous but
extremely brave extremely.

1113
00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:36,250
A good escort is a awesome
business person because she's

1114
00:07:36,260 --> 00:07:40,730
marketing herself consistently.
She is a great salesperson

1115
00:07:40,950 --> 00:07:46,630
because she literally felt
herself or she's lying.

1116
00:07:47,100 --> 00:07:49,990
She's also a great interest
because then she's still selling

1117
00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:52,910
act as well.
Um?

1118
00:07:53,770 --> 00:08:01,680
Efforts are attacted not bad
that they had sex because all

1119
00:08:01,690 --> 00:08:04,650
they're just about something.
They're all like many societies,

1120
00:08:04,660 --> 00:08:08,920
women or do this because having
a 9 to 5 they're making twice as

1121
00:08:08,930 --> 00:08:12,300
much money as they would if they
went to a nine to five job.

1122
00:08:12,380 --> 00:08:14,800
They get to be at home with
their kids if they've had.

1123
00:08:14,890 --> 00:08:19,780
If they've had children.
And they they are interacting

1124
00:08:19,790 --> 00:08:22,610
with people on a regular,
everyday basis.

1125
00:08:22,620 --> 00:08:26,230
They're literally service
workers, so they're providing a

1126
00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:31,500
service and they're getting
paid, sometimes not so well, but

1127
00:08:31,510 --> 00:08:33,789
they're going to pay you very
well for this service.

1128
00:08:33,799 --> 00:08:36,470
And if they're budgeting right
and managing their money right,

1129
00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:39,549
they can.
It's it's very, very lucrative.

1130
00:08:41,580 --> 00:08:43,720
There is a dark side to the
industry.

1131
00:08:43,730 --> 00:08:48,010
I'm not gonna deny that.
I personally feel like escorting

1132
00:08:48,020 --> 00:08:50,390
prostitution should be
legalised.

1133
00:08:51,430 --> 00:08:54,950
So it can be regulated and we
can stop.

1134
00:08:56,330 --> 00:09:00,860
Child tracking prostitution
there can?

1135
00:09:00,930 --> 00:09:04,080
I mean I'm not saying there
won't be black kids, but that'll

1136
00:09:04,090 --> 00:09:08,330
help cut down on the black
market and in a sense.

1137
00:09:09,860 --> 00:09:14,090
And then there can be relations
as far as TV thing and all this

1138
00:09:14,100 --> 00:09:15,880
stuff.
You guys know that I'm very open

1139
00:09:15,890 --> 00:09:19,150
about the fact that I have these
in the that I've been in these

1140
00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:21,610
situations.
I do want to say that when I was

1141
00:09:21,620 --> 00:09:24,950
working as an escort, I was the
first time I had not been

1142
00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:26,670
diagnosed with herpes.
I had not.

1143
00:09:26,680 --> 00:09:29,490
I did not know if I had it.
So it's very possible that I

1144
00:09:29,500 --> 00:09:32,490
picked up herpes from doing
that, but also.

1145
00:09:33,210 --> 00:09:37,480
The second time around I was
taking suppression medication on

1146
00:09:37,490 --> 00:09:40,240
a regular basis, so it wasn't
like I was just out there like.

1147
00:09:41,540 --> 00:09:43,890
Fucking people and putting them
at risk.

1148
00:09:43,900 --> 00:09:47,210
So right?
Yeah, so so you.

1149
00:09:47,220 --> 00:09:49,850
I think earlier before we start
you said you there were like 5

1150
00:09:49,860 --> 00:09:52,680
main things you learned about
men during this.

1151
00:09:53,870 --> 00:09:56,980
Yes, definitely.
Just one second hold on.

1152
00:09:56,990 --> 00:10:00,740
I've had a baby moment.
No, no baby.

1153
00:10:00,750 --> 00:10:02,460
I don't want to tortilla can't
go back.

1154
00:10:02,470 --> 00:10:05,100
And watching a movie being a mom
never stops.

1155
00:10:05,210 --> 00:10:08,630
That's so true.
Get off.

1156
00:10:09,950 --> 00:10:13,300
And you know what?
Being a parent stops either

1157
00:10:13,310 --> 00:10:15,530
because we have moments as well.
How about this?

1158
00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:20,400
Dead.
Do you want to say hi?

1159
00:10:23,580 --> 00:10:26,860
OK.
Go sit down and finish watching

1160
00:10:26,870 --> 00:10:28,800
your Dory movie.
I licked it off.

1161
00:10:28,870 --> 00:10:30,770
You're good.
There's no beans on your

1162
00:10:30,780 --> 00:10:33,760
tortilla.
Alright, so no guest appearance

1163
00:10:33,770 --> 00:10:37,820
sounds so sound like no.
No guest appearances no, she

1164
00:10:37,830 --> 00:10:41,670
thought about it though and she
said yeah thanks.

1165
00:10:42,090 --> 00:10:43,980
She's very polite when she wants
to be.

1166
00:10:45,590 --> 00:10:49,180
As we all are, yes I like that
caveat there.

1167
00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:54,110
But yes, there are five specific
things that I learned when I

1168
00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:58,780
worked as an escort.
And and.

1169
00:11:00,300 --> 00:11:05,710
These five things I feel like
we're the things that we can

1170
00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:08,940
understand and realise
specifically about in.

1171
00:11:09,610 --> 00:11:13,030
And another that they can lies
as to.

1172
00:11:14,290 --> 00:11:16,470
I'm not making a justification
for cheat.

1173
00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:18,660
Let me give that disclaim right
now.

1174
00:11:18,670 --> 00:11:23,000
There is no justified reason for
somebody to lie and cheat and

1175
00:11:23,010 --> 00:11:27,500
their situation, however.
These five things.

1176
00:11:29,410 --> 00:11:34,150
Our space is to understand the
why behind it.

1177
00:11:35,830 --> 00:11:40,870
So I have 5 topics.
Um, I'm going to jump into them

1178
00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:44,660
now.
If you guys don't mind so.

1179
00:11:45,950 --> 00:11:51,330
The number one thing that I
learned, well, let's start at 5

1180
00:11:51,390 --> 00:11:54,430
#5.
Men are emotionally.

1181
00:11:56,550 --> 00:12:00,710
Could you repeat that?
Men are emotional beings,

1182
00:12:00,780 --> 00:12:05,480
emotional beings.
If not more emotional than men

1183
00:12:05,490 --> 00:12:09,870
are.
Because of society in in

1184
00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:15,290
manhood, when a man hires an
escort, he's with a total and

1185
00:12:15,300 --> 00:12:17,660
complete stranger.
He doesn't know her unless they

1186
00:12:17,670 --> 00:12:20,240
have developed a certain, and
that's kind of when the sugar

1187
00:12:20,250 --> 00:12:22,980
daddy kicks in.
Sugar Daddy aspect kicks in, but

1188
00:12:22,990 --> 00:12:26,170
when they're first meeting.
He doesn't know who she are.

1189
00:12:26,180 --> 00:12:27,730
She's the complete and total
stranger.

1190
00:12:28,410 --> 00:12:32,100
And.
There are no pretences, because

1191
00:12:32,110 --> 00:12:35,660
you're literally about to hand
somebody cash for a very

1192
00:12:35,670 --> 00:12:40,320
intimate experience.
Not super intimate, but intimate

1193
00:12:40,330 --> 00:12:45,630
nonetheless, so.
They get to relax, they don't.

1194
00:12:45,680 --> 00:12:48,730
There's no, I don't have to be
anybody.

1195
00:12:48,900 --> 00:12:51,850
I don't have to be the doctor.
I don't have to be the lawyer.

1196
00:12:51,860 --> 00:12:54,190
I don't have to be the
professional.

1197
00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,890
I don't have to be the dad.
I don't have to be the husband.

1198
00:12:58,140 --> 00:13:02,240
I can drop all that and
essentially be exactly who I am.

1199
00:13:02,980 --> 00:13:06,870
Because I'm probably never going
to see this woman again, ever in

1200
00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:08,670
life.
And if I do.

1201
00:13:09,490 --> 00:13:13,020
I get to share this intimate
space with her.

1202
00:13:14,210 --> 00:13:18,200
So there's also one if if a
person decides that they want to

1203
00:13:18,250 --> 00:13:23,010
continue this situation with an
escort and and have have these

1204
00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:27,210
these encounters with her,
there's there's an intimacy that

1205
00:13:27,250 --> 00:13:34,260
is bred from that space.
But men emotional beings, they

1206
00:13:34,270 --> 00:13:39,410
will show you.
Every single emotion from being

1207
00:13:39,420 --> 00:13:44,490
stressed out being tired.
To being hurt to being

1208
00:13:44,780 --> 00:13:47,900
embarrassed.
To.

1209
00:13:48,910 --> 00:13:52,810
Being happy to celebrating.
So.

1210
00:13:54,730 --> 00:13:58,760
When men choose to engage with
escorts or even choose to cheat,

1211
00:13:58,770 --> 00:14:00,460
it's because that they get a
lot.

1212
00:14:00,470 --> 00:14:03,140
They are allowed to be
emotional.

1213
00:14:04,220 --> 00:14:07,440
Yeah, yeah, so there's a freedom
in that.

1214
00:14:07,500 --> 00:14:12,150
Yes, anonymity yes.
Freedom in in in being able to

1215
00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:16,450
engage with the stranger and
just drop all those pretences

1216
00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:19,500
and just be.
Whoever they are.

1217
00:14:20,180 --> 00:14:24,730
So you know, yeah, it speaks to
the to the whole experience of

1218
00:14:24,740 --> 00:14:29,860
not having any expectations, and
I think we actually talked about

1219
00:14:29,870 --> 00:14:31,010
this.
I can't remember if it's during

1220
00:14:31,020 --> 00:14:35,150
the last show or during the pre
show post show how there is, you

1221
00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:38,940
know when when talking about our
pasts, particularly when it's

1222
00:14:38,950 --> 00:14:40,870
with family.
Family oftentimes doesn't want

1223
00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:45,150
to let go, whereas with a total
stranger, it's so easy because

1224
00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:49,400
there is no past.
Starting from that moment, this

1225
00:14:49,410 --> 00:14:51,780
is who I am.
I don't have to be anybody else.

