Episodes

No Competition, Just Growth: The Lez Bro's Take on Men's Work
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Dec. 19, 2025

No Competition, Just Growth: The Lez Bro's Take on Men's Work

Breaking Down Barriers with the LezBro In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with Aastha Lal, a lesbian coach who is transforming men's relationships by providing a safe, non-competitive, and non-judgmental space for growth. Aastha shares her journey in creating the LezBro, a coaching practice where men can explore vulnerability, emotional honesty, and mindfulness. They discuss common challenges men face, such as reactivity and the need for connection, and highlight practical s...
Guest: Aastha Lal
Embracing Vulnerability: What More Men Should Know
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Dec. 12, 2025

Embracing Vulnerability: What More Men Should Know

In this unique clip show, host Andy Grant of Real Men Feel compiles powerful, honest answers from 17 previous guests to one pivotal question: 'What do you wish more men knew?' These responses shed light on the significant themes of love, vulnerability, self-worth, and emotional resilience. From emphasizing the importance of self-love and accountability to advocating for better sexual health and emotional expression, these insights reveal a common thread—strength and vulnerability are not opposit...
Veteran Triumphs Over Silent Struggle: Winning The War After The War
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Dec. 5, 2025

Veteran Triumphs Over Silent Struggle: Winning The War After The War

From Silence to Strength: A Veteran's Journey In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant interviews Louis Stockley Jr., an army veteran, father, coach, and founder of Before 22. Louis shares his story of serving 17 years in military and federal service, facing emotional shutdowns, and nearly losing his family to his video game addiction. He discusses the pressures of masculinity, how the military shaped him, and the harrowing experiences of transitioning to civilian life. Louis also talks...
Breaking Out Of The Man Box: Betting On Yourself and Redefining Masculinity
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Nov. 28, 2025

Breaking Out Of The Man Box: Betting On Yourself and Redefining Masculinity

Breaking the Chains: Reframing Trauma In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with Eugene Z. Bertrand, a master of social work candidate at Columbia University, advocate for trauma-informed mental healthcare, and first-time author. Eugene discusses his journey of turning pain into purpose by reframing trauma as resilience and the significance of vulnerability for healing. Topics include dismantling myths and stigma around domestic violence, betting on oneself, the intersection of...
Hitting Life's Curveballs: Beating Crack Addiction and MS
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Nov. 21, 2025

Hitting Life's Curveballs: Beating Crack Addiction and MS

Overcoming Addiction and Adversity: The Kelley Gulledge Story In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant speaks with former professional baseball player Kelley Gulledge, who shares his powerful journey from battling crack cocaine addiction to achieving sobriety and overcoming multiple sclerosis. Kelley opens up about his struggles, the pivotal moments that led to his recovery, and the importance of faith, family, and perseverance. This inspirational conversation delves into the depths of ...
From Suicidal Despair to Shamanic Healing: Men as Mirrors
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Nov. 14, 2025

From Suicidal Despair to Shamanic Healing: Men as Mirrors

Transformational Healing: A Journey Through Trauma In this episode of 'Real Men Feel,' host Andy Grant engages in a profound conversation with Kerry Blaser, a mother, shaman, and author who has transformed her life from academic and corporate settings to profound healing work following her struggles with pain and trauma. Kerry shares her journey from a suicide attempt to embracing her psychic gifts and using them to heal herself and others. She discusses the critical role men, such as Andrew Tat...
Guest: Kerry Blaser
Stop Feeling Like a Fraud: Combatting Grief and Imposter Syndrome
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Nov. 7, 2025

Stop Feeling Like a Fraud: Combatting Grief and Imposter Syndrome

Facing Imposter Syndrome and Grief In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Alain Dumonceaux, founder of The Awakened Man, to discuss imposter syndrome and grief. Alain shares his personal journey of loss and self-discovery, including the death of his father-in-law and nearly losing his marriage. He explains how these experiences motivated him to create a supportive community for men to find purpose, power, and wholeness. Alain delves into the concept of awakening, the importan...
Healing from Sexual Compulsion: The Power of Mindful Habits
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Oct. 31, 2025

Healing from Sexual Compulsion: The Power of Mindful Habits

Craig Perra, a renowned expert in overcoming compulsive sexual behaviors, sex addiction, and porn addiction, discusses the profound impact of shame, the importance of leading all parts of oneself, and the necessity of creating healthy sexual habits.
Guest: Craig Perra
Unlocking Intimacy: Destroying Sex Myths After 50!
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Oct. 24, 2025

Unlocking Intimacy: Destroying Sex Myths After 50!

