Masculinity Episodes

Surviving Abuse: Patrick Leary's Four-Year Legal Battle and Advocacy for Male Victims In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with Patrick Leary, a college professor, coach, and domestic violence survivor. Patrick shares his harrowing experience of enduring false charges, navigating the legal system, and rebuilding his life after years of abuse from his former partner. Throughout the conversation, Patrick discusses the systemic challenges men face when falsely accused, the emo...

Healing Through Grief: Jason Tuttle's Journey of Love and Loss In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes guest Jason Tuttle, a former stay-at-home parent who shares his deeply personal journey of grief and healing after the loss of his special needs son, Zachary. Jason discusses the challenges he faced as a father caring for two children with significant medical issues, how their unexpected loss impacted his life, and the creation of 'Letters to Zachary' as a way to express his ...

Healing Masculinity and Femininity: A Conversation with Lux Vivens In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant speaks with Lux Vivens, a healer, health chef, artist, and ritual master. They discuss Lux's views on modern masculinity and femininity, the societal pressures men face, and the misconceptions both genders have about each other. Lux shares insights on emotional intelligence, authenticity, and the importance of service. She also delves into her work with remothering and sensual ...

The Journey to Emotional Healing with Patrick Doyle In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant interviews Patrick Doyle, a bestselling author and expert in emotional abuse recovery, addiction counseling, and spiritual leadership. Patrick shares his profound personal experiences with trauma, abuse, and addiction, which led him to help others on their paths to healing. The discussion touches on the dangers of avoiding pain, the impact of childhood trauma on emotional expression, the comp...

Balancing Sports, Academics, and Mental Health In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant interviews Walker Ferguson, a senior at Wake Forest University majoring in economics and minoring in communications. Walker is a former football player and co-founder of Ascend, a meditation and wellness app. They discuss Walker's experience balancing sports, academics, and entrepreneurship and how personal struggles led to the creation of the app. The conversation touches on the stigma around men...

Mastering Emotional Avoidance with Dr. Michelle Maidenberg In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Dr. Michelle Maidenberg, a New York-based therapist and author of 'Ace Your Life: Unleash Your Best Self and Live the Life You Want.' They delve into a master class on emotional avoidance, discussing why people engage in it and how it can worsen emotional experiences. Dr. Maidenberg introduces her ACE methodology — Acceptance, Compassion, and Empowerment — to help individuals ...

Evolving Definitions of Masculinity and Fatherhood with Frederick Van Riper In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant speaks with Fred Van Riper, a men's relationship and leadership coach who helps men and dads lead with purpose both at home and at work. Fred shares his journey of overcoming societal and personal expectations of masculinity, the importance of emotional resilience, and how men can cultivate deeper connections with their partners and children. They discuss topics ranging ...

Navigating Life's Transitions with Authenticity and Resilience In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes guest Jon Emery, who shares his journey of personal transformation following significant life challenges, including job loss and divorce. Jon discusses the importance of knowing your values, developing a morning routine, and maintaining gratitude. He also talks about his work in podcasting, both as a host of Life's Checkmark and as a podcast coach helping others discover th...

The Male Loneliness Epidemic: Insights from 16-Year-Old Reuben Runacres In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Reuben Runacres, a passionate 16-year-old expert in men's mental health and the male loneliness epidemic. Reuben shares his insights on why men experience loneliness, how societal changes have exacerbated this issue, and the impact of loneliness on both mental and physical health. He also discusses the potential of technology to bridge social gaps and introduces his...

Embracing True Masculinity: A Conversation with the Irrepressible Optimist Michael Taylor In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant is joined by Michael Taylor, an inspiring author, coach, and motivational speaker known as the 'irrepressible optimist.' They discuss spirituality, religion, and viewing Jesus as a life coach. Michael shares his personal experiences of overcoming poverty, fatherless childhood, and hardships, including living in his car. The conversation touches on manifest...

From Prince to King: Embracing Emotional Growth and Redefining Masculinity In this episode of Real Men Feel, Andy Grant engages with Justin Nault, founder of Personal Evolution Coaching and Clovis, in a profound conversation about the evolution from Prince to King energy. They delve into topics like emotional suppression, societal programming, and the necessity of emotional awareness for personal and relational growth. The discussion spans Justin's transition from a music career to becoming a ...