1226
00:14:52,210 --> 00:14:57,120
And and when you are paying
someone for a service like.

1227
00:14:58,340 --> 00:15:01,440
The stories that I heard when I
would work as an escort that

1228
00:15:01,450 --> 00:15:04,550
they would share with me.
I remember my very, very very

1229
00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:09,690
first client.
Um, and that's going to bring me

1230
00:15:09,700 --> 00:15:11,910
to another point, but I'm going
to share this right now.

1231
00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:15,370
My very, very, very first
experience of working as an

1232
00:15:15,380 --> 00:15:21,230
escort was an older gentleman.
He was probably in his late 60s,

1233
00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:26,260
early 70s and his wife had died.
And he did not want to have sex

1234
00:15:26,270 --> 00:15:28,430
with me.
He just wanted to rub his Dick.

1235
00:15:29,260 --> 00:15:31,650
In between the crack of my ass
that was it just a little bit

1236
00:15:31,660 --> 00:15:35,390
Lube rub his Dick in between the
crack of my ass and that was it.

1237
00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:42,070
That was it, but for him it was
like yeah my wife has died and

1238
00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:45,510
I.
I just from time to time one I

1239
00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:49,350
share this space.
With the woman I don't need it

1240
00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:55,380
on regular basis, but from time
to time I and to hear like he's

1241
00:15:55,390 --> 00:16:00,920
an emotional being like.
I got to see Humaness working as

1242
00:16:00,930 --> 00:16:04,570
an escort.
Hmm, your humanity.

1243
00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:08,350
So yeah, that's #5.
Men are emotional game.

1244
00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:13,900
Love that.
OK, any other questions?

1245
00:16:14,330 --> 00:16:17,240
I don't want to jump in.
I want Andy to Andy.

1246
00:16:17,250 --> 00:16:19,380
Good, be ready to go good bring
on #4.

1247
00:16:19,390 --> 00:16:25,840
OK so #4 men will settle.
Men will settle for the woman

1248
00:16:25,850 --> 00:16:29,710
that looks good on paper, so the
reason I picked this one is

1249
00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:34,570
because.
There's a guy in Chicago and.

1250
00:16:35,570 --> 00:16:38,820
I met him randomly.
He was not someone that I was

1251
00:16:38,830 --> 00:16:43,560
planning on engaging with, but.
I was out with my home girl.

1252
00:16:44,310 --> 00:16:47,810
Oh, this story.
Sorry I was out with my home

1253
00:16:47,820 --> 00:16:52,410
girl and we went to a bar.
And him and his friend happened

1254
00:16:52,420 --> 00:16:55,760
to be sitting there.
And.

1255
00:16:57,510 --> 00:17:00,640
They asked us if we wanted to
buy around a shot so we were

1256
00:17:00,650 --> 00:17:03,060
getting up to leave and they
were like where are you going?

1257
00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:05,800
We were like where we're headed
to another place and he was like

1258
00:17:05,810 --> 00:17:08,140
Oh well, let's buy you around
like don't leave.

1259
00:17:08,910 --> 00:17:13,300
And.
We end up getting drunk in that

1260
00:17:13,310 --> 00:17:17,790
night, going to his place and we
talked about how he had the best

1261
00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:20,390
to have a threesome.
He actually did pay us, he

1262
00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:24,000
didn't end up having threesome.
But come to find out, like he

1263
00:17:24,010 --> 00:17:26,040
didn't tell us that he was in a
representative.

1264
00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:31,750
Come to find out, like while I'm
engaging with him, my friend is

1265
00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:35,140
crawling around on the floor
like going through the

1266
00:17:35,150 --> 00:17:40,460
apartment.
Oh OK, sorry.

1267
00:17:40,530 --> 00:17:42,160
I'm just reliving this in my
brain.

1268
00:17:42,170 --> 00:17:46,360
It was so funny like this after
that if it helps.

1269
00:17:48,070 --> 00:17:50,660
When we walked out and she was
like bitch, I was crawling

1270
00:17:50,670 --> 00:17:52,200
around on the floor.
I was in the closet.

1271
00:17:52,210 --> 00:17:55,080
That bitch has some Jimmy Choos
that was so fucking gorgeous.

1272
00:17:55,090 --> 00:17:58,170
I was like ohe, my God, what the
fuck is this happened?

1273
00:17:59,220 --> 00:18:04,820
But he's with this woman and I
asked him later.

1274
00:18:04,830 --> 00:18:08,310
Like we exchanged numbers and we
would go out to eat, meet up,

1275
00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:11,050
sometimes, hang out.
And.

1276
00:18:12,020 --> 00:18:13,570
I asked him.
I said you have a girlfriend

1277
00:18:13,580 --> 00:18:15,950
like what are you doing.
He was like she's great and we

1278
00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:22,610
fit perfectly together on paper.
But I could tell that he just

1279
00:18:22,620 --> 00:18:24,330
wasn't happy.
It was like that butt and then

1280
00:18:24,340 --> 00:18:26,220
just kind of let awkward drop
off.

1281
00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:31,010
He settled, he settled for what
looked right on paper, but he

1282
00:18:31,020 --> 00:18:35,550
was never actually happy.
I know so many men who have

1283
00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:40,020
settled because it looked good
on paper, only to wake up one

1284
00:18:40,030 --> 00:18:41,260
morning and be like, yeah, I
don't.

1285
00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:43,540
I don't really want to be with
you.

1286
00:18:44,620 --> 00:18:49,960
And many times once they have.
Once they have settled.

1287
00:18:51,120 --> 00:18:54,300
They have kids.
When they're trapped, they feel

1288
00:18:54,310 --> 00:19:00,900
trapped or like.
I have an ex he's.

1289
00:19:01,910 --> 00:19:04,370
I hope he watches this because I
like talking about him.

1290
00:19:04,570 --> 00:19:10,550
I have an ex who is green.
And he wanted to be with me and

1291
00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:14,330
I was like, well, I can't be
with you if your wife doesn't

1292
00:19:14,340 --> 00:19:17,050
fully 100% know that I'm in an
actuation.

1293
00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:22,440
So.
He's like, but like I really

1294
00:19:22,450 --> 00:19:26,180
don't want to be with her.
However, I've built this 6-7

1295
00:19:26,190 --> 00:19:30,760
figure business and if I divorce
her I'm gonna have to start all

1296
00:19:30,770 --> 00:19:33,480
over.
I was like so is it worth the

1297
00:19:33,490 --> 00:19:37,440
Super horrible sex and the
unhappy relationship and the

1298
00:19:37,450 --> 00:19:40,840
faking it all the time and you
being miserable?

1299
00:19:40,970 --> 00:19:43,280
Or is it worth your 7 figure
business?

1300
00:19:43,570 --> 00:19:46,340
And clearly he's still married
to his wife?

1301
00:19:46,490 --> 00:19:49,920
And I have the partner that I'm
supposed to be with?

1302
00:19:51,220 --> 00:19:55,190
So as soon, usually men will
settle for what looks good on

1303
00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:59,090
paper, and once they get into
that situation, most likely they

1304
00:19:59,100 --> 00:20:00,700
won't leave, they'll just end
up.

1305
00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:05,350
If they're, if they're not men
of integrity, they will end up

1306
00:20:05,360 --> 00:20:08,360
cheating.
You know what's interesting

1307
00:20:08,370 --> 00:20:12,200
because during this conversation
that brought up a very awesome

1308
00:20:12,210 --> 00:20:18,740
side conversation to chat about
how our society teaches us to

1309
00:20:18,750 --> 00:20:23,230
settle women and men.
Both are almost tossed cell and

1310
00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,150
they settled because they have
to be in a relationship with

1311
00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,900
this or that.
But the problem I would say

1312
00:20:27,910 --> 00:20:31,200
probably seem to be even worse
with men than with women,

1313
00:20:31,210 --> 00:20:34,660
because men still have this
image that they have to project

1314
00:20:34,670 --> 00:20:37,020
this persona that they have to
maintain.

1315
00:20:37,530 --> 00:20:42,010
And depending on which part of
the culture they were raised in,

1316
00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:45,970
it can be far worse.
You know they have to settle.

1317
00:20:45,980 --> 00:20:50,410
They must to please everybody
else except themselves and and

1318
00:20:50,420 --> 00:20:54,030
to your point, it results in you
making lots of money.

1319
00:20:55,510 --> 00:21:00,080
It works out really well for
escorts and for for girls I mean

1320
00:21:00,250 --> 00:21:03,370
look at what happened with
Ashley Madison and Sugar

1321
00:21:03,380 --> 00:21:08,260
daddies.com and seeking
arrangements like there's a

1322
00:21:08,270 --> 00:21:13,050
reason why these businesses why
brothels are so profitable.

1323
00:21:13,060 --> 00:21:16,020
There's a whole reason.
Essentially it's because of

1324
00:21:16,030 --> 00:21:19,620
exactly what you said.
Society says that men have to be

1325
00:21:19,630 --> 00:21:22,520
a certain way instead of them
just being who they are and

1326
00:21:22,530 --> 00:21:25,760
finding a woman who is willing
to.

1327
00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,740
Accept them for exactly who they
are.

1328
00:21:29,490 --> 00:21:34,270
So if men were open and honest
about being emotional beings I I

1329
00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:37,720
would think they wouldn't settle
then if they honoured their true

1330
00:21:37,730 --> 00:21:40,870
feelings and happiness, joy and
connect you with someone instead

1331
00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:42,700
of.
Well, this is who I should be

1332
00:21:42,710 --> 00:21:45,590
with.
That that that would eliminate

1333
00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:49,950
.4 if men decided and accepted
that their masculinity was

1334
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:52,770
established at birth and they
could be whoever the fuck they

1335
00:21:52,780 --> 00:21:55,610
wanted to be.
Life would be much easier.

