Feb. 6, 2026

Discover Your Animal Archetype: The Power of Personality

Discover Your Animal Archetype: The Power of Personality

Discover Your Animal Archetype: The Power of Personality Ep 390, February 6, 2026

Discovering Who You Really Are: A Conversation with Eric Gee

In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with Eric Gee, a published author, life and writing coach who has developed a unique personality typing system based on animal archetypes. Eric explains how his system helps people understand themselves in a practical way, moving beyond superficial traits to core motivations. He shares insights on the different personality types, how they manifest in individuals, and the importance of living in alignment with one's true self.
They discuss the stereotypes and social programming men face, the benefits of self-awareness, and how understanding one's personality can improve relationships and career choices. Eric also touches on the application of his system in education and storytelling.

The Power of Animal Archetypes

Eric Gee has developed a unique personality typing system based on animal archetypes, differentiating from traditional personality models. As he explains, using animals makes personality types easy to remember and relate to—think of a clever fox or a wise owl. This system encourages self-discovery, helping people make more informed career and relationship choices by understanding their natural wiring and inclinations.

Beyond the Surface: Understanding Personality

Eric challenges the traditional models that often categorize people by visible traits like introversion or extroversion, calling them superficial. His focus is on understanding the underlying motivations. For instance, according to Eric, what makes someone alternately talkative or shy has deeper roots than mere surface behavior.

A Society of Stags and Sharks

A critical point of discussion was the societal pressure on men to assume certain roles, often symbolized by Eric’s “stag” archetype. A stag, representing traditional masculinity—structured, responsible, and authoritative—is what many men feel pressured to embody. Alternatively, figures like “sharks” represent the action heroes in the collective psyche. Yet, Eric reveals that all personality types have their inherent strengths and weaknesses.

Finding Your Animal Type

For those of us curious about aligning better with our natural selves, Eric advises understanding both our own personalities and those of those around us, particularly parents and authority figures who shape initial self-perceptions. His book, The Power of Personality, offers guidance on recognizing your personality type and developing skills that complement it without losing sight of your true self.

Relationships Through the Lens of Personality Types

An interesting aspect Eric promises to explore in the future is how animal types interact in relationships. While every pairing has potential, understanding and respecting personality differences is crucial for harmony and growth together.

Preserving the True Voice

A major theme of the episode was maintaining one’s authentic voice amidst societal pressures. Eric encourages men to first find their true selves, separate from societal roles, to genuinely express who they are. This self-knowledge is pivotal in deflecting external pressures to conform.

Empowering the Individual

Ultimately, Eric Gee’s work does not seek to change who we are but to deepen our understanding of our true selves. This empowers individuals to live authentically and make choices that align with their intrinsic nature—culminating in a fulfilling life, personally and professionally.
For listeners seeking more, Eric’s book and personality test are valuable tools. The Power of Personality uncovers the vast potential within us by understanding our unique expression and that of those around us, leading to personal growth and enriched relationships.

Final Thoughts

Andy Grant closes the episode with a powerful reminder: Change begins with awareness. Realizing when you are out of alignment with your true self is the first step to genuine transformation. As Eric aptly puts it, understanding oneself, and in turn understanding others, sets us on a path not just of change, but of profound empowerment. If this conversation resonates with you, take a moment to reflect—awareness is indeed where all change begins.

Join the Conversation

For those wanting to continue this journey of self-discovery, joining Andy’s free online community, Authentic AF, offers a platform for engaging conversations about identity, emotions, and living true to oneself. Visit realmenfeel.org/group for more information.

Connect with Eric

Resources

Power of Personality: Unlock the Secrets to Understanding Everyone in Your Life by Eric Gee — https://amzn.to/3Zq3eky

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