Embracing Emotions: The Path to Genuine Happiness with Matt O'Neill In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant engages in a deep conversation with happiness expert Matt O'Neill, discussing the societal conditioning that discourages men from expressing emotions and the journey to reclaiming their natural happiness. Matt shares his personal struggles growing up with conflicting parental influences and how these experiences propelled him into darkness, only to resurface with a mission to sp...

Understanding and Strengthening Modern Relationships with Kristal DeSantis In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant discusses with Kristal DeSantis, a licensed marriage and family therapist, her expertise in trauma work and relationships. Kristal shares her journey from avoiding marriage to becoming a leading authority in relational therapy. She insightfully states, 'I wanted my practice to reflect two things: tactical skills and a strength-forward approach.’ They delve into Kristal'...

Rediscovering Humanity and Integrity: A Conversation with Colin Kingsmill on Real Men Feel In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant talks with Colin Kingsmill, a former Swiss banker turned healer and advocate for the Enough Already movement. They delve into topics such as success, worthiness, and the need for a deeper human connection. Colin shares his personal journey from corporate success to fulfillment in serving others, highlighting the significance of living with integrity and c...

Real Men Feel: Embracing Authenticity with Jason Lange In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Jason Lange, a men's embodiment coach and certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach. They discuss the origins and impact of nice guy syndrome, the importance of men's groups for growth and support, and the journey toward authenticity and emotional expression. Jason shares insights into how nice guys are created, the significance of setting boundaries, and the role of men's work in foste...

Generational Healing and Integrating Masculine and Feminine Energies with Gao Motsemme In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes Gao Motsemme, a psychic surgeon and embodiment queen dedicated to helping individuals break free from patterns of generational toxic relationships. Gao discusses her journey into ancestral healing, energy work, and the importance of connecting with one's inner child and sexual energy. The conversation delves into the integration of masculine and femin...

Exploring the Flavors of Emotions with Kim Korte In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant converses with Kim Korte, a sensory perception and emotion management strategist. Kim explains her unique metaphor for emotions, comparing them to flavors and cooking ingredients. They discuss how emotions are formed, the impact of memories, and the importance of acknowledging and working through emotions rather than suppressing them. Kim shares insights from her book, 'Yucky Yummy Savory Sweet: U...

In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant welcomes pioneering coach and author Owen Marcus, who discusses integrating emotional physiology, attachment theory, and somatic therapies into men's emotional connection and leadership development. Owen shares insights from his new community, MELD, which focuses on men's emotional leadership development. They explore diverse subjects such as rolfing, polyvagal theory, anti-fragility, and the importance of co-regulation and vulnerability in emot...

In this episode of Real Men Feel, host Andy Grant interviews psychotherapist Marc Azoulay about the unique challenges and shortcomings of traditional therapy for men. Marc shares his personal journey from client to therapist, highlighting how his own struggles with addiction and identity shaped his approach to helping men. The discussion delves into the importance of challenging men within a supportive community, the need for both masculine and feminine love in therapy, and the transformative p...

Leadership In Chaotic Times | Principles of Harmonic Leadership "Lots of people are seeing the world in a negative way right now. So many people are waiting for someone else to come along and fix it." My returning guest today is James Greenshields. James is a husband of over 20 years and an honored father of two amazing women; he served 17 years as an Australian Army Officer and woke up in combat. With over 14 years post-military, James has Co-Founded and been the Lead Facilitator for Leadershi...

Today, we are exploring the power of words, especially the words we use when talking to ourselves. I'm going to share some tips on moving from belittling language to empowering phrases that you can use in your self-dialogue and conversations with others. One of my favorite things about coaching clients is listening and noticing what words they repeat the most and then pointing out how often their own words are working against them. Our words express our subconscious beliefs. They also expr...

Earlier today, I was part of a Let's Talk Fabulous panel discussing positive male role models. I enjoyed that conversation so much that I want to share more in a motor-mouth 10-minute brain dump. Topics Include What male role models did you see/have while growing up? What do you think are traits of a positive male role model? If the person who taught you what it means to be a man, through their words or actions, was a miserable bastard -- why would you continue to follow their example? ...