1336
00:21:58,350 --> 00:21:59,780
There's another book title for
you.

1337
00:22:00,310 --> 00:22:06,540
Boo, yeah.
Your masculinity was established

1338
00:22:06,550 --> 00:22:09,000
at birth.
Yes, you were born with a Dick.

1339
00:22:09,290 --> 00:22:14,320
You're congratulations.
Go be just be whoever going to

1340
00:22:14,330 --> 00:22:22,740
be.
So my the thing that I learned

1341
00:22:22,750 --> 00:22:25,850
is that memory shame.
So.

1342
00:22:27,360 --> 00:22:31,510
I remember it was only my second
or third experience of like

1343
00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:35,730
taking balls I met up with this
guy and.

1344
00:22:37,540 --> 00:22:44,270
He did not ejaculate normally.
So he had a condition where.

1345
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:48,770
When he ejaculated.
It didn't come out.

1346
00:22:48,780 --> 00:22:53,260
It reverted back into his body.
And.

1347
00:22:54,010 --> 00:22:56,840
After we got done, which I
thought was super awesome

1348
00:22:56,850 --> 00:23:00,400
because there's no clean up.
Yay, I'm not covered in sperm.

1349
00:23:00,630 --> 00:23:04,680
Woohoo, I'm a Virgo.
I have slight OCD.

1350
00:23:04,730 --> 00:23:07,680
I hate that shit.
So I said that almost every day.

1351
00:23:07,690 --> 00:23:09,980
Yeah, I'm not covered in sperm,
so yes.

1352
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:16,370
Like I was like yo, this man
just needs to find a woman who

1353
00:23:16,380 --> 00:23:21,460
has some type of OCD and hates
the fucking oh I'm sticking out.

1354
00:23:21,580 --> 00:23:25,690
I have to go get the warm towel
and wipe myself off ilk and get

1355
00:23:25,700 --> 00:23:30,260
this shit off me.
OK the moments over so he was

1356
00:23:30,270 --> 00:23:33,890
like.
I have yet to meet a woman like

1357
00:23:33,900 --> 00:23:36,410
I'm embarrassed to be with a
woman because I have this

1358
00:23:36,420 --> 00:23:42,530
condition and he carried so much
shame behind that not realising

1359
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:46,730
that the fact that he didn't
ejaculate like a normal man

1360
00:23:47,140 --> 00:23:50,430
would make.
Damn near any woman excited

1361
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,970
because she did.
There was no clean up afterwards

1362
00:23:53,050 --> 00:23:56,470
like sure baby, if you want to
come on my face you surely can.

1363
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,710
You can smack it on my face.
All you want to.

1364
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,830
Yes, I don't have to get into my
hair.

1365
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:05,730
I have to get it towed.
You know essentially wet outside

1366
00:24:05,740 --> 00:24:10,390
of me like.
Instead of his seeing that in

1367
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:14,450
that perspective, instead of
seeing the positives of the fact

1368
00:24:14,460 --> 00:24:17,720
that he had this condition, that
he doesn't seem in.

1369
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:22,830
He carried so much shame behind
that he was so embarrassed that

1370
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:27,340
he was not like a regular man.
That he could not be in a

1371
00:24:27,350 --> 00:24:30,750
relationship.
So instead he hired escorts you

1372
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:32,830
go around from town to town and
hire an escort.

1373
00:24:33,290 --> 00:24:35,350
It wouldn't be on a regular
basis, it would just be when he

1374
00:24:35,360 --> 00:24:37,800
got the urge.
And.

1375
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,950
His shame kept him from being
great.

1376
00:24:42,450 --> 00:24:48,300
His shame kept him from love.
His shame kept him from deep

1377
00:24:48,310 --> 00:24:50,130
intimacy with another human
being.

1378
00:24:50,770 --> 00:24:54,240
His shame kept him trapped in
this box.

1379
00:24:56,020 --> 00:24:59,060
Where he could actually be with
another, he could actually be

1380
00:24:59,070 --> 00:25:02,910
with another person.
Ohhhhh, wow, you know that is

1381
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:08,180
that that that theme of shame.
It seems to be like a universal

1382
00:25:08,190 --> 00:25:10,660
human condition.
Men and women both.

1383
00:25:10,670 --> 00:25:13,920
Obviously this show is devoted
to talking about how men

1384
00:25:13,930 --> 00:25:18,380
experience that, but oh man,
that is, we could have a whole

1385
00:25:18,390 --> 00:25:24,350
other show on that alone.
And you're saying that that that

1386
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:28,150
every man that that came to see
you were generally sees escorts?

1387
00:25:28,220 --> 00:25:29,850
They're carrying some level of
shame?

1388
00:25:29,860 --> 00:25:34,570
It's not this this one instance.
Yes, there was a gentleman and

1389
00:25:34,580 --> 00:25:37,470
he wasn't even.
I met him within the last couple

1390
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,450
years so I don't do this
anymore.

1391
00:25:39,460 --> 00:25:42,570
I I don't.
I have thought about it, but I

1392
00:25:42,580 --> 00:25:45,150
don't do this anymore.
Just saying.

1393
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:50,490
Good money.
He was a man who experienced

1394
00:25:50,500 --> 00:25:56,600
erectile dysfunction.
And he felt shame behind that.

1395
00:25:57,180 --> 00:25:59,840
So he was like, you know, ever
since.

1396
00:26:00,830 --> 00:26:04,420
My my wife and I, my wife died
and I've tried to date a few

1397
00:26:04,430 --> 00:26:07,900
other women, but now that I have
this EV issue and I don't really

1398
00:26:07,910 --> 00:26:11,800
know if I can connect with
another woman and if I can get

1399
00:26:11,810 --> 00:26:16,660
hard, I come really quickly.
You know all these areas around

1400
00:26:16,670 --> 00:26:21,270
shame and it's like bro, you are
super intelligent and I met him

1401
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:25,800
because he was my Uber driver so
I was drunk as shit one night

1402
00:26:25,910 --> 00:26:29,790
and when I'm drunk.
I talked to anybody.

1403
00:26:31,860 --> 00:26:33,270
Is that what you're drinking
tonight?

1404
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,610
Talking to us?
Is that the real reason I am?

1405
00:26:37,060 --> 00:26:39,890
Yes, it makes a little easier to
talk about things, but also

1406
00:26:39,900 --> 00:26:43,260
denied Valentine's and I just
feel like you know, why not talk

1407
00:26:43,270 --> 00:26:46,530
about cunnilingus, fellatio, and
working as an escort like.

1408
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:49,910
Sometimes you need a little bit
of alcohol, but my partner is

1409
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:54,270
actually is joined us though
that he came in and he will tell

1410
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:59,260
you like.
I literally will talk to anybody

1411
00:26:59,270 --> 00:27:02,960
I'm drunk like I.
There is no person that I don't

1412
00:27:02,970 --> 00:27:05,300
know when I am highly
intoxicated.

1413
00:27:05,310 --> 00:27:07,880
Everybody's my best friend.
I love them.

1414
00:27:08,170 --> 00:27:13,040
Come back with me let's be
buddies oh I love you and I was

1415
00:27:13,050 --> 00:27:18,350
like lose time so.
In this space, like I I'm I'm we

1416
00:27:18,360 --> 00:27:21,260
get into this conversation like
me and my Uber driver drunk off

1417
00:27:21,270 --> 00:27:25,380
my ass.
Just about people and the time

1418
00:27:25,390 --> 00:27:28,390
and space continuum.
Like I, I promise you, my

1419
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,310
conversations will run in a
totally different direction,

1420
00:27:31,540 --> 00:27:35,750
but.
In that space like he was like,

1421
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,910
oh, you're so cool and I told
him, you know, I wanted to start

1422
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,640
this consulting firm blah blah
blah blah blah and then he would

1423
00:27:40,650 --> 00:27:41,970
just hit me up from time to
time.

1424
00:27:41,980 --> 00:27:44,210
Like hey, I'll come pick you up,
you know?

1425
00:27:46,350 --> 00:27:53,510
Yes, I'll come pick you up and
we'll talk and you know you just

1426
00:27:53,750 --> 00:27:58,010
say like.
I'm embarrassed like do I?

1427
00:27:58,980 --> 00:28:02,990
Do I go to a massage parlour
because I'm scared to connect

1428
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:06,430
with a woman like because I have
E and I may not be able to get

1429
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:08,270
hurt?
And if I do hard I come really

1430
00:28:08,340 --> 00:28:12,510
and you know, like just this
carrying of shame for him.

1431
00:28:13,590 --> 00:28:16,550
And I just wanted him to know
like just because you have this

1432
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,740
experience.
Just because you were in this

1433
00:28:18,750 --> 00:28:22,350
space.
Doesn't mean that you're any

1434
00:28:22,360 --> 00:28:24,500
less of a man that you're any
less.

1435
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:34,130
Sexy like sexual intercourse is
just the cherry on top of the

1436
00:28:34,140 --> 00:28:36,580
Sunday.
It's not the fucking Sunday.

1437
00:28:38,290 --> 00:28:41,120
So yeah, men carry Shane a tonne
of it.

1438
00:28:43,170 --> 00:28:47,340
That's one time and yes, and I
love it cause this again seems

1439
00:28:47,350 --> 00:28:50,120
to be going back to five right
emotional beings.

1440
00:28:50,370 --> 00:28:52,530
Emotional being.
Yeah, if you're not willing to

1441
00:28:52,540 --> 00:28:55,740
express that chain.
You end up in the back of an

1442
00:28:55,750 --> 00:28:58,540
Uber with an escort.
You enter.

