Dec. 12, 2025

Embracing Vulnerability: What More Men Should Know

Embracing Vulnerability: What More Men Should Know

Embracing Vulnerability: What More Men Should Know Ep 383, December 12, 2025

17 Experts Reveal What They Wish More Men Knew

In this unique clip show episode of 'Real Men Feel,' host Andy Grant shares insights from 17 past guests who answer one simple but profound question: 'What do you wish more men knew?' The responses emphasize themes of vulnerability, self-love, emotional resilience, and the misconception that strength and vulnerability are opposites.
Guests share heartfelt advice, including the importance of emotional expression, understanding one's worth beyond productivity, seeking help, and the power of being true to oneself. The episode aims to encourage men to embrace their full humanity and join a supportive community.

A Heartfelt Message from Alain

Alain Dumonceaux underscores a profound truth: “I wish more men knew that people love you.” Often, as boys grow and step away from the nurturing embrace of their fathers, society emphasizes resilience over affection. Alain urges men to recognize their intrinsic value and purpose and to embrace the nurturing side of their humanity.

The Courage to Love and Be Vulnerable: Insights from Coach Brian Parana

Brian Parana echoes a powerful sentiment—that self-love and vulnerability are not weaknesses but strengths. Men often close themselves off, unsure how to express their emotions. Coach Brian encourages openness as a crucial step toward authentic living.

Dawud F. Wallace and the Geometry of Vulnerability

In a lighthearted yet profound way, Dawud F. Wallace jokes about wishing men understood geometry. Yet, he pivots to a deeper truth about life: being vulnerable and accountable is vital. Men must surround themselves with those who respect their journey and growth.

Karen Bigman’s Open Invitation to Learn

Karen Bigman from the “Taboo to Truth Podcast” advocates for the openness to admit what we don’t know. She highlights the importance of learning—especially in relationships—beyond the traditional scripts taught to heterosexual men, advocating for genuine pleasure and connection.

Aaron Gambel’s Mantra: Feel More, Fix Less

Aaron Gambel shares his guiding principle: “Get out of your head and into your heart.” Men are often fixers, but learning to feel—rather than always fix—can lead to more authentic connections.

Alessandro Frosali: You’re Not Alone

Alessandro Frosali wishes men realized they’re not alone in their struggles. Sharing pain not only unburdens individuals but also fosters deeper connections with other men who are holding the same emotional weight.

The Journey Back to Self with Kelley Gulledge

Kelley Gulledge offers hope, reminding men it is “never too late to do the right thing.” The idea of repentance need not be scary; it’s about creating opportunities for positive change until the last breath.

The Strength of Vulnerability: Sterlin Mosley

Sterlin Mosley speaks to the heart of vulnerability, challenging the notion that it signifies weakness. Understanding vulnerability can open doors to self-acceptance and richer interpersonal relationships.

Kendra Dahlstrom on the Value of Being

Kendra Dahlstrom shares that worth isn’t solely tied to productivity or masculinity but lies in who you are as a human. Vulnerability, when used deliberately, can greatly enhance both personal and professional relationships.

Embrace Your Emotions: Kevin Palmieri

Kevin Palmieri encourages men to cry more and seek help, stressing it’s not a sign of weakness but a bid for connection. Understanding this distinction can transform how men interact and rely on their partners.

Robert Nebergall on Emotional Resilience

Robert Nebergall dismantles the belief that emotional struggle equates to weakness. Instead, wrestling with and embracing emotions is key to developing emotional resilience and maturity.

The Romantic Valor of Kerry Blaser

Kerry Blaser’s message to men is to not settle. She implores them to embrace their worth and create lives rich in self-love and purposeful relationships.

Eugene Z. Bertrand: Vulnerability as Strength

Eugene Z. Bertrand reiterates the transformative power of vulnerability. Tuning into one’s masculinity while embracing vulnerability can be a profound personal evolution.

Embracing Humanity with Alexandra Velez

Alexandra Velez invites men to cherish and be cherished in their full humanity. Safe, loving relationships foster understanding and compassion, bridging gaps in communication and emotion.

Louis Stockley’s Graceful Wisdom

Louis Stockley advises men not to be hard on themselves, recognizing the journey lives in trial and learning from past generations. Offering oneself grace is a path to personal growth and connection.

Harnessing Power with Craig Perra

Craig Perra emphasizes the importance of prioritizing sexual health. Understanding the profound impact of sexual energy on physical, mental, and spiritual health is crucial for true empowerment and responsibility.

The Imperfect Road to Perfection: Ethan Getchell

Ethan Getchell reminds men they don’t have to be perfect or do it alone. Embracing imperfections and the notion that nobody has it all figured out can liberate men from unrealistic expectations.

Conclusion

As these voices remind us, strength and vulnerability aren’t opposites. They’re partners in the masculine journey toward authenticity and fulfillment.
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