Embracing Sexuality and Aging with Karen Bigman In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Karen Bigman, the founder of Taboo to Truth. Together, they break down myths and stigmas surrounding sex and aging. Karen shares insights on how aging doesn't signify the end of desire and intimacy but can mark a new beginning. They discuss the differences in sexual changes for men and women as they age, the importance of communication in maintaining a healthy sex life, and the significance...
Guest: Karen Bigman
Growing Up Without A Dad Navigating the Father Wound and Building Self-Worth
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Oct. 17, 2025

Growing Up Without A Dad Navigating the Father Wound and Building Self-Worth

Healing the Father Wound: Kevin Palmieri's Journey to Self-Worth In this powerful episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Kevin Palmieri, founder and co-host of the Next Level University podcast. Kevin shares his transformative experience of meeting his father for the first time at age 27 and how it shaped his life. From dealing with imposter syndrome in his youth to overcoming rock bottom moments and contemplating suicide, Kevin's journey exemplifies resilience and personal growth. T...
Unlocking Emotional Literacy for Men: Barriers, Foundations, and Attachments
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Oct. 10, 2025

Unlocking Emotional Literacy for Men: Barriers, Foundations, and Attachments

Exploring Emotional Literacy and Attachment Styles In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant delves into the crucial topic of emotional literacy with guest Alexandra Velez, creator of Secure School. They discuss the importance of recognizing, naming, and navigating emotions as a foundation for emotional intelligence, and how these skills significantly impact personal and relational well-being. Alexandra provides insights into how early life experiences and societal norms shape emotional ...
Transforming Trauma and Preventing Male Suicide
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Oct. 3, 2025

Transforming Trauma and Preventing Male Suicide

Overcoming Trauma and Embracing Vulnerability In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant engages in a heartfelt conversation with Aaron Gambel, an impact-driven life coach and men's group facilitator. Aaron shares his personal journey through a pivotal moment that led him to prioritize his mental health and ultimately pursue a mission to lower male suicide rates. Drawing on his experiences with divorce and emotional healing, Aaron offers insightful commentary on rewriting one's story, fac...
Guest: Aaron Gambel
Understanding Narcissism: Beyond the Buzzwords
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Sept. 26, 2025

Understanding Narcissism: Beyond the Buzzwords

Unpacking Narcissism Real Men Feel host Andy Grant converses with Sterlin Mosley, a therapist, professor, and author specializing in relationships, attachment, and personality dynamics. The discussion delves into the complexities of narcissism, exploring what it truly means, how it manifests in both men and women, and its impact on relationships. Sterlin shares valuable insights on recognizing narcissistic traits, managing relationships with narcissists, and addressing one's own narcissistic ten...
The Selfless Man: Transforming Health and Leadership
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Sept. 19, 2025

The Selfless Man: Transforming Health and Leadership

Self-Care is Selfless In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant is joined by Coach Brian Parana, a health coach, husband, father of four, and former owner of a CrossFit gym. Brian emphasizes that the most selfless thing a man can do for his loved ones is to take better care of himself. Throughout their discussion, Brian shares his journey into fitness, insights on balancing self-care with family responsibilities, and the importance of community and accountability. The episode examines th...
Guest: Brian Parana
Boyhood to Manhood: Transforming Boy Behavior in Men
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Sept. 12, 2025

Boyhood to Manhood: Transforming Boy Behavior in Men

From Boyhood to True Manhood Real Men Feel host Andy Grant engages in an insightful conversation with Alessandro Frosali, a men's coach and host of the S-T-F-U-A-L podcast. Alessandro shares his transformational journey from hitting rock bottom in his marriage to reclaiming integrated manhood. The discussion explores the crucial differences between boyhood and manhood behaviors, the significance of rites of passage, and the importance of elder wisdom in modern life. Alessandro also highlights pr...
Firefighter Health Revolution: Breaking Fire Service Myths
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Sept. 5, 2025