1443
00:28:58,550 --> 00:29:01,520
Well, I wasn't an escort, but
yes, you can end up in the back

1444
00:29:01,530 --> 00:29:04,880
of an Uber with an escort.
But if you don't deal with the

1445
00:29:04,890 --> 00:29:08,700
shame and being an emotional
being, then you'll end up

1446
00:29:08,710 --> 00:29:13,780
settling and end up hiring an
escort or getting a subject or.

1447
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:16,350
Like that?
You know?

1448
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:24,800
God so OK number two sex is
transactional and sex can heal.

1449
00:29:26,540 --> 00:29:31,920
What was that about again?
I gotta hear that.

1450
00:29:32,930 --> 00:29:37,680
Sex is transactional.
And sex can heal.

1451
00:29:39,060 --> 00:29:41,450
Yeah.
Yes to both.

1452
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,870
I have experienced both.
I I yes.

1453
00:29:46,590 --> 00:29:50,080
No, is it usually one or the
other or can it be both at the

1454
00:29:50,090 --> 00:29:52,400
same time?
It can be both at the same time.

1455
00:29:52,410 --> 00:29:57,080
Come on Andy, come on just when
you that term transactional just

1456
00:29:57,090 --> 00:30:00,940
feels very dry and just you give
me that and I give you this and

1457
00:30:00,950 --> 00:30:02,860
then we leave.
I know, right?

1458
00:30:02,870 --> 00:30:06,010
But let's peel apart
transactions, right?

1459
00:30:07,940 --> 00:30:10,470
Transactions can be a bartering
transaction.

1460
00:30:11,540 --> 00:30:18,680
It can be a gift transaction.
It can be a cash for service

1461
00:30:18,690 --> 00:30:22,740
transaction.
It can be a service for service

1462
00:30:22,750 --> 00:30:27,600
transaction.
It can be an exchange of words.

1463
00:30:28,490 --> 00:30:31,940
People don't realise that
exchanging words a conversation

1464
00:30:31,950 --> 00:30:34,870
is transactional because you're
giving words.

1465
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:37,600
I'm giving words.
It's a transaction so.

1466
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:42,240
What people how people see sex
is that.

1467
00:30:43,090 --> 00:30:46,200
Oh well, once I have sex with a
person, that transaction stops.

1468
00:30:46,210 --> 00:30:48,640
No, you're actually having a
transaction because you're

1469
00:30:48,650 --> 00:30:50,160
exchanging pleasure for
pleasure.

1470
00:30:50,390 --> 00:30:54,090
Now if you did not get pleasure
from that situation.

1471
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,910
Yo, you're losing out.
Did you get a refund?

1472
00:30:58,210 --> 00:31:04,490
You should get the fuck up like
you're not fuck you no I'm not

1473
00:31:04,500 --> 00:31:07,420
fucking anymore which I have to
interject here really quick

1474
00:31:07,430 --> 00:31:10,130
because it just reminded me of a
joke which is right along these

1475
00:31:10,140 --> 00:31:13,670
lines which is what is a four
letter word ending in K that

1476
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:17,940
means the same as intercourse.
Talk.

1477
00:31:18,750 --> 00:31:25,170
Yes, I like that.
Love that so it's transactional

1478
00:31:25,180 --> 00:31:30,350
and it's a form of intercourse.
Yes yes yes so.

1479
00:31:31,010 --> 00:31:35,430
That transaction can be.
Sex for money.

1480
00:31:36,590 --> 00:31:39,010
Hmm.
So it's all energy.

1481
00:31:39,020 --> 00:31:42,000
If especially for my woo woo
people who will see this.

1482
00:31:42,420 --> 00:31:45,650
Yes sex in it's all energy.
It's all the same thing.

1483
00:31:45,660 --> 00:31:49,170
It's all energy.
So if sex is creation, sexual

1484
00:31:49,180 --> 00:31:54,230
energy is also creative energy
and creative energy also aligns

1485
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:57,230
with money energy.
Why can't sex energy and money

1486
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,390
energy be the same damn thing?
Yeah.

1487
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:04,580
That just, I think that leaves
us all speechless right now

1488
00:32:04,590 --> 00:32:07,070
because we have to.
It just absorb that one.

1489
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:13,510
So yeah, sex is transactional.
It's 100% actual transactional.

1490
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:17,410
Either you're you're exchanging
pleasure, you're exchanging

1491
00:32:17,420 --> 00:32:20,970
pleasure for cash.
You're exchanging pleasure for.

1492
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:27,610
A relationship you can exchange
pleasure for stability, but

1493
00:32:28,020 --> 00:32:30,340
let's think about marriage,
shall we?

1494
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:37,500
Most people where in some type
of marriage a woman knows that

1495
00:32:38,090 --> 00:32:42,540
if she sucks her husband's Dick
or fucks him on his birthday, or

1496
00:32:42,550 --> 00:32:46,220
when she wants something she is
going to get the money to get

1497
00:32:46,230 --> 00:32:47,900
it.
So what the fuck makes her

1498
00:32:47,910 --> 00:32:52,280
different between.
An escort, a prostitute.

1499
00:32:53,470 --> 00:32:57,170
Or anybody else or a porner.
There's no diff.

1500
00:32:57,870 --> 00:33:01,980
The only difference is when he
dies, she will acquire his

1501
00:33:01,990 --> 00:33:06,680
property home that she makes it
all the way to knitting divorce.

1502
00:33:08,250 --> 00:33:10,840
In other words, Sugar Daddy, but
with the paperwork that said

1503
00:33:10,850 --> 00:33:14,150
that changes it to hell.
Yeah, a committed shit happened

1504
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:18,640
to get tax break.
Thanks Michael and a tax break

1505
00:33:18,650 --> 00:33:22,420
exactly, so sex is always
transactional and sometimes it

1506
00:33:22,430 --> 00:33:24,780
has a tax break aside to it.
Sometimes it doesn't.

1507
00:33:24,790 --> 00:33:28,740
Yes just one second give me just
a minute and I will make you

1508
00:33:28,750 --> 00:33:32,400
another burrito.
OK, alright, no, don't stand

1509
00:33:32,410 --> 00:33:34,340
there.
Go sit down and watch a movie.

1510
00:33:34,770 --> 00:33:38,020
Thank you.
OK, mommy.

1511
00:33:39,030 --> 00:33:44,230
What transactions, exactly?
There's an exchange there,

1512
00:33:44,460 --> 00:33:47,030
right?
Yes, I'll make the burrito, but

1513
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:50,250
that's to go down.
The fact that.

1514
00:33:51,290 --> 00:33:55,980
Exactly the sex can heal, so
there there were many times

1515
00:33:55,990 --> 00:33:58,470
where.
Men would come in.

1516
00:33:59,470 --> 00:34:02,640
And we would exchange a
conversation, or I'd go meet a

1517
00:34:02,650 --> 00:34:06,560
guy.
The very last quote unquote

1518
00:34:06,570 --> 00:34:10,480
Sugar Daddy that I had.
Um?

1519
00:34:11,630 --> 00:34:15,739
He was.
He was hurt in a whole lot of

1520
00:34:15,750 --> 00:34:18,989
places and we would talk about
that hurt.

1521
00:34:20,710 --> 00:34:25,679
And for people who are woo woo
and who really understand what

1522
00:34:25,690 --> 00:34:29,679
sex is like truly, truly
understand what sex is.

1523
00:34:30,710 --> 00:34:33,000
Sex.
Is a sad.

1524
00:34:34,310 --> 00:34:39,010
It's a healing conduit.
And women being the

1525
00:34:39,020 --> 00:34:42,900
extraordinary beings that we are
not saying a man can't do this

1526
00:34:42,909 --> 00:34:45,949
for a woman.
But women, being the

1527
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:50,600
extraordinary beings that we are
and essentially receiving.

1528
00:34:52,139 --> 00:34:54,960
Not that you can't do this and
not be a woman.

1529
00:34:56,510 --> 00:34:59,440
But the ability to receive
things.

1530
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,890
There are things that women
don't understand that they can

1531
00:35:03,900 --> 00:35:06,340
do.
With their vagina.

1532
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:13,230
So with essentially you can be
having sex with a man and heal

1533
00:35:13,240 --> 00:35:18,560
him by sucking out and receiving
all his pain.

1534
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,840
All his hurt, all his
frustration.

1535
00:35:23,310 --> 00:35:27,620
And taking that, holding it in
your vagina.

1536
00:35:28,630 --> 00:35:32,920
And if you're still having a
menstrual cycle, releasing that

1537
00:35:33,370 --> 00:35:37,020
during your middle.
And I know that possibly lose

1538
00:35:37,030 --> 00:35:40,360
some of mine and I know I
possibly might have to explain

1539
00:35:40,370 --> 00:35:45,340
that a bit deeper.
I know, I know that not

1540
00:35:45,350 --> 00:35:49,690
everybody believes that.
But I've seen it for myself.

1541
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:54,320
I've done it.
That you can literally heal a

1542
00:35:54,330 --> 00:35:59,130
man from his heart because we
all come out of a vagina.

1543
00:36:00,010 --> 00:36:04,130
So if the vagina gave you life.
Why wouldn't the vagina be able

1544
00:36:04,140 --> 00:36:07,170
to heal you or kill you at any
given time?

1545
00:36:12,370 --> 00:36:14,320
You know, John put in here in
the comments.

1546
00:36:14,330 --> 00:36:18,620
That happens energetically too,
even when goods are not

1547
00:36:18,630 --> 00:36:20,740
exchange.
Yeah.

1548
00:36:22,390 --> 00:36:26,320
Our energy fields meet before
our physical fields do so.

1549
00:36:26,330 --> 00:36:28,660
Sure, yeah.
Which is why anybody,

1550
00:36:28,720 --> 00:36:34,060
essentially anybody can.
Do this like anybody can heal

1551
00:36:34,070 --> 00:36:37,550
another person using sex, even
using their energy.

1552
00:36:38,470 --> 00:36:41,630
And and of course, the Grammys
were last night, and everybody's

1553
00:36:41,650 --> 00:36:45,840
talking about Beyoncé and and
her oshun references and all

1554
00:36:45,850 --> 00:36:48,800
that.
But in that space of honouring

1555
00:36:48,810 --> 00:36:52,400
the woman and honouring the life
Bureau with her being pregnant

1556
00:36:52,410 --> 00:36:57,400
right now, like.
There is so much.

1557
00:36:58,100 --> 00:37:04,130
Healing that a woman can do.
With her energy with.

1558
00:37:05,100 --> 00:37:08,500
With her heart and you know that
you guys know I talk about the

1559
00:37:08,510 --> 00:37:11,860
three pussies so with her brain
her heart and with her vagina,

1560
00:37:11,870 --> 00:37:15,050
she essentially can transform
the world.

1561
00:37:15,350 --> 00:37:18,650
So she's giving birth.
A woman gives birth.

1562
00:37:18,660 --> 00:37:20,740
We all come through the vagina
to be born.

1563
00:37:21,590 --> 00:37:25,120
Some of us see section, but it's
the same thing of a uterus and a

1564
00:37:25,130 --> 00:37:30,260
vagina held all of us in cocoon
and and preserved our life to

1565
00:37:30,270 --> 00:37:34,020
get here.
So that means that that very

1566
00:37:34,030 --> 00:37:39,680
thing that preserved our life.
Can not only heal us.

1567
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,720
But it can also kill us at the
same time, which is why women

1568
00:37:43,730 --> 00:37:46,690
have to be so careful.
And that's a whole other topic.

1569
00:37:46,700 --> 00:37:51,450
But yeah.
So yes, and by the way, I love

1570
00:37:51,460 --> 00:37:53,270
it when gay men fall in love
with me, I just.

1571
00:37:58,060 --> 00:38:01,880
Thank you, I do and every time I
talk to you I just fall in love

1572
00:38:01,890 --> 00:38:06,470
with you all over again.
You know, my partner tells me

1573
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:09,110
that too.
So apparently I have a gift.

1574
00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:15,000
You do you totally do.
And so diva can are all three

1575
00:38:15,010 --> 00:38:19,200
pussies healing and receptive.
Yes, the three pussies are

1576
00:38:19,210 --> 00:38:21,470
healing and receptive.
So a woman can heal them.

1577
00:38:21,770 --> 00:38:25,320
Heal a man with her brain and
her thoughts and just her

1578
00:38:25,330 --> 00:38:28,040
conversation.
Because of course, I thought you

1579
00:38:28,050 --> 00:38:30,700
know all our words.
All our actions start in our

1580
00:38:30,710 --> 00:38:33,790
brain.
She can heal them in and and or

1581
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,760
a woman.
Women too.

1582
00:38:35,770 --> 00:38:37,930
This is not a.
This is just a human being

1583
00:38:37,940 --> 00:38:39,990
thing.
She can heal a person with her

1584
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:41,840
thoughts.
She can heal a person just by

1585
00:38:41,850 --> 00:38:44,800
loving them unconditionally.
No questions asked.

1586
00:38:44,810 --> 00:38:47,280
This is who you are and I'm
going to unconditionally give

1587
00:38:47,290 --> 00:38:49,250
you my love.
That doesn't mean that I'm going

1588
00:38:49,260 --> 00:38:52,060
to allow you into my space all
the time, but I'm going to give

1589
00:38:52,070 --> 00:38:54,600
you love.
I'm going to support you and I'm

1590
00:38:54,610 --> 00:38:59,580
going to be empathetic.
Even with my boundary and then.

1591
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:06,270
I can heal you through pleasure.
I can hear you through the

1592
00:39:06,420 --> 00:39:10,450
replay that we're born.
Cool.

1593
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:14,030
And and that really the the
three pussy vibe really can

1594
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:17,370
explain how you can be feel so
intimate and loved and healed

1595
00:39:17,380 --> 00:39:19,930
with someone and not necessarily
be having intercourse too.

1596
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:25,250
Yeah, and that's why you can be
so loved and healed and give

1597
00:39:25,260 --> 00:39:28,860
somebody payment for it.
We pay coaches.

1598
00:39:29,270 --> 00:39:30,860
Coaches use their brains and
their heart.

1599
00:39:32,240 --> 00:39:36,160
So what's wrong with using Arjin
Italia for the same thing?

1600
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:41,030
Nothing wrong with that.
Go sit down, ma'am.

1601
00:39:41,720 --> 00:39:45,250
Hi baby, go sit down now there's
something wrong.

1602
00:39:45,260 --> 00:39:50,570
OK, be back in a minute, no
trying trying this is the most

1603
00:39:50,580 --> 00:39:53,630
interesting space of life
because you go from talking

1604
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,670
about Dick and pussy still OK
baby go sit down and watch story

1605
00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:00,450
you know like it's it's the most
interesting thing ever ever ever

1606
00:40:01,020 --> 00:40:05,790
OK and this leads me to the
number one thing I learned by

1607
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:12,560
working as an escort.
Men get lonely and need love

1608
00:40:12,570 --> 00:40:16,280
too.
Amanda, that.

1609
00:40:18,010 --> 00:40:20,200
And and and is that a surprise
to some men?

1610
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:24,750
Yes, well.
Especially when they run into

1611
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:28,790
somebody who is just chill like
she's not like OK, just come on

1612
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,190
and get it over with which there
are some women like that.

1613
00:40:31,380 --> 00:40:35,790
But when a woman gives a man the
whole experience, they don't

1614
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:41,310
realise how.
Even if it's an hour, they jump

1615
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:45,230
up and they have like they feel
good and they slept well the

1616
00:40:45,240 --> 00:40:48,270
night before.
And it's like, yeah, well, this

1617
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:51,750
woman just came in and gave her
all your pussy gave you all her

1618
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:55,040
pussy.
And then you know, like.

1619
00:40:55,870 --> 00:40:57,560
Men don't admit when they get
lonely.

1620
00:40:59,820 --> 00:41:04,710
Men want to admit that they need
someone to be a soft landing

1621
00:41:04,720 --> 00:41:09,110
space.
For them that will just hold

1622
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:12,180
them and love them like Mama
used to do or like.

1623
00:41:12,190 --> 00:41:15,700
Mama didn't do that they've
never experienced ever in life.

1624
00:41:16,420 --> 00:41:20,450
Hmm.
Oh yeah, those are the five

1625
00:41:20,460 --> 00:41:22,250
things that I learned working as
an escort.

1626
00:41:23,030 --> 00:41:26,300
Excellent, thank you very much
for sharing them, you're

1627
00:41:26,310 --> 00:41:29,640
welcome.
Yeah, I mean some I might have

1628
00:41:29,650 --> 00:41:32,160
guessed at some.
I certainly wouldn't have so.

1629
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:35,850
Thank you for your research.
You're welcome.

1630
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:41,090
I do have more tips for you
guys, so I figured Valentine's

1631
00:41:41,100 --> 00:41:43,710
Day coming up.
Why not?

1632
00:41:43,780 --> 00:41:48,050
The Vixen goddess who had worked
as an escort who enjoys women

1633
00:41:48,220 --> 00:41:52,150
and enjoys men.
And has learned wonderful tip.

1634
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:56,300
From her partner on how to Eat
pussy and put them to success

1635
00:41:56,310 --> 00:42:01,830
herself.
So this is a master's class.

1636
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:05,070
Yes, this is this is this is my
extra stuff and I'm gonna run

1637
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:06,630
through these really really
quickly.

1638
00:42:06,820 --> 00:42:08,800
So I'm gonna kind of combine
them together.

1639
00:42:08,900 --> 00:42:10,700
But I'm also gonna run through
these really fast.

1640
00:42:10,940 --> 00:42:15,340
So OK. 1st, If you're going to
give really great oral sex.

1641
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:19,570
Really, really great oral sex.
You have to be in love with the

1642
00:42:19,580 --> 00:42:22,880
Dick or the pussy like you just
have to love it.

1643
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:27,180
If you can't love it, you cannot
give really great oral sex like

1644
00:42:27,190 --> 00:42:29,750
you have to.
Damn near worship the very

1645
00:42:29,820 --> 00:42:35,970
essence of the fact that you get
to partake in this beautiful,

1646
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:39,330
amazing.
Experience.

1647
00:42:40,720 --> 00:42:43,390
Of oral, so it's not something
you can fake.

1648
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:45,820
You can't just go at this well
heartedly.

1649
00:42:46,690 --> 00:42:49,700
You gotta love the Dick and you
gotta love pussy like you gotta

1650
00:42:49,710 --> 00:42:51,510
love it.
You gotta worship it.

1651
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:54,710
Talk to it.
Say wonderful things.

1652
00:42:54,720 --> 00:42:58,750
If you don't go sit down.
Thank you, talk to it and say

1653
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,340
wonderful.
What's it down?

1654
00:43:01,350 --> 00:43:08,210
Yeah, I would listen.
Take it out a bit better.

1655
00:43:09,370 --> 00:43:14,240
Insert right there.
Welcome to my life.

1656
00:43:14,250 --> 00:43:16,860
You guys just see the very
inside.

1657
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:20,960
The Devil Logan behind the Vixen
goddess.

1658
00:43:20,970 --> 00:43:24,280
I really am.
You really gave random shit.

1659
00:43:25,950 --> 00:43:32,100
OK, so.
Dick and pussy worship needs to

1660
00:43:32,110 --> 00:43:36,160
happen.
Welcome to my life.

1661
00:43:36,170 --> 00:43:40,220
I talk about sex and at the same
time I save choking children.

1662
00:43:41,090 --> 00:43:43,080
By the way, we have another T
shirt idea for you.

