Videos

Aug. 30, 2024

Navigating Nice Guy Recovery | Insights from Jason Lange

Overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome and Embracing Authenticity Join host Andy Grant on Real Men Feel as he dives deep into a robust conversation with Jason Lange, a men's embodiment coach and certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach. Discover how 'nice guys' are created in childhood, the significance of men's…

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Aug. 23, 2024

Unlocking Ancestral Healing | African Ancient Quantum Medicine with Gao Motsemme

Generational Healing and Integrating Masculine and Feminine Energies with Gao Motsemme In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Gao Motsemme, a psychic surgeon and embodiment queen dedicated to helping individuals break free from patterns of generational toxic relationships. Gao discusses her journey into ancestral healing, energy…

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Aug. 16, 2024

Understanding the Flavors of Emotions | The Emotion Chef, Kim Korte

Exploring Emotional Awareness and Management with Kim Korte In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant interviews Kim Korte, a sensory perception and emotion management strategist. Kim discusses her unique approach to understanding emotions through food metaphors, and the importance of experiencing and expressing all emotions. She dives…

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Aug. 9, 2024

Men’s Emotional Leadership Development with Owen Marcus | Emotional Intelligence and Resilience

Men's Emotional Resilience: A Path to Personal and Professional Success with Owen Marcus Host Andy Grant engages in a compelling conversation with Owen Marcus, a pioneering coach and author, on the essential role of emotional physiology and attachment theory in men's emotional well-being. They explore somatic therapies like Rolfing, polyvagal…

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Aug. 3, 2024

How Therapy Fails Men | Importance of Safety, Respect, and Love

Overcoming Therapy's Shortcomings for Men with Psychotherapist Marc Azoulay Join host Andy Grant in a thought-provoking episode of Real Men Feel, featuring guest Marc Azoulay, a psychotherapist and founder of Men's Therapy Online. Dive into the conversation about how therapy can often fail men, the importance of initiations and rituals,…

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July 26, 2024

Leadership In Chaotic Times | Principles of Harmonic Leadership with James Greenshields

"Lots of people are seeing the world in a negative way right now. So many people are waiting for someone else to come along and fix it." My returning guest today is James Greenshields. James is a husband of over 20 years and an honored father of two amazing women;…

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July 19, 2024

Regular Guy Chat with Jake | Sharing Your Voice

"It's amazing to love people every day as a job." A random feature of Real Men Feel is Regular Guy Chats. That is when I converse with an average dude who has nothing to promote but a willingness to share. It's been a year and a half since my last…

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July 12, 2024

Breaking the Stigma of Mental Health | Men Hurt and Can Heal

Sometimes, the bravest thing you can do is ask for help. Men face a stigma about that, too. My guest today is Laverne Friesen. He is a former first responder who is passionate about raising awareness around the stigma of mental health after experiencing his own mental health crisis. Now,…

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June 29, 2024

How Do You Speak to Yourself? | Words Matter - Real Men Feel 309

Today, we are exploring the power of words, especially the words we use when talking to ourselves. I'm going to share some tips on moving from belittling language to empowering phrases that you can use in your self-dialogue and conversations with others. One of my favorite things about coaching clients…

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June 21, 2024

Downsizing Part 1 | The Great Shedding of Stuff

Watch as I share some of my downsizing journey and give a tour of my home. We are preparing to move to a house 2,000 square feet smaller than the one we've lived in for the past 21 years. Listen in to discover how my father's sharing of Buddism made…

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June 16, 2024

Positive Male Role Models | Who Taught You How To Be A Man?