Firefighter Health Revolution: Breaking Fire Service Myths

Transforming Firefighter Wellness Real Men Feel host Andy Grant converses with Robbie Nebergall, a veteran firefighter and founder of the Reclaim fitness program. Robbie discusses the physical and mental toll that the firefighting profession can take, breaking down the stigma surrounding mental health, and how his program aims to transform the health and well-being of firefighters. He addresses the cultural resistance to change within the fire service and underscores the importance of community,...
Vulnerability Is Strength: Break Free from the Man Box
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Aug. 29, 2025

Vulnerability Is Strength: Break Free from the Man Box

Embracing Vulnerability In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant speaks with Dawud Wallace, a speaker, entrepreneur, and advocate for emotional wellness rather than suppressing them, and advocates for creating safe spaces for men to share and support one another, especially among Black men. They discuss themes such as caregiving, grief, mental health, and masculinity. Dawud shares his personal experiences of caring for his sick mother from a young age, dealing with grief, and the import...
The Secret Struggles of Successful Men: From Isolation to Connection
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Aug. 22, 2025

The Secret Struggles of Successful Men: From Isolation to Connection

Exploring Vulnerability: Nick Jonsson on Executive Loneliness and Mental Health In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with Nick Jonsson, a TEDx speaker, bestselling author, and mental health advocate. Nick shares his personal struggles with loneliness and isolation despite outward success, his battle with alcoholism, and how hitting rock bottom led him to ask for help. They discuss the stigma around male vulnerability, the unique pressures facing high-achieving men, and practic...
Guest: Nick Jonsson
Why Vulnerability is the Key to Manhood
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Aug. 15, 2025

Why Vulnerability is the Key to Manhood

Embracing Vulnerability: A New Vision for Men's Mental Health In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes therapist, author, and speaker Ethan Getchell. After a personal tragedy with the suicide of his younger brother Austin, Ethan shifted his career to focus on men's mental health. He discusses the importance of vulnerability, the impact of digital relationships, the challenges young men face today, and the differences between therapy and coaching. Ethan also shares insights into...
The Scent of Emotional Wellness: Essential Oils for Men
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Aug. 8, 2025

The Scent of Emotional Wellness: Essential Oils for Men

Harnessing the Power of Essential Oils for Men's Wellness In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant is joined by Corinne L. Casazza, an international bestselling author and essential oils coach. They explore the benefits of essential oils as a tool for mental and emotional wellness. Corinne explains the origin of essential oils, their applications, and the effects they have on emotions and mood. She shares her journey with essential oils and offers practical tips on how men can incorpora...
Exploring Single Fatherhood and Vulnerability with 'Guys Night' Creators
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Aug. 1, 2025

Exploring Single Fatherhood and Vulnerability with 'Guys Night' Creators

The creative team behind the upcoming film 'Guys Night,' a heartfelt and nostalgic exploration of fatherhood, vulnerability, and masculinity, is inspired by growing up with a single dad in the 1980s.
A Father's Story of Mental Health, Loss, and Resilience
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July 25, 2025

A Father's Story of Mental Health, Loss, and Resilience

Chris Coulter shares his heartbreaking experience of losing his daughter Maddie to suicide and how he channeled his grief into creating the Mentor Well, an online mentoring service designed to provide emotional support to young people.
The Body and Bank Connection: Authentic Success and Growth
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July 18, 2025

The Body and Bank Connection: Authentic Success and Growth

Ritchie Nkana shares key insights into maintaining mental and physical well-being, preventing burnout, and achieving holistic success.
Understanding Stress and Inner Transformations: A Path from Fear to Love
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July 11, 2025

Understanding Stress and Inner Transformations: A Path from Fear to Love

Discovering Inner Peace: A Radical Approach to Stress with Dean Graves In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant is joined by Dean Graves, a spiritual philosopher, author, and coach, to delve into the complex phenomenon of stress. Together, they explore the deeper meanings of stress, why men experience it more intensely, and how to address it beyond mere coping mechanisms. Dean provides a unique perspective, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, authenticity, and emotional honest...
Guest: Dean Graves