1663
00:43:43,090 --> 00:43:45,740
Look in the chat.
Oh gosh, what's the T shirt

1664
00:43:45,750 --> 00:43:49,890
idea?
I don't think the pussy worship

1665
00:43:49,900 --> 00:43:53,000
needs to happen.
Oh gosh, did Don come up with

1666
00:43:53,010 --> 00:43:53,940
that?
Because that sounds like

1667
00:43:53,950 --> 00:43:58,580
something Don would say.
Early dawn yeah Dick and Percy,

1668
00:43:58,650 --> 00:44:01,740
Dick, Dick and Pussy worshipper.
That could be a whole on

1669
00:44:01,750 --> 00:44:04,880
everything so I have to give
credit where credit is due.

1670
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:08,180
I don't know if my partner still
on here but he's the one who

1671
00:44:08,190 --> 00:44:11,000
talks about how he loves to have
his Dick worship and and I

1672
00:44:11,010 --> 00:44:14,660
worship his Dick.
So this is where relationships.

1673
00:44:14,700 --> 00:44:16,340
It all plays a part into what I
do.

1674
00:44:16,610 --> 00:44:19,220
So yeah, OK I thank him for his
research.

1675
00:44:19,350 --> 00:44:24,180
Yes, absolutely for contributing
to yes he contributes to the

1676
00:44:24,190 --> 00:44:29,430
Diva Logan experience alright?
OK, so for my ladies who want to

1677
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:32,800
Deep Throat, this is my tip for
my ladies who want to Deep

1678
00:44:32,810 --> 00:44:35,030
Throat.
You have to stick your tongue

1679
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:36,260
out and breathe through your
nose.

1680
00:44:37,740 --> 00:44:43,020
I could have told you that too.
King I was hoping you would help

1681
00:44:43,030 --> 00:44:45,640
me out.
Totally happy on that one.

1682
00:44:46,030 --> 00:44:47,960
I was hoping you would help me
out on these Dick.

1683
00:44:48,010 --> 00:44:50,360
The fellatio tips.
I appreciate your life.

1684
00:44:50,370 --> 00:44:55,120
Yeah no problem and we thank you
for your research as well Apio.

1685
00:44:59,220 --> 00:45:03,380
Oh Valentine's Day everyone
indeed.

1686
00:45:04,350 --> 00:45:08,270
So and I realised women don't
necessarily understand, so I'm

1687
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:09,600
going to give you an example so
you.

1688
00:45:10,810 --> 00:45:13,180
Stick it all the way out.
You want to try and touch it in

1689
00:45:13,190 --> 00:45:16,590
with your tongue and breathe
through your nose, OK?

1690
00:45:17,390 --> 00:45:19,780
So.
Here's a little tip to help you

1691
00:45:19,790 --> 00:45:23,540
get over that gag reflex.
You can practise this before you

1692
00:45:23,550 --> 00:45:26,130
decide to put it into practise.
I don't suggest you try and do

1693
00:45:26,140 --> 00:45:28,300
this tomorrow if you were
watching this tomorrow.

1694
00:45:28,310 --> 00:45:32,480
I know like unless you have not
practised the gag reflex, you

1695
00:45:32,490 --> 00:45:35,510
don't want to throw up, which I
have a very special story which

1696
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:40,750
I will share with you guys after
we get off this call about yes

1697
00:45:40,790 --> 00:45:44,690
so.
If you take your toothbrush when

1698
00:45:44,700 --> 00:45:47,360
you're brushing your tongue and
stick your tongue all the way

1699
00:45:47,370 --> 00:45:49,800
out and breathe through your
nose and brush the back of your

1700
00:45:49,810 --> 00:45:52,370
tongue, it will help you with
your gag reflex.

1701
00:45:52,790 --> 00:45:55,330
I've done it.
Anything that I tell you today,

1702
00:45:55,530 --> 00:45:59,160
I have personally done myself so
I am giving you personal.

1703
00:45:59,870 --> 00:46:04,280
Including in Pussy Ladies OK I
like to eat pussy from time to

1704
00:46:04,290 --> 00:46:06,860
time right?
That's something there really

1705
00:46:06,870 --> 00:46:11,020
quick as well as you're using
you make sure that you are also

1706
00:46:11,030 --> 00:46:15,160
using your tongue.
I'm doing the fellatio.

1707
00:46:15,170 --> 00:46:18,940
Make sure that you are also
using the tongue fully and

1708
00:46:18,950 --> 00:46:22,580
completely.
OK, I was going to.

1709
00:46:22,930 --> 00:46:27,140
I forgot that I've had a little
bit of wine and I get really

1710
00:46:27,610 --> 00:46:33,350
friendly, OK?
Hey middle holds barred on the

1711
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,160
on this podcast, but Eva Logan
uncut.

1712
00:46:36,210 --> 00:46:42,840
Alright, so, Speaking of uncut,
uncut perfect subway perfect

1713
00:46:42,850 --> 00:46:46,300
Segway.
Sensation for uncircumcised

1714
00:46:46,310 --> 00:46:48,800
versus circumcised men?
Is there another way?

1715
00:46:48,810 --> 00:46:51,880
Which way what do you mean done?
Is there another way for wet

1716
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:55,060
before I jump into?
Uncut.

1717
00:46:56,460 --> 00:46:59,830
I know I'm never uncut, you know
I am.

1718
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:03,160
I've been trying to act like I
have what you should live naked

1719
00:47:03,170 --> 00:47:07,990
isn't your thing.
It is and if you know what if

1720
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:11,610
society was would allow me to, I
would walk around naked all the

1721
00:47:11,620 --> 00:47:18,000
time.
OK, just can you give me a

1722
00:47:18,010 --> 00:47:19,980
minute.
I'm almost done.

1723
00:47:20,310 --> 00:47:24,440
Just go watch whatever is coming
on next after Finding Dory.

1724
00:47:25,530 --> 00:47:28,310
How about that?
OK.

1725
00:47:29,590 --> 00:47:34,820
See my Life OK so no there is
there I try.

1726
00:47:35,690 --> 00:47:39,080
I try to tone things down for
certain people because I know me

1727
00:47:39,090 --> 00:47:44,420
being one 100% fully myself.
Can like punch people in the

1728
00:47:44,430 --> 00:47:47,320
face and and make them very
uncomfortable.

1729
00:47:47,330 --> 00:47:50,240
So I tried to take that into
account and still trying.

1730
00:47:50,250 --> 00:47:53,860
You know, tone it down.
Maybe just a little bit like if

1731
00:47:53,870 --> 00:47:55,340
I was standing in front of my
mother.

1732
00:47:57,850 --> 00:48:01,690
Only my mother, you know, even
if I'm standing next, Michelle

1733
00:48:01,700 --> 00:48:04,680
and Barack would probably still
be exact version.

1734
00:48:04,730 --> 00:48:08,410
Yeah, I know, fucking good and
having the best sex of your life

1735
00:48:08,420 --> 00:48:10,140
right now.
They're out of the world.

1736
00:48:11,970 --> 00:48:15,330
So there are differences in tip
#5.

1737
00:48:15,650 --> 00:48:19,050
If your man is uncircumcised
versus circumcised he has

1738
00:48:19,060 --> 00:48:21,890
different sensations and there
are different tips that you need

1739
00:48:21,900 --> 00:48:25,450
to use different techniques.
You need to use versus an uncut

1740
00:48:25,460 --> 00:48:29,070
man versus a cut man.
So an uncut man you actually

1741
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:31,970
have to do less work than you
would have to do for a

1742
00:48:31,980 --> 00:48:35,930
circumcised man because an
uncircumcised man still has all

1743
00:48:35,940 --> 00:48:39,420
the nerve endings they have not
been removed with his foreskin,

1744
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,780
so.
Ladies, a quick tip.

1745
00:48:42,910 --> 00:48:46,930
If you're a man or a gentleman,
if your man is uncircumcised,

1746
00:48:47,210 --> 00:48:50,760
keep the skin pulled forward
even if he's hard and just stick

1747
00:48:50,770 --> 00:48:52,690
your tip in and lick the tip of
his Dick.

1748
00:48:52,870 --> 00:48:57,280
It works every single time it
will cut your fellatio time in

1749
00:48:57,290 --> 00:49:02,560
half and get you faster to the
point of cunnilingus, or mutual

1750
00:49:02,570 --> 00:49:05,900
fellatio or sex.
If you do that, just one thing.

1751
00:49:05,910 --> 00:49:09,780
Just lick the inside with the
sensation in there.

1752
00:49:09,890 --> 00:49:12,440
It's extra great.
If he's circumcised.

1753
00:49:13,210 --> 00:49:16,700
There is a little point
underneath the little mushroom

1754
00:49:16,710 --> 00:49:19,340
like to call it the mushroom
underneath mushroom, where the

1755
00:49:19,350 --> 00:49:24,640
skin initially attached to the.
I want it that's not harmonium.

1756
00:49:24,650 --> 00:49:29,000
It's called the.
Fair enum, it starts with FI.

1757
00:49:29,010 --> 00:49:31,760
Can't remember the exact name.
Anyway I remember it either.

1758
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:36,870
That little space is like that's
where all the nerve endings are

1759
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:39,700
right there.
If you lick that space

1760
00:49:39,710 --> 00:49:42,680
consistently, if you apply
consistent pressure to that

1761
00:49:42,690 --> 00:49:47,900
space, he will come faster.
However, if you want to stop his

1762
00:49:47,910 --> 00:49:52,360
orgasm when he starts and then
slow it, thank you.

1763
00:49:52,430 --> 00:49:55,820
Thank you Boo.
If you Scott if you push on that

1764
00:49:55,830 --> 00:50:00,040
space.
Um, when he's about to orgasm,

1765
00:50:00,050 --> 00:50:03,900
it will slow his orgasm down and
you can take back control and

1766
00:50:03,910 --> 00:50:07,900
take him to another level.
So that's my little sensation.

