Episodes

Surviving Abuse: Patrick Leary's Four-Year Legal Battle and Advocacy for Male Victims In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with Patrick Leary, a college professor, coach, and domestic violence survivor. Patrick shares his harrowing experience of enduring false charges, navigating the legal system, and rebuilding his life after years of abuse from his former partner. Throughout the conversation, Patrick discusses the systemic challenges men face when falsely accused, the emo...

Healing Through Grief: Jason Tuttle's Journey of Love and Loss In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes guest Jason Tuttle, a former stay-at-home parent who shares his deeply personal journey of grief and healing after the loss of his special needs son, Zachary. Jason discusses the challenges he faced as a father caring for two children with significant medical issues, how their unexpected loss impacted his life, and the creation of 'Letters to Zachary' as a way to express his ...

The Journey from Psychedelic Use to Self-Love: Seth Pearson's Insightful Story In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant interviews Seth Pearson, a guide and healer in the lineage of King Salomon. Seth shares his evolving journey with psychedelics, initially using them for personal growth and deeper understanding, to eventually adopting the teachings of the Modern Mystery School for holistic inner peace and self-love. They discuss the pros and cons of psychedelic use, the impact on me...

Exploring Psychedelics: Healing, Integration, and Personal Growth with Matt Zeman In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant is joined by Matt Zeman, a bestselling author and expert in psychedelics, to discuss the transformative power of these substances. The conversation delves into Matt's journey into the world of psychedelics, their potential benefits for mental health, particularly for veterans, and the differentiation between tripping for fun and using psychedelics as a therapeutic t...

Healing Masculinity and Femininity: A Conversation with Lux Vivens In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant speaks with Lux Vivens, a healer, health chef, artist, and ritual master. They discuss Lux's views on modern masculinity and femininity, the societal pressures men face, and the misconceptions both genders have about each other. Lux shares insights on emotional intelligence, authenticity, and the importance of service. She also delves into her work with remothering and sensual ...

From Pastor to Porn Star: Navigating Faith, Stigma, and Performance Anxiety with Doc Chocolate In this episode of 'Real Men Feel,' host Andy Grant welcomes Doc Chocolate, a former pastor turned porn star who is now a coach and content creator in the adult industry. Doc shares his unconventional journey, from his pastorship in his 20s to embracing the swinging lifestyle and entering the porn industry. The conversation delves deep into his struggles with reconciling his faith, overcoming stigma, a...

The Journey to Emotional Healing with Patrick Doyle In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant interviews Patrick Doyle, a bestselling author and expert in emotional abuse recovery, addiction counseling, and spiritual leadership. Patrick shares his profound personal experiences with trauma, abuse, and addiction, which led him to help others on their paths to healing. The discussion touches on the dangers of avoiding pain, the impact of childhood trauma on emotional expression, the comp...

Embracing the True Meaning of Showing Up with Marcy Axelrod How Are You Showing Up? In this episode of Real Men Feel, Andy Grant hosts Marcy Axelrod, a best-selling author and TEDx speaker, who delves into the true essence of 'showing up.' Marcy explains that showing up isn't just about being present but a deeper existential experience influenced by our beliefs, thoughts, and attention systems. They discuss the three roles we habitually play—self, situational, and societal—and how truly showi...

Balancing Sports, Academics, and Mental Health In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant interviews Walker Ferguson, a senior at Wake Forest University majoring in economics and minoring in communications. Walker is a former football player and co-founder of Ascend, a meditation and wellness app. They discuss Walker's experience balancing sports, academics, and entrepreneurship and how personal struggles led to the creation of the app. The conversation touches on the stigma around men...

Mastering Emotional Avoidance with Dr. Michelle Maidenberg In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Dr. Michelle Maidenberg, a New York-based therapist and author of 'Ace Your Life: Unleash Your Best Self and Live the Life You Want.' They delve into a master class on emotional avoidance, discussing why people engage in it and how it can worsen emotional experiences. Dr. Maidenberg introduces her ACE methodology — Acceptance, Compassion, and Empowerment — to help individuals ...

Finding Purpose and Authenticity with Mark Collins In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes guest Mark Collins, a pastor, coach, and author of Life Mastery: Living Life by Design. They discuss the importance of men understanding their inherent value and purpose, the dangers of false identities, and the unique impact each man can make. Mark shares his personal journey of overcoming challenges, such as fear of failure and imposter syndrome, and emphasizes the necessity of knowin...

Evolving Definitions of Masculinity and Fatherhood with Frederick Van Riper In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant speaks with Fred Van Riper, a men's relationship and leadership coach who helps men and dads lead with purpose both at home and at work. Fred shares his journey of overcoming societal and personal expectations of masculinity, the importance of emotional resilience, and how men can cultivate deeper connections with their partners and children. They discuss topics ranging ...