Earlier today, I was part of a Let's Talk Fabulous panel discussing positive male role models (https://www.youtube.com/live/5ef7AWjYk9k?si=k08zodgdryq0EPnF ). I enjoyed that conversation so much that I want to share more in a motor-mouth 10-minute brain dump. Topics Include What male role models did you see/have while growing up? What do…

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June 7, 2024

What Is Failure? | More Than You Think

I've often called myself a failure. But why? Why does something not turning out the way I wanted it to become my identity? It all comes down to the ego. Today, I explore definitions and perceptions of failure and ways to reframe it. Failure can be a valuable lesson. We…

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May 29, 2024

Picking Up The Pieces | Life After Depression

Today, I share many of the subjects I've been journaling about in the last few days. Subjects including past patterns, current patterns that I haven't figured out yet, and challenges of all-or-nothing thinking. I open up about my self-judgment, spiritual experiences, psych meds, and reactions to being called a positive…

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May 25, 2024

Mental Health Awareness Month | Suicidal Procrastination

WARNING: This episode discusses suicidal thoughts and attempts. If you are in a crisis, do not listen to this. Please call or text 988 to be connected to trained counselors who are part of the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline network. If you are outside of the US, please search for…

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June 2, 2023

Did Your Partner Betray You? | Recovering From Betrayal Part 2

Today is part 2 of Recovering From Betrayal, focusing on a man betrayed by his wife. My returning guest, Vanessa Cardenas, is your trusted advisor for Betrayal and Transformation. Vanessa is a highly experienced C-Suite Executive, Mentor, Coach, and Speaker with a degree in Industrial Psychology. She is also the…

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May 12, 2023

Can You Enjoy Time Alone? | Growth & Resistance

If you notice today's episode looking and sounding different, I'm on the road and don't have my usual setup. Are you comfortable being alone? Can you enjoy your own company? Often men will feel uncomfortable emotions if they are alone and in silence. I am an only child, so I'm…

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May 5, 2023

Did You Betray Your Partner? | Recovering From Betrayal Part 1

Since men are human, they can make mistakes. One aspect of life we make mistakes in is our relationships. Since so many studies show that a strong prediction of happiness and longevity is the quality of our relationships, betraying our partner is a significant issue. Google says that nearly half…

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April 28, 2023

Cultural Appropriation in the Mankind Project | Real or Imagined?

Last Sunday, a man reached out to the Real Men Feel page on Facebook and said - I would like to appear on your show and debate "cultural appropriation in MKP." That man, B Crittenden Freeman, is my guest today. Crittenden has been a member of the ManKind Project for…

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April 21, 2023

Tapping Into The Strength of Men | The Power of Choice

I love to give any man who is being of service a platform to share his message. I met Dustin Bakker in an online program and was immediately impressed by his willingness to be authentic and vulnerable and his desire to help other men. After losing his sense of happiness,…

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April 14, 2023

Connecting Through Trauma | Life-Changing Stories

When life gets hard, a lot of men withdraw. They talk less. In the face of a health challenge for yourself or a loved one, you might be much more willing to discuss logistics and tasks than the emotional impact. My guest today is not most men. He believes in…

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April 7, 2023

Returning to the New Warrior Training Adventure | ManKind Project's NWTA

Last weekend I was in Connecticut to staff the New Warrior Training Adventure weekend, a weekend-long rite of passage for men from the ManKind Project. This was the first NWTA in New England in three years, thanks to Covid. I was supposed to staff the weekend last October, but all…

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March 31, 2023

Rebuilding Yourself | Being The Best Man You Can Be

We are early in Spring, a time of renewal, growth, and, ideally, flourishing. I know that in my life, I've often had to renew, prune my life, weed out the shit in my mind, and reinvent myself to be the best man I can be. My guest, Teddy Woolsey, took…

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March 24, 2023

When Boys Become Boys | Messages and Development of Masculinity

Real Men Feel invites you to redefine masculinity in today's world. The only definition of masculinity that matters is yours. We remind men that they are human beings and have the right to experience and express all of their emotions. One of the most mentioned books among Real Men Feel's…

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March 17, 2023

Living WildFit | Navigating Fake Food and Deceptive Marketing

One of the most emotional relationships many of us have is with food, which is often mirrored in a love/hate relationship with our bodies. The best thing I did for my physical health last year was a program called WildFit. In late 2021, I went into a prolonged depression and…

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