1767
00:50:07,990 --> 00:50:10,600
Anything else you'll have to pay
me for to get the rest of my

1768
00:50:10,610 --> 00:50:14,730
tips and so my last tip for
fellatio is make sure that it's

1769
00:50:14,740 --> 00:50:19,540
wet and sloppy so I know that we
as ladies don't necessarily or

1770
00:50:19,550 --> 00:50:23,120
gentlemen don't necessarily want
to take like from pornography

1771
00:50:23,130 --> 00:50:24,900
videos.
It kind of, you know, not

1772
00:50:24,910 --> 00:50:27,560
everybody's down, but they, but
essentially.

1773
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:32,670
You want to make fellatio as wet
as possible.

1774
00:50:33,940 --> 00:50:37,650
Especially if he is a
heterosexual male, because your

1775
00:50:37,660 --> 00:50:41,380
vagina is wet, so you need to
make your mouth just as wet as

1776
00:50:41,390 --> 00:50:45,390
your vagina and so essentially
what happens is and I know this

1777
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:49,040
happens with.
Non heterosexual couples as

1778
00:50:49,050 --> 00:50:51,760
well.
When you're being fellatio a

1779
00:50:51,770 --> 00:50:55,070
love spit can build up mouth.
I don't know if that happened.

1780
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:58,090
You will see it hasn't happened
to me, but I don't know if that

1781
00:50:58,100 --> 00:51:01,480
happened.
So you essentially almost like

1782
00:51:01,490 --> 00:51:05,280
this rod in the back of your
House of just like bit just the

1783
00:51:05,810 --> 00:51:09,680
ladies.
Just open the side of your mouth

1784
00:51:09,690 --> 00:51:11,690
just a little bit and just let
it roll on out.

1785
00:51:11,700 --> 00:51:16,050
It's gonna feel gross as fuck.
You're gonna feel a little bit

1786
00:51:16,060 --> 00:51:19,030
slow when it happens, you just
gonna be like ohhhhh, my God, I

1787
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:22,650
just wanna like my face there's
out, grows you'll end up with

1788
00:51:22,660 --> 00:51:26,410
spit on your nose and shit and
on your chin may end up with it

1789
00:51:26,420 --> 00:51:31,580
on your chest.
But making that sensation as

1790
00:51:31,630 --> 00:51:38,760
moist as possible moves the
orgasm along so much faster,

1791
00:51:38,770 --> 00:51:42,510
because really.
We've all had a situation.

1792
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:46,690
I don't care if you are
heterosexual or homosexual, and

1793
00:51:46,700 --> 00:51:51,030
sexual or otherwise, where it
has gotten a little bit too dry.

1794
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:55,330
A little bit too quick and that.
There's not feel good for him,

1795
00:51:55,340 --> 00:51:56,890
but.
I'm just saying.

1796
00:51:59,100 --> 00:52:02,860
So those are my tips for
fellatio, for cunnilingus.

1797
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:07,500
I'm gonna rush right in here.
Suck on the clitoris.

1798
00:52:07,790 --> 00:52:10,940
I know people I know a lot of
men just and women don't

1799
00:52:10,950 --> 00:52:13,920
necessarily want to look at the
clitoris as a small penis, but

1800
00:52:13,930 --> 00:52:16,460
that's exactly what it is.
And when you suck on it just

1801
00:52:16,470 --> 00:52:19,390
right it will grow and it will
elongate so.

1802
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:23,470
Yes, suck on the clitoris.
Take your time.

1803
00:52:25,030 --> 00:52:29,160
Just a second.
You know, OK?

1804
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:39,610
Suck on you suck on the glitter.
The best review about Finding

1805
00:52:39,620 --> 00:52:44,760
Dory.
That's what winning Dory Sarah

1806
00:52:44,770 --> 00:52:50,340
and Bug.
She's making my deodorant ask me

1807
00:52:50,350 --> 00:52:57,250
about tortillas.
Real life real this is I lost my

1808
00:52:57,260 --> 00:53:01,890
water I'm all hot now like I was
just talking about clitorises

1809
00:53:01,900 --> 00:53:03,820
and then I had to explain to my
3 robe.

1810
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:08,640
Yes, OK, so take your time and
enjoy the vagina.

1811
00:53:09,500 --> 00:53:13,170
And it's it's eating pussy is
is.

1812
00:53:17,590 --> 00:53:20,440
I would say we just got a
comment that I said in the chat.

1813
00:53:20,450 --> 00:53:23,750
Oh my gosh, I can never watch
Dory with the same innocence so.

1814
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:27,430
That's what's clitoris, clitoris
and peas.

1815
00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:32,440
Yes, best thing ever tacos and
eating closely as a woman pussy

1816
00:53:32,450 --> 00:53:36,880
who enjoys her pussy and tacos.
I say that's the best night ever

1817
00:53:37,050 --> 00:53:40,960
go with that too.
OK, so take your time you

1818
00:53:40,970 --> 00:53:42,920
didn't.
Pussy is a marathon.

1819
00:53:42,930 --> 00:53:45,590
It's not a Sprint.
It is not something that it's

1820
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:49,620
not the same like sucking Dick.
It's not like a get through it

1821
00:53:49,630 --> 00:53:51,160
quickly.
Not saying that you should move

1822
00:53:51,170 --> 00:53:54,580
through sucking Dick quickly,
but eating pussy is really truly

1823
00:53:54,590 --> 00:53:57,180
a marathon.
We have like 50 millions in

1824
00:53:57,510 --> 00:54:01,360
nerve endings in our vagina and
we want to fill them all at the

1825
00:54:01,370 --> 00:54:03,840
same time.
So take your time OK.

1826
00:54:04,990 --> 00:54:09,640
Finding the G spot.
It's real gentlemen, ladies.

1827
00:54:10,030 --> 00:54:13,120
It's so you wanna take either
your first two fingers or your

1828
00:54:13,130 --> 00:54:17,160
two metal fingers you wanna
stick your fingers into the

1829
00:54:17,430 --> 00:54:22,080
vaginal opening.
And the G spot feels different

1830
00:54:22,090 --> 00:54:25,240
than the rest of the vagina.
So the rest of the vagina is

1831
00:54:25,250 --> 00:54:29,120
very smooth and the G spot is
ribbed.

1832
00:54:30,450 --> 00:54:34,050
It feels like a ribbed condom.
You can tell the difference if

1833
00:54:34,060 --> 00:54:35,960
you begin to put pressure on
that.

1834
00:54:35,970 --> 00:54:40,780
If you begin to, you just do
this movement of the come hit

1835
00:54:40,790 --> 00:54:42,960
there.
It's easier with these two

1836
00:54:42,970 --> 00:54:45,320
fingers versus these two
fingers, but you get better

1837
00:54:45,330 --> 00:54:47,260
stability with these two fingers
versus them.

1838
00:54:48,500 --> 00:54:53,090
If you just tell her to come
here and just, you know, just

1839
00:54:53,100 --> 00:54:58,170
coax the coax, the orgasm out of
her and while sucking on the

1840
00:54:58,180 --> 00:55:00,160
clitoris, she probably will
squirt.

1841
00:55:00,980 --> 00:55:03,690
OK, give attention to the entire
vagina.

1842
00:55:04,580 --> 00:55:08,450
The outer labia, the inner
labia, the clitoris, the the

1843
00:55:08,460 --> 00:55:13,820
folds and skin, the entire
space, the entire space, the

1844
00:55:13,830 --> 00:55:17,620
vaginal opening down below it,
just everything.

1845
00:55:17,630 --> 00:55:21,610
So everything we have nerve
endings, they make us happy yet.

1846
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:25,090
Eating good pussy would cook
breakfast in the morning.

1847
00:55:27,070 --> 00:55:31,320
OK, um play close incision to
how she's moving.

1848
00:55:32,970 --> 00:55:37,720
Um?
If she if you, if you're sucking

1849
00:55:37,730 --> 00:55:41,240
on her clitoris and she pulls
back and she jumps, that jump

1850
00:55:41,250 --> 00:55:44,700
may be out of pain and it may be
out of pleasure so so make sure

1851
00:55:44,710 --> 00:55:46,140
that you're paying attention to
that.

1852
00:55:46,490 --> 00:55:50,260
Make sure you pay attention to
whether her legs are shaking or

1853
00:55:50,270 --> 00:55:54,700
she's pushing your head away or
her body arcs in a painful type

1854
00:55:54,710 --> 00:55:58,330
way.
If you pay attention to all of

1855
00:55:58,340 --> 00:56:00,750
that at the same time while
you're giving.

1856
00:56:02,470 --> 00:56:06,570
Oral stimulation to a woman.
Because we have so many nerve

1857
00:56:06,580 --> 00:56:09,010
endings.
It can be painful.

1858
00:56:09,020 --> 00:56:10,870
It can be pleasurable.
It can be both.

1859
00:56:11,090 --> 00:56:16,930
So also asking questions if she
moans, paying attention to where

1860
00:56:16,940 --> 00:56:19,700
her hand moves, paying attention
to what she's saying.

1861
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:21,930
You literally have to be a
multitasker.

1862
00:56:21,940 --> 00:56:25,420
And I know that may be difficult
for some people to do, but

1863
00:56:25,430 --> 00:56:29,390
essentially that's what you.
So yeah, those are my son

1864
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:32,590
cunnilingus, Leggio, and the
five things I learned from being

1865
00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:37,410
an escort.
There you go, there you have it

1866
00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:41,450
beautiful so and and I would
invite everyone to use all the

1867
00:56:41,460 --> 00:56:45,290
tips shared to the end.
Don't necessarily take on, you

1868
00:56:45,300 --> 00:56:48,880
know, carrying your shame and
not feeling your emotions.

1869
00:56:48,890 --> 00:56:50,710
Those aren't tips to live your
life by.

1870
00:56:53,210 --> 00:56:58,240
Exactly.
You know I was going to say that

1871
00:56:58,250 --> 00:57:03,980
this is any anybody that knows
me if this tonight they learned

1872
00:57:03,990 --> 00:57:08,000
a few more things about me and
what parts of the conversation I

1873
00:57:08,010 --> 00:57:11,220
won't go to.
So yeah, that's why I smartly

1874
00:57:11,230 --> 00:57:12,800
muted myself a lot more than
normal.