Navigating Life's Transitions with Authenticity and Resilience In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes guest Jon Emery, who shares his journey of personal transformation following significant life challenges, including job loss and divorce. Jon discusses the importance of knowing your values, developing a morning routine, and maintaining gratitude. He also talks about his work in podcasting, both as a host of Life's Checkmark and as a podcast coach helping others discover th...

Exploration of Inner Work and Consciousness with Markus Kasunich In this episode of 'Real Men Feel,' host Andy Grant speaks with holistic life and relationship coach Markus Kasunich. They delve deep into the journey of 'knowing thyself,' discussing topics such as Markus's near-death experience, the integration of his IRAM model, and the importance of inner work. Markus shares his insights on human conditioning, the fluidity of consciousness, and the tools needed to navigate and understand ...

Legal Thrills and Spiritual Wisdom with Bob Martin In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Bob Martin, a former mob lawyer during Miami's cocaine cowboy era who transformed into a healing and mindfulness coordinator, meditation mentor, and author. Bob shares his journey from high-powered legal battles to teaching wellness and mindfulness, blending Taoist teachings with brain science and psychology. They discuss meditation, mindfulness, the role of defense attorneys in the ju...

The Male Loneliness Epidemic: Insights from 16-Year-Old Reuben Runacres In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Reuben Runacres, a passionate 16-year-old expert in men's mental health and the male loneliness epidemic. Reuben shares his insights on why men experience loneliness, how societal changes have exacerbated this issue, and the impact of loneliness on both mental and physical health. He also discusses the potential of technology to bridge social gaps and introduces his...

Navigating Spirituality with Integrity and Avoiding Red Flags Andy Grant discusses the integration of spirituality and psychology with Katie Turner, a registered psychologist and author of 'F*ck Toxic Spirituality'. Katie shares her insights on spiritual awakenings, intuition, toxic positivity, and the importance of recognizing red flags in spiritual practices. The conversation emphasizes the need for mindfulness, emotional maturity, and shadow work to navigate the spiritual path effectively. ...

Embracing True Masculinity: A Conversation with the Irrepressible Optimist Michael Taylor In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant is joined by Michael Taylor, an inspiring author, coach, and motivational speaker known as the 'irrepressible optimist.' They discuss spirituality, religion, and viewing Jesus as a life coach. Michael shares his personal experiences of overcoming poverty, fatherless childhood, and hardships, including living in his car. The conversation touches on manifest...

Harnessing Limitless Potential After Trauma with Nick Prefontaine Real Men Feel host Andy Grant chats with Nick Prefontaine, a three-time bestselling author, top motivational speaker, and CEO of Common Goal. Nick shares his harrowing story of surviving a life-threatening snowboarding accident at age 14 and overcoming massive odds to walk, talk, and eat again. He discusses his STEP system (Support, Trust, Energy, Persistence) that he used to recover and now teaches others to navigate trauma...

From Prince to King: Embracing Emotional Growth and Redefining Masculinity In this episode of Real Men Feel, Andy Grant engages with Justin Nault, founder of Personal Evolution Coaching and Clovis, in a profound conversation about the evolution from Prince to King energy. They delve into topics like emotional suppression, societal programming, and the necessity of emotional awareness for personal and relational growth. The discussion spans Justin's transition from a music career to becoming a ...

The Joy of Letting Go In this solo episode of 'Real Men Feel,' host Andy Grant shares his personal journey of downsizing and moving to a smaller home after 24 years. He discusses the chaos and challenges of the move, including canceling a planned podcast episode. Andy reflects on being laid off from Cisco Systems and how this unexpected change led to a liberating experience of decluttering and reevaluating life's priorities. He also announces that 'Real Men Feel' is a finalist in the Signal A...

Breaking the Stigma: The Dude Project with Kyle Mitchell In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant speaks with Kyle Mitchell, a renowned mental health advocate and creator of the Dude Project. Kyle's mission is to transform the lives of one million teens from socially anxious to socially confident by changing the narrative around mental health, specifically for boys. The discussion covers the importance of mental resilience, strategies for connecting with boys, and parents' role in sup...

Embracing Emotions: The Path to Genuine Happiness with Matt O'Neill In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant engages in a deep conversation with happiness expert Matt O'Neill, discussing the societal conditioning that discourages men from expressing emotions and the journey to reclaiming their natural happiness. Matt shares his personal struggles growing up with conflicting parental influences and how these experiences propelled him into darkness, only to resurface with a mission to sp...

Transformative Journeys and the Six Rules of Happiness with Ray Martin Host Andy Grant interviews Ray Martin, a multifaceted entrepreneur, author, coach, and mindfulness teacher. Ray shares his profound journey of personal transformation, discussing the losses that led him to take a sabbatical, his experiences of running a marathon, and spending 14 years living out of a backpack. He delves into the foundational principles and six rules of happiness he discovered and shares how mindfulness and ...