1875
00:57:14,570 --> 00:57:19,230
You wouldn't ever run with this.
I have no problem being fully

1876
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:24,950
out there fully off my Dick, so
it's been fun for sure.

1877
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:30,150
Like again, I diva.
I love your your openness, your

1878
00:57:30,160 --> 00:57:32,320
honesty.
You're willing to live naked.

1879
00:57:32,370 --> 00:57:35,920
Putting it all out there again,
we we we appreciate it.

1880
00:57:35,930 --> 00:57:37,780
I know you've had a lot of
people here tonight.

1881
00:57:37,790 --> 00:57:40,100
Live we have a lot of people
listening to this till the end

1882
00:57:40,110 --> 00:57:42,460
of time.
You utilising your tips to

1883
00:57:42,470 --> 00:57:47,210
better their lives.
Yes and and and I'm glad to

1884
00:57:47,220 --> 00:57:51,710
share because there's why you
have a lot of people who are sex

1885
00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:53,560
positive.
You don't have a lot of people

1886
00:57:53,570 --> 00:57:57,580
who are.
Really just being honest about

1887
00:57:57,590 --> 00:58:01,950
it like this is just what it is.
Fuck you if you feel some type

1888
00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:06,060
of way about it like this is me.
This is what I enjoy and this is

1889
00:58:06,070 --> 00:58:08,120
my life.
I'm not being anybody other than

1890
00:58:08,130 --> 00:58:10,040
who I am.
This is an act.

1891
00:58:10,390 --> 00:58:13,080
This is literally what I do and
talk about every day.

1892
00:58:13,730 --> 00:58:17,960
And.
Yeah, I'm glad to share.

1893
00:58:18,430 --> 00:58:21,960
I know that this is my gift and
I've embraced it wholeheartedly

1894
00:58:22,530 --> 00:58:25,700
and I have people in my life who
support me and embrace me

1895
00:58:25,710 --> 00:58:29,490
exactly the way that I.
Awesome and so.

1896
00:58:29,500 --> 00:58:31,800
What's the best way for people
to get in touch with you if they

1897
00:58:31,810 --> 00:58:34,320
want to work with you?
Find out your other offerings

1898
00:58:34,330 --> 00:58:36,870
like that.
Well, you can find me on my

1899
00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:38,930
personal Facebook page.
Diva Logan.

1900
00:58:39,580 --> 00:58:44,330
I don't think my profile picture
is of me and it says diva means

1901
00:58:44,340 --> 00:58:46,830
the divine one.
So find me there.

1902
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:50,410
You can find me on the vixen
goddess Steve Logan, the Vixen

1903
00:58:50,420 --> 00:58:54,570
goddess, my.
Business page on Facebook.

1904
00:58:54,940 --> 00:58:57,680
You can find me on Instagram at
Diva, the goddess.

1905
00:58:57,690 --> 00:59:00,270
You can find me on Twitter at
Viva the goddess.

1906
00:59:01,830 --> 00:59:05,020
And I'm redoing my website my I
haven't had a chance to really

1907
00:59:05,030 --> 00:59:08,640
get in there and jump in there
and really rework it, but I will

1908
00:59:08,650 --> 00:59:11,040
be launching, relaunching my
website.

1909
00:59:12,610 --> 00:59:17,970
And also I'm doing a brand new
boot camp starting tomorrow.

1910
00:59:19,010 --> 00:59:22,090
The Vixen goddess camp.
It's going to start on the 27th

1911
00:59:22,100 --> 00:59:25,170
of this.
So ladies if you are ready to.

1912
00:59:26,380 --> 00:59:29,370
Be that vixen goddess.
I'm gonna take you really fast

1913
00:59:29,380 --> 00:59:32,090
really quickly.
It will be something that will

1914
00:59:32,100 --> 00:59:36,560
be ongoing.
So yeah, now you can find me

1915
00:59:36,890 --> 00:59:39,070
right and will people people
interested in the boot camp.

1916
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:42,360
Is that information on Facebook?
Yes, that information will be on

1917
00:59:42,370 --> 00:59:44,060
Facebook.
I will be giving all that

1918
00:59:44,070 --> 00:59:46,860
information tomorrow, but
essentially it's four weeks.

1919
00:59:46,910 --> 00:59:50,240
We'll be covering seduction,
sexuality.

1920
00:59:51,210 --> 00:59:54,400
Making it your own and then
applying it to your life.

1921
00:59:54,590 --> 00:59:58,240
So whether you're married,
whether you are single, whether

1922
00:59:58,250 --> 01:00:00,520
you're dating, whether you just
have a boyfriend.

1923
01:00:01,470 --> 01:00:04,320
Any woman can take this.
I do only have 5 spots available

1924
01:00:04,330 --> 01:00:07,720
for this first time, but you
know it will be an ongoing

1925
01:00:07,770 --> 01:00:09,500
thing.
This is not just something that

1926
01:00:09,510 --> 01:00:11,300
I'll be doing.
One awesome awesome.

1927
01:00:12,170 --> 01:00:14,120
Well, thanks again for joining
us.

1928
01:00:14,130 --> 01:00:15,860
You know, we've we've had guests
return.

1929
01:00:15,870 --> 01:00:18,340
We've never had a guest return.
It's quickly as we had your

1930
01:00:18,350 --> 01:00:20,520
return.
So I, I think you know Andy,

1931
01:00:20,530 --> 01:00:22,520
yes, you are.
You surely are.

1932
01:00:22,530 --> 01:00:26,420
Yeah, I think you had a lot of a
lot of head spinning and now we

1933
01:00:26,530 --> 01:00:30,680
have more ways to spin heads.
She's made me keep falling in

1934
01:00:30,690 --> 01:00:33,140
love with her over and over and
over again.

1935
01:00:33,150 --> 01:00:37,060
So when a gay man falls in love
with you, you just have to be

1936
01:00:37,070 --> 01:00:39,900
like you know what I'm on to
something here.

1937
01:00:40,470 --> 01:00:43,070
Yes you are.
In love with you too.

1938
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:45,350
Secretly I'd be trying to hide
my love.

1939
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:48,890
I haven't shown you exactly how
much in love with you I am

1940
01:00:48,900 --> 01:00:52,070
because you know, I respect
relationships and shit, but I

1941
01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:53,910
just want to say the feeling is
mutual.

1942
01:00:56,380 --> 01:00:59,170
And he just got home too.
So I had a guy quickly go close

1943
01:00:59,180 --> 01:01:01,850
the door because like making a
bunch of racket there in the in

1944
01:01:01,860 --> 01:01:04,760
the kitchen.
Well, cool again.

1945
01:01:04,770 --> 01:01:07,860
I was recondite everyone to to
take these tips to heart, put

1946
01:01:07,870 --> 01:01:11,940
them into action, cheque out the
boot camp, follow the links, and

1947
01:01:11,950 --> 01:01:14,100
if you're listening to this
podcast, this might be one you

1948
01:01:14,110 --> 01:01:17,080
wanna watch.
So cheque with the video.

1949
01:01:17,090 --> 01:01:21,000
If you've been a little lost.
Definitely, especially with the

1950
01:01:21,010 --> 01:01:25,370
whole kid experiment.
So real men feel will be live

1951
01:01:25,380 --> 01:01:28,480
again next Tuesday, February
21st, 8:00 PM Eastern.

1952
01:01:28,490 --> 01:01:31,710
We're gonna be joined by a good
friend of Apio and mine and

1953
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:34,340
she's coming to us from down
under and actually kicking off

1954
01:01:34,350 --> 01:01:36,040
it.
We have a series of a few Aussie

1955
01:01:36,050 --> 01:01:38,550
guests showing up in the next
few weeks, but we're going to be

1956
01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:42,190
joined by Amanda Foy, the
emotional strength trainer she

1957
01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:45,450
promised to be as keen as
mustard, so I hope that

1958
01:01:45,540 --> 01:01:49,390
something good I'm not familiar
with that it's nausea term, I'm

1959
01:01:49,400 --> 01:01:53,130
sure so, but she's going to
share the anatomy of awareness.

1960
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:57,150
And again, we talked about many
times that kind of any change

1961
01:01:57,160 --> 01:01:58,540
you want to make.
Starts with awareness.

1962
01:01:58,550 --> 01:02:01,920
So yes, I like that I will be
paying attention.

1963
01:02:01,930 --> 01:02:04,070
I will be tuning in for that
one.

1964
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:09,810
Beautiful sound sexy.
I bet you make anything you turn

1965
01:02:09,820 --> 01:02:11,310
into sexy diva, but you know
what?

1966
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:13,870
I can turn anything into a
sexual experience and break it

1967
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:18,360
down in a sexual way, yes.
We'll have to talk again

1968
01:02:18,370 --> 01:02:22,900
offline, yes.
Alright, and on that note, we'll

1969
01:02:22,940 --> 01:02:28,000
officially say goodbye and bring
an end Valentine's Day.

1970
01:02:28,010 --> 01:02:29,940
Have a great whenever you listen
to this week.

1971
01:02:30,870 --> 01:02:32,960
Yes?
Oh lick something.

1972
01:02:34,220 --> 01:02:38,850
Eat something like whatever.
Alright, have a great night.

1973
01:02:39,320 --> 01:02:44,500
Goodnight guys bye.
Thank you for listening to real

1974
01:02:44,510 --> 01:02:48,880
men feel until next time visit
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1975
01:02:48,930 --> 01:02:51,850
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1976
01:02:51,860 --> 01:02:54,600
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1977
01:02:54,610 --> 01:02:59,120
review on iTunes, Google Play or
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1978
01:02:59,130 --> 01:03:01,640
real men feel.
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1979
01:03:01,650 --> 01:03:06,340
realmenfield@gmail.com.
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1980
01:03:06,350 --> 01:03:11,500
the andygrant.com